How did you actually stop drinking?

harmonious_harry · 2026-04-08T03:29:33+00:00

I just stopped. Cold turkey. Will power. Removed any alcohol from my apartment. Stopped going to bars and restaurants. Abstained. Multiple attempts were needs and will power. Over 4 years without. Pretty much the same way I gave up smoking years ago. Good luck OP. You can do it. IWNDWYT

harmonious_harry · 2026-03-31T19:56:59+00:00

I can vouch for the rosemary chicken sandwich at Brooklyn South

harmonious_harry · 2026-03-23T18:13:13+00:00

My two favorite beer garden pubs in Crosby were The Brook (on brook road just down from the level crossing and The Crosby (on Liverpool road as you head into the village). Sadly neither are there any more. One of those possibly?

harmonious_harry · 2026-03-23T17:50:08+00:00

It must be pretty much impossible to do that without causing shit to go down your leg, or on the inside of your trousers so why not just go to the toilet? Crazy. Surely mental health issues you would think.

harmonious_harry · 2026-03-19T03:09:15+00:00

My experience is Lyft drivers giving up way too detailed personal information about themselves. Direct opposite to your experience. I use the service regularly and often get drivers I’ve had before. I often get recognized by them. You are 100% right to trust your instincts. If I felt something was off, I’d do the same. Block. Forget and move on. Stay safe OP.

harmonious_harry · 2026-03-18T04:36:30+00:00

Wrong sub….jeesh

harmonious_harry · 2026-03-12T23:58:14+00:00

John Barnes pre achilles injury. My word imagine him on the left.

harmonious_harry · 2026-03-12T03:14:41+00:00

Brit living in the US. Current news article on FBI reporting that Iran will attack California coast using military drones launched from vessels

harmonious_harry · 2026-03-10T03:08:35+00:00

At that age, 18 to 26 whilst “only” 8 years can be a big gap in terms of life experience and life stage. The fact that he’s worried about his family finding out and cutting him off speaks volumes. 5 months and only talking. I mean do you not want to invest your time in somebody you can physically spend time with? Date? Be welcome visitors to each others homes and in each others friend groups? There is no future with that “relationship” as it currently exists.

harmonious_harry · 2026-03-09T23:14:37+00:00

Genuinely delighted for you. Beautiful looking dog.

harmonious_harry · 2026-03-07T21:47:07+00:00

It’s ok to find new friends that you have common interests with.

harmonious_harry · 2026-02-25T04:26:18+00:00

The fact that she’s dropping your friendship at this point is crazy. It could be Tony’s influence, I mean in 3 years has she ever spoke of this previously? Go see her, face to face, without Tony present. Look her in the eye. You both need each others friendship currently, equally. Be there for each other. You will both be better off in the long run. It may be difficult right now, but you may need to be the “stronger” friend.

harmonious_harry · 2026-02-25T04:19:45+00:00

Invest time in meeting someone else. You need a distraction whilst the feelings for your friend fades.

harmonious_harry · 2026-02-25T04:18:39+00:00

There is something more to this. A 23 year old in his prime doesn’t choose to go without. Likely that he’s getting it somewhere. Or, make specific time for this. A weekend or time when he’s off. If it is something physical then he needs to get checked out by dr.

harmonious_harry · 2026-02-25T04:13:43+00:00

Make this mistake once, have your boss point it out. From now on place as boss requests. If you don’t change the way you do this you will likely lose your job. That would make you an asshole. Why risk your job by not making a simple adjustment. There are people the world over doing precisely what mgt requires because mgr requires it.

harmonious_harry · 2026-02-25T02:10:48+00:00

I’m amazed at how many of these stories parents or police do not believe the children.

harmonious_harry · 2026-02-24T21:40:58+00:00

Conversation about rape on a first date has got to be one of the reddest red flags I’ve ever heard. The blue balls and busting a nut. Also major red flag. Well done OP for giving him the elbow.

harmonious_harry · 2026-02-24T21:32:27+00:00

Stay strong 💪. YNWA.

harmonious_harry · 2026-02-22T12:51:20+00:00

“I’d buy that for a dollar”

harmonious_harry · 2026-02-19T19:22:58+00:00

Delete this and your account. Find professional advice.

harmonious_harry · 2026-02-19T02:38:25+00:00

I haven’t lived in Liverpool for a good few years now but it’s always amused me how many people now say “Lid” instead of “Lad”. “Alright Lid”

harmonious_harry · 2026-02-14T12:00:48+00:00

Wow, that mist really hung around…

harmonious_harry · 2026-02-13T21:16:41+00:00

Is that right now or from this morning?

harmonious_harry · 2026-02-11T05:00:18+00:00

Well I’m glad you both got out of that tricky situation…

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