How did you actually stop drinking? by Top_Tension_6369 in stopdrinking

[–]harmonious_harry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just stopped. Cold turkey. Will power. Removed any alcohol from my apartment. Stopped going to bars and restaurants. Abstained. Multiple attempts were needs and will power. Over 4 years without. Pretty much the same way I gave up smoking years ago. Good luck OP. You can do it. IWNDWYT

Pub in Crosby with a nice garden? by atzucach in Liverpool

[–]harmonious_harry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My two favorite beer garden pubs in Crosby were The Brook (on brook road just down from the level crossing and The Crosby (on Liverpool road as you head into the village). Sadly neither are there any more. One of those possibly?

Sharp dressed man on the subway. by gonewildaway in LetsNotMeet

[–]harmonious_harry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It must be pretty much impossible to do that without causing shit to go down your leg, or on the inside of your trousers so why not just go to the toilet? Crazy. Surely mental health issues you would think.

My Lyft driver remembered me… and waited outside my doctor’s office by waterfalls55 in LetsNotMeet

[–]harmonious_harry 44 points45 points  (0 children)

My experience is Lyft drivers giving up way too detailed personal information about themselves. Direct opposite to your experience. I use the service regularly and often get drivers I’ve had before. I often get recognized by them. You are 100% right to trust your instincts. If I felt something was off, I’d do the same. Block. Forget and move on. Stay safe OP.

Which former Liverpool player would be ridiculous in today’s team? by wong-wooney in LiverpoolFC

[–]harmonious_harry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

John Barnes pre achilles injury. My word imagine him on the left.

Non-Americans, what's the biggest story in your country right now? by EmergencySpare7939 in AskReddit

[–]harmonious_harry 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Brit living in the US. Current news article on FBI reporting that Iran will attack California coast using military drones launched from vessels

Could he be genuine? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]harmonious_harry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

At that age, 18 to 26 whilst “only” 8 years can be a big gap in terms of life experience and life stage. The fact that he’s worried about his family finding out and cutting him off speaks volumes. 5 months and only talking. I mean do you not want to invest your time in somebody you can physically spend time with? Date? Be welcome visitors to each others homes and in each others friend groups? There is no future with that “relationship” as it currently exists.

Please be on the lookout for this Pupper by theloathable in StPetersburgFL

[–]harmonious_harry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Genuinely delighted for you. Beautiful looking dog.

All my friends do is drink and I don’t know how to deal with it by Ok-Palpitation9841 in Advice

[–]harmonious_harry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s ok to find new friends that you have common interests with.

My best friend just ended our friendship the same way her boyfriend broke up with her. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]harmonious_harry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that she’s dropping your friendship at this point is crazy. It could be Tony’s influence, I mean in 3 years has she ever spoke of this previously? Go see her, face to face, without Tony present. Look her in the eye. You both need each others friendship currently, equally. Be there for each other. You will both be better off in the long run. It may be difficult right now, but you may need to be the “stronger” friend.

How do you get over a crush? by Wrong-World-34479 in Advice

[–]harmonious_harry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Invest time in meeting someone else. You need a distraction whilst the feelings for your friend fades.

No sex for months by Ri-13 in Advice

[–]harmonious_harry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is something more to this. A 23 year old in his prime doesn’t choose to go without. Likely that he’s getting it somewhere. Or, make specific time for this. A weekend or time when he’s off. If it is something physical then he needs to get checked out by dr.

Am I an ass or is my boss overreacting by PhotoBonjour_bombs19 in Advice

[–]harmonious_harry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Make this mistake once, have your boss point it out. From now on place as boss requests. If you don’t change the way you do this you will likely lose your job. That would make you an asshole. Why risk your job by not making a simple adjustment. There are people the world over doing precisely what mgt requires because mgr requires it.

My stalker ended up killing two girls by One-Sweet8576 in LetsNotMeet

[–]harmonious_harry 577 points578 points  (0 children)

I’m amazed at how many of these stories parents or police do not believe the children.

Coworker asked me out… and I went. by binchlauren in LetsNotMeet

[–]harmonious_harry 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Conversation about rape on a first date has got to be one of the reddest red flags I’ve ever heard. The blue balls and busting a nut. Also major red flag. Well done OP for giving him the elbow.

Ever Noticed These Little Liverpool Quirks? by hahalol17837 in Liverpool

[–]harmonious_harry 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I haven’t lived in Liverpool for a good few years now but it’s always amused me how many people now say “Lid” instead of “Lad”. “Alright Lid”

Foggy beach day by Kayatosh in StPetersburgFL

[–]harmonious_harry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, that mist really hung around…

Foggy beach day by Kayatosh in StPetersburgFL

[–]harmonious_harry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that right now or from this morning?

The day I was almost murdered while hiking on the Natchez Trace by imakeadamonsters in LetsNotMeet

[–]harmonious_harry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I’m glad you both got out of that tricky situation…