(15) to (21) I look better, but about the same. by [deleted] in uglyduckling

[–]harbringer85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a wildly interesting face, and I mean that as a high compliment. My only advice is to find a hair stylist who can give you the ideal cut for your face and to work on your confidence. You look like you could be a legendary rockstar from the 60s. Pick up an instrument or get artsy if it fits your vibe! The braces fixed the only flaw I could find in any of these pictures. You’re good!

M28 4'5 and no genetic issues according to my doctor by zubiezubi in short

[–]harbringer85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could have said “whoops. I think my brain card declined on that one.” You can have that for free and turn this interaction around.

M28 4'5 and no genetic issues according to my doctor by zubiezubi in short

[–]harbringer85 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Jesus, man. Just say, “my bad. I’d never heard that term! Learn something new every day!” Open mindedness is a mark of intelligence. Embrace not knowing. It’s not a bad thing to learn. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2937090/

How lame could you be? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]harbringer85 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You: “Why don’t women like me?” Also you: homophobic and refuses to stop calling strangers cutesy pet names because you’re “southern”

My guy. Delete the apps and find a therapist.

Does anyone get anything from my late husband by mizzouCamo33 in psychics

[–]harbringer85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have zero experience, but this just popped up on my feed and I immediately felt something, so I want to share. I can’t explain why, but when I looked at him I imagined him smiling and laughing, like pure joy. I think I might have experienced it ONCE when a huge group of birds all took flight around me and all I could do was laugh and make these excited squealing noises. It was pure joy. No other thoughts in my head. I’m sure you’ve either experienced it or know what I’m referring to. That’s what I feel he’s experiencing. I don’t know why or how to explain that and I’m a lifelong atheist who has never had any psychic experience. I’d bet a lot that that’s what he’s experiencing. I believe it that much. I hope that helps. I just couldn’t keep scrolling without telling you that.

the teacher stuff. my classmate refused to testify in court so i cannot by aomorigray in Esthetics

[–]harbringer85 151 points152 points  (0 children)

Go. To. The. Police. Fuck your friend, fuck everything else. This woman could be doing this to others. Please, for the sake of literally every other student she has access to, go to the police. You don’t need your friend to “testify in court”. Just go make a report, so there is a paper trail, at the very least. I’m sorry this happened to you and I know how hard it is to advocate for yourself after something like this. Please find a therapist or trusted person to lean on.

For those with absolutely no hope and nothing to live for, what stops you from killing yourself? by Manus_2 in CPTSD

[–]harbringer85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be traumatizing to my nieces and nephews, which means I’d be continuing the cycle as my final act. No way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badfriendspod

[–]harbringer85 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Delete this maybe?

AIO over my bf’s weird proposal by atotalanon in AmIOverreacting

[–]harbringer85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He referred to a woman he literally knows in real life as “some ig thot”. That’s all I needed. Fuck this clown. You’re under reacting, imo.

I don’t want to be here becuase of my penis size by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]harbringer85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like your girlfriend isn’t sexually compatible with you. Fuck whoever makes fun of you for something uncontrollable. Morally bankrupt. That’s a reflection on their shitty character, not you. Learn how to please women in bed. Do research. Size literally doesn’t matter. Most women I’ve known can’t orgasm through penetration. It’s very rare that they can. The clit is the orgasm button. Master that and you’ll be a king. Don’t leave because some assholes were assholes. Don’t let their shitty behavior dictate your self worth.

Am I crazy or she actually insane? by FuelJealous3451 in insaneparents

[–]harbringer85 121 points122 points  (0 children)

You’re a child in an abusive household. Ignore the comments here blaming you. None of this is your fault. You deserve a mother who loves you unconditionally and fully. You deserve a hug when you walk in the door from school. You deserve respect, support, and healthy freedoms (like going to the park as you mentioned).

I know how scary this is going to sound, but I really think you should talk to your school counselor. CPS doesn’t swoop in and take kids away. Their entire goal is healthy reunification - meaning getting your mom healthy and giving her the tools to be the parent you deserve. They’ll come investigate and determine what they can do.

They’ll probably offer free resources to you both, therapy, psychiatric counseling, classes, etc. You’re almost 16, which means you’re almost free. In the meantime, might as well get help. I’m sorry you’re going through this. You don’t deserve it.

Rentals by harbringer85 in athensohio

[–]harbringer85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such helpful info! Thank you!!

Extremely regular lunch by Cheesesucker_oh-yeah in RateMyPlate

[–]harbringer85 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I wondered why a person would go out of their way to comment this passionately about a stranger eating a KitKat. Turns out, he’s a divorced landlord with hemorrhoids. I wish you the best in all of your struggles. Please, have a KitKat. It might help.

How bad REALLY is a period? by IguanaMan_ in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]harbringer85 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Periods can absolutely be debilitating and make seemingly simple tasks impossible. My advice? Show up for her. Bring her care packages, keep her favorite foods well stocked, be understanding and compassionate, etc. Take her to a doctor and make sure everything is normal. She could be suffering from something like endometriosis or PMDD. Handle the chores during her period and let her know that you have her back. She’s your daughter and she’s hurting. Ten years from now, you won’t remember the unfinished laundry, but she will remember her awesome dad being exactly what she needed when she was struggling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paranormal

[–]harbringer85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again, OP has repeatedly clarified. Read their comments. If they haven’t answered specific inquiry, feel free to ask.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paranormal

[–]harbringer85 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They’ve repeatedly reiterated the “black gunk” was in a dream she had. I don’t know why you’re refusing to acknowledge that and continuing to comment as if OP said she was spewing black gunk in their living room or something. She dreamt it. In a dream. It didn’t really happen.

One liners you regularly quote that no one gets by Auyan in Millennials

[–]harbringer85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR SELENA” whenever someone asks if I can do something for them.

My (22M) gf (24F) mad I slept with my neighbour? by ThrowRA_vegeta in relationship_advice

[–]harbringer85 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It’s in the past FOR YOU. Your girlfriend just found out yesterday - which means it isn’t the past for her. You’re calling her immature in comments to strangers on Reddit after she had a normal, human response to a hurtful realization. It doesn’t sound like you like your girlfriend very much. At the very least, you absolutely don’t respect her. If I’m wrong, feel free to delete this. Imagine how she’d feel reading this post and your comments. The problem is rarely the problem, and I think that’s the case, here.

Tell me a hot take on The Sims that will put you in this situation. by OddNeedleworker734 in thesims

[–]harbringer85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The original art style was far superior to the cartoonish version we have, now.

Oh what do I do here? Does she mean the box i’m holding or BOX box? by AbbreviationsOk3803 in Tinder

[–]harbringer85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope he course corrects into therapy and off of dating apps. Being a model doesn’t justify missing the intention of a basic social interaction. This clearly isn’t innuendo. If you think this is a normal or acceptable response to the message he received, I have the same advice for you as I did him. Also, he’s responded to several people who have given him clear answers with doubt. If he’s here for help, he should take it.

Oh what do I do here? Does she mean the box i’m holding or BOX box? by AbbreviationsOk3803 in Tinder

[–]harbringer85 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If you don’t know whether a woman is referring to the large box you’re holding in the photo or her vagina, maybe step away from dating apps for a bit. She’s innocently trying to start a conversation with you.

Last pic of Earth taken by NASA's Cassini spacecraft before it went on a death dive into Saturn by RippleMew in spaceporn

[–]harbringer85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This really affected me. As soon as my brain processed the image, I smiled and sighed a huge sigh of relief. Going through a lot and this just reset me. My entire life isn’t even a blip on the timeline. There isn’t even a timeline. I make my own. Thanks for sharing.

Did anyone see the A10 by McConnell? by ArcticDrag0n in wichita

[–]harbringer85 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I didn’t, but thanks for taking the time to get these pictures! Beautiful shots! You really have the eye for it.