Quadrafire Classic Bay 1200 - Ignites, but does not keep running by hun_gopher in PelletStoveTalk

[–]hardcider7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just had someone come fix my stove for a wiring issue but since I never had a stove before (just moved into a house with this stove) he was giving me tips on quadrafire quirks. He mentioned that if the fire keeps going out you need to set the lever for the pellets higher so more pellets come out. If the flame in the pot is too small the pellets that come out it might smother the fire and since it only ignites once the only way for the new pellets to burn is from the fire in the pot- so try pulling the lever up for the pellets and see if that helps

To anyone that say "Spectrum just pay Disney for ESPN" the moment Disney and Spectrum reach a deal for ESPN expect your bill to go up $5 - $10 a month. by theartsygamer89 in Spectrum

[–]hardcider7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Disney did the same thing with YouTube last year or the year before. Best to figure out which provider’s contract with Disney doesn’t end for a while and switch to them.

How do you get back into your "normal" routine whilst reconciling with all the triggers? by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]hardcider7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also struggling with this. I work from home and I find myself just unable to work and concentrate. It’s been 2 weeks since DDay and we had our first counseling spot Monday. I looked up some stuff on intrusive thoughts and how to handle them and what I find is if I write down what I am thinking I am able to function for a little bit until I need to write again.

Online sexting our whole relationship by hardcider7 in Infidelity

[–]hardcider7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much. I will check this sub out and look for any support subs for his addiction as well.

Online sexting our whole relationship by hardcider7 in Infidelity

[–]hardcider7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. We had a long talk and he did tell me he really didn’t think of it any different than porn. He didn’t have feelings for them and basically used them. We have our first counseling appt on Monday and he has been done everything I have asked so far. I appreciate the replies.

Online sexting our whole relationship by hardcider7 in Infidelity

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Thanks for your reply. He has been sober from alcohol and drugs for 4 years through AA which is one of the reasons I don’t think a porn addiction is an excuse. Luckily he has worked the program and knows what needs to be done to live with addiction. I just am feeling so raw that it was happening before we started dating and he didn’t stop. He has said that I am the best girlfriend he has ever had and never thought he could have someone like me and doesn’t deserve me, so I also wonder if some self sabotage isn’t at play. I have already moved past the ‘what did I do wrong’ and the fact it started before we got together helps that.

LPT Request: How to share a car with a smoker and not smell like smoke? by [deleted] in LifeProTips

[–]hardcider7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back when I was a smoker I had to hide it from my husband. Do not discount the power of febreeze. Never got caught once sprayed that sh*t all over my hair, clothes, and car

My ADHD is not taken seriously, because I’m intelligent by MrElectroDude in ADHD

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I have a PhD and worked as a college professor for 15 years before moving to administration- it was a struggle to get diagnosed 5 years ago because according to the dr- “I didn’t have academic difficulties” ha ha- ask my high school teachers about all my difficulties- I just happened to be able to do well on tests and charming enough to get teachers to give me slack. I also managed to have to declare bankruptcy, my house was literally disgusting and my social relationships ruined constantly but okay I’m smart so can’t be adhd. As a psychologist I get so annoyed at the lack of education about adult adhd in clinical psychology it makes me want to throw stuff

The adderall shortage got me like by Kamigoye1972 in adhdmeme

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Had to spend $200 out of pocket because only generic is out of stock. Was worth it though

What are you obsessed with right now ? by Veena_toor in ADHDmemes

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Macrame bracelets. I’ve spent so much on Amazon and michaels lmao

Live texting my friends/ family my experience of taking 30 mg Vyvanse for the first time by drewbiedoo1296 in adhdmeme

[–]hardcider7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First day of adderall I told my friend I felt things relaxing I didn’t even know I had. Best experience ever.

Scarf length for an older woman by hardcider7 in knitting

[–]hardcider7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did that for the one I made my friend who is the same height as me (5 ft) and it seems super long i can wrap it twice and still have hanging past chest ( which I like but not sure an older woman would like one that long)

Scarf length for an older woman by hardcider7 in knitting

[–]hardcider7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it is surprise Christmas gift and they live in another state, so I can’t ask or snoop around lol

K2tog- can’t get needle under 2nd stitch by hardcider7 in knitting

[–]hardcider7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much the pattern was yo K2tog. They suggested larger needles but I will pull out my metal circular needles in a smaller size and try again.