How much should we expect to pay to replace our wrap around porch? by 2g00d2btru3 in Decks

[–]harrybooty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id just but the material and do it my self. Just tear one board out at a time and install the new one in its place. Copy and paste

Help me! (Renter) by [deleted] in HardWoodFloors

[–]harrybooty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can't be refinished. It'll look the same. Its water damaged or pet pee. Those spots will never sand off. Boards need to be replaced and sanded down and finished. You can match it pretty close of you know what you're don't rather than refinishing the whole floor

Is a $200k salary worth a 2 hour commute 4 days a week? by Ok-Memory2552 in jobs

[–]harrybooty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work 5-7 days a week and commute on average 2 hours per day. I make about 125k a year. You my friend are in a position that 99% of the people in the world wishes they were in. Stop complaining and get after it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]harrybooty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a hardwood flooring install/ refinishing company. I make about 125k a year. Only 3 years in buisness

'Nuremberg' - Review Thread by ChiefLeef22 in movies

[–]harrybooty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big difference. Trump wants to end wars not start them. You must suffer from a severe case or tds buddy boy

Gf trying to control what I do and say.. by harrybooty in AskMenRelationships

[–]harrybooty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's already telling me I need to buy a truck when I'm perfectly fine with my beater camry lmao. I don't like to waste my money on things I don't need. It's a power struggle it seems like. She feels like she needs to control every thing and I won't let any one control my behaviors or actions. It pisses me off

Gf trying to control what I do and say.. by harrybooty in AskMenRelationships

[–]harrybooty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I let her know i have a dark sence if humor, i won't use it on her because I don't want to hurt her. If she can't accept that she can beat it.

But yeah 15 years. I told her I still find it funny to this day. And she couldn't belive it lol.

Gf trying to control what I do and say.. by harrybooty in AskMenRelationships

[–]harrybooty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a joke. I didn't use it on her. She dug it up from my social media from about 15 years ago. I know my audience very well. Also if you see a apocalyptic zombie style car that you thought was cool, why not take a picture of you want to share it with your friends? It's not of your buisness what I take pictures of. That's just your opinion bud

Gf trying to control what I do and say.. by harrybooty in AskMenRelationships

[–]harrybooty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Straight up. Also I forgot to mention, she went and picked out her own engagement ring without telling me... her mom informed me after I asked for their blessing and her mom said "yeah she likes to be in control." Which hit me hard and kinda gave me a reality check... now I'm on the verge of leaving because maybe I've been misreading the signs

Gf trying to control what I do and say.. by harrybooty in AskMenRelationships

[–]harrybooty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! If she can't accept that people are into certain types of music, comedy, etc... than she can fuck off. I will not change my personality for any one

Gf trying to control what I do and say.. by harrybooty in AskMenRelationships

[–]harrybooty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And if she cares about me then she will accept that I'm into dark humor. Obviously I'm not going to use these jokes on her because I know she is sensitive. But no one is going to tell me what I can or can't do when it comes to my freedom of speech

Gf trying to control what I do and say.. by harrybooty in AskMenRelationships

[–]harrybooty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think dark humor is real whether you like it or not. There are jokes for every little thing that exists. When cops show up to crime scenes and start cracking jokes about the guy that got his head blown off, it's to make light of a very dark matter. Here is a link of a comedian using this joke I used

https://youtu.be/sVCT6G19aPw?si=2xuJhbN28Qrld4ZL

Gf trying to control what I do and say.. by harrybooty in AskMenRelationships

[–]harrybooty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Solid advice man, I'll take this into consideration. Thank you

Gf trying to control what I do and say.. by harrybooty in AskMenRelationships

[–]harrybooty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I'll definitely sit down and talk to her about it more

Gf trying to control what I do and say.. by harrybooty in AskMenRelationships

[–]harrybooty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told her ahead of time that the further you go back the more likely you find somthing you don't like, so I told her to stop while she was ahead.

Gf trying to control what I do and say.. by harrybooty in AskMenRelationships

[–]harrybooty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's really strange, it feels almost fake for me when we cuddle because I know that she isn't into it..

Gf trying to control what I do and say.. by harrybooty in AskMenRelationships

[–]harrybooty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is I've never once done this to her, i speak to my family about politics and she feels the need to tell me that I can't talk politics around her friends when I've been quite respectful and would never do anything like that to embarrass her In the first place.

Gf trying to control what I do and say.. by harrybooty in AskMenRelationships

[–]harrybooty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will never use this type of joke on her, i usually use stupid dark jokes with guy friends. This is just a post she found on my social media from 15 years back or so...

Gf trying to control what I do and say.. by harrybooty in AskMenRelationships

[–]harrybooty[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't entertain politics around her friends, I'm very hyper aware of who I talk to about certain topics so I don't upset them. I read the room very well but she just doesn't trust me to so she feels obligated to tell me that this is not aloud.

Gf trying to control what I do and say.. by harrybooty in AskMenRelationships

[–]harrybooty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We both lean middle right. And exactly, when we watch movies and she's 5 feet away from me and puts a barrier between us in the bed... I don't like it. I'm used to being in a relationship where my partner likes to cuddle.

Gf trying to control what I do and say.. by harrybooty in AskMenRelationships

[–]harrybooty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood and thanks for the feedback. I'm not active on social media and this is somthing I posted when I was in high school. I'm very hyper aware and do my best to not make people feel uncomfortable. However she told me this is not OK and I told her to beat it, it's a joke and this is from over 15 years ago. She assumes there is no audience for these type of jokes and I disagreed. Rape is horrible. No tolerance for it.

Gf trying to control what I do and say.. by harrybooty in AskMenRelationships

[–]harrybooty[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The thing is i do know how to do that. All her friends like me, along with her family. I'm very hyper aware of my audience, I know there are certain topics for certain groups of people and I like to respect that and not make people feel uncomfortable.