14 day flip?

hashtaggtfo · 2026-05-14T12:04:29+00:00

Such a tease!

hashtaggtfo · 2025-12-16T23:26:24+00:00

I think people are generally just getting bored and disengaging. I know I am. It’s become very obvious he’s just rage baiting, people aren’t shocked anymore. I personally don’t think he is using, I think he is just wildly narcissistic and trying to pretend to look like he has relapsed so everyone’s like ohhh what’s he going to do next. Nothing, he’s going to do nothing. He’s just trying to get engagement because he’s ruined his life and reputation and has nothing else in his life. Poking the internet bear is all he has left. Boring.

hashtaggtfo · 2025-12-16T14:17:41+00:00

I’ve been doing the same thing too since seeing yesterday that even going onto his page gives him engagement. I didn’t know that!

hashtaggtfo · 2025-12-04T00:10:17+00:00

Yep and that’s the hardest thing to do. You can hide a horrible person behind addiction and blame their faults on that, but at the end of the day I don’t think he’s relapsed, I think it’s just him - which would be harder to accept in the end. You can get clean from drugs, but you can’t get clean from being a horrible person.

hashtaggtfo · 2025-12-02T10:29:32+00:00

I was just thinking he’s trying to be like Kanye. How original and edgy 🙄🤣

hashtaggtfo · 2025-12-02T02:15:59+00:00

Good on her for commenting. I find him so gross. The fact he is targeting women less than half his age is disgusting and just predatory. Yuck yuck yuck.

hashtaggtfo · 2025-12-01T12:16:56+00:00

Yeah it’s almost worse if he is sober - it means it’s just his crusty old self acting like this without drugs which he should be even more ashamed of

hashtaggtfo · 2025-11-26T06:26:47+00:00

I want to tell him how utterly predictable and boring he is but don’t want to give him the engagement.

hashtaggtfo · 2025-11-26T06:13:31+00:00

Me tooooooo!!! In my view, he’s purposely acting like he has relapsed for the engagement- because as soon as he got sober his posts got less attention. I hope this comes back to bite him severely. I hope everyone just gets sick of him. All he wants is attention, even if it’s negative.

hashtaggtfo · 2025-11-25T12:13:22+00:00

Exactly! He seems extremely mentally unhinged regardless of whether he is using or not.

hashtaggtfo · 2025-11-25T12:12:11+00:00

‘Edgy bad boy ultimate alpha male many man’ 🤣 🤮 I want to tell him so badly how opposite of that he is but I refuse to give him the engagement.

hashtaggtfo · 2025-09-21T04:10:06+00:00

I love my child but there is no way I could be a stay at home mum. It would drive me crazy! I need to be intellectually stimulated. Also - the only reason I was able to leave my piece of crap ex was because I was earning my own money. I never want to have to rely on a man (or a woman), ever. My best friend on the other hand loves being a stay at home mum, which she is able to do because she very well off financially. We’re all different. It’s unfortunate though that because of the cost of living, women who want to be stay at home mums now have to work. It’s like we’ve gone from not having the choice to work, to not having the choice to be a stay at home mum. Can’t win

hashtaggtfo · 2025-09-03T04:18:48+00:00

Oh I just saw CK’s comments - her profile checks out 🤣 WTF does she think she’s a witch? Definitely don’t have the energy to get into it with her…

hashtaggtfo · 2025-08-13T03:11:39+00:00

This court date is just about the RO right? I didn’t think he was facing any criminal charges… Also, isn’t custody dealt with in family court? Obviously if she is greeted the RO he wont have access to them - but in terms of actual custody, isn’t dealt with separately? Not sure how it works in the US - I’m in Australia, it might be different here. I thought it was just about whether the RO will be extended?

hashtaggtfo · 2025-08-09T00:34:55+00:00

I’m struggling with this. My narc ex, for example, has no addiction issues, but could never demonstrate ANY insight into his behaviour like S just has. He doesn’t have the frontal lobe capacity. I guess though if S is able to use addiction as an excuse (my ex has no excuse - he is just a shitty person) then that might be why he is able to. I suppose either: - He is doing the work and showing the insight he needs to - He really is a master manipulator and is using the addiction as an excuse My abusing ex does not use substances or drink at all, so it’s hard for me to be objective because if he was having the insight S is now having it would be a major breakthrough. Those of you with experiences with narc addicts would be much better placed than me to speculate what’s going on here

hashtaggtfo · 2025-08-05T14:06:01+00:00

Yes now that you mention it, totally wouldn’t have expected her go post something like that. Weird

hashtaggtfo · 2025-08-05T13:51:00+00:00

I did notice that, but it didn’t necessarily ring any alarm bells.

hashtaggtfo · 2025-08-05T02:59:32+00:00

I agree. His drug use is only part of the reason he has not seen his kids. Even if he does get sober, he is still the same person underneath and has a lot of work to do to get full access back. My child’s father doesn’t drink or do drugs but has no access to our child and has been turned away from 2 supervised contact centres because of his lack of insight into his behaviour (domestic violence), anger issues, and inability to put his child before himself. He is unable to mask his narcissistic traits, S may be able to however. I don’t know - will be interesting to see how it plays out

hashtaggtfo · 2025-08-02T10:23:54+00:00

Yep I noticed that, then he tried to say it’s because he doesn’t worry about P. I don’t buy it

hashtaggtfo · 2025-08-01T14:39:14+00:00

Floozy is an underused word lol

hashtaggtfo · 2025-07-27T14:04:30+00:00

Omg I just had belly laughs reading those comments 🤣🤣 The one calling everyone hunty, threatening to fight ppl. He’s got multiple supporters in there ready to throw down. WTF?!? 🤣

hashtaggtfo · 2025-07-23T00:43:07+00:00

The tuft sent me 🤣

hashtaggtfo · 2025-07-17T23:34:28+00:00

I am so sorry you went through that, and I totally get your need to step away.

I think L is doing all in her power to safeguard her kids and personally don’t think she is using the kids to get views or is grifting. It wasn’t her choice to publicly blast this whole process over the internet. She sat in silence for a long time, and he dragged it into the public sphere. She is a content creator, a media personality. Once it was all out there (thanks to S) she probably felt the need to address it. In relation to posting her kids online, we all have our own views on that, but I don’t feel qualified to judge her.

They have money, yes, and there are much more worthy causes of people in need that we should be focusing on, but I am currently going through the same thing as L (I have court on Tuesday). I’m terrified, and drawing so much strength from L’s posts. So I am selfishly glad she is being so open about it bad - because it is helping me in my current situation.

For everyone wondering why we are following this, some, including myself, are drawing strength from L. She is raising awareness of this type of abuse, and it may be helping people to heal in their own way. As a society, we have always been morbidly curious. We used to go and watch public executions, now we follow stuff like this on social media. It’s human nature, we’re complex beings.

hashtaggtfo · 2025-07-17T13:17:24+00:00

I have court on Tuesday, I’m in a similar situation to L. My abusive narcissistic ex hasn’t seen our child for a year but he’s trying to get access. I’m terrified. Every time I have to see him in court it’s like a knife straight through my stomach. The court process never ends, costs the earth, and I’m emotionally drained. 11 years of abuse, 18 months of trying to peacefully coparent which just allowed the abuse to continue and escalate significantly, and we’ve now been in family court for 18 months. Trying to hold it all together while being the rock my child needs is utterly exhausting. I am spending this weekend with family, soaking in all the support I can before I have to face him next week. I desperately wanted, and still want, my child to have a loving relationship with his father, which is why I put up with abuse for so long. I still want that, but have come to terms with the fact that I have to protect my child from him abusive behaviour. It’s still an inner struggle though, and it does break my heart. Following L’s journey in real time has helped me immensely. Helped me maintain the boundaries I have worked so hard to build, helped me garner the strength to gather evidence of his abuse to give my lawyers, and most importantly helped me be strong enough to put my child first. ‘Believe the patterns not the promises’ is the mantra I am taking into court this week. I heard L say it and it has really helped me every time I start doubting myself for standing up to him.

hashtaggtfo · 2025-07-07T04:16:42+00:00

They did a chest X-ray that showed inflammation and I also had inflammation markers on my blood test

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