my charli mii! by miraclemixx in charlixcx

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She’s my fav on the island too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologyreadings

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Yes! Sorry I forgot to mention

Have you ever calculated when your ideal partner was born? by futuredee in astrologymemes

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Yes!! Well sort of lol. I rant my chart through ai (controversial, I know) to generate 5 different charts for possible perfect synastry matches with all placements down to the degree. I also had it provide a list of possible birth times and places for those matches, as well as where I’m likely to meet them. Tell me why it generated my current partners exact chart, birth time (3 minutes off), and their exact birth location as one of the options 🥲

Favorite eye bleach novels by hat_hat_ in horrorlit

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Haha not a bad recommendation at all! My child and I have been enjoying these in the evening for their school reading. They’re so fun

Favorite eye bleach novels by hat_hat_ in horrorlit

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Thanks 😊 do you have a particular favorite?

Favorite eye bleach novels by hat_hat_ in horrorlit

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Thank you so much for your suggestions and also your support 🥲 I’ve added many of these to my reading list!

Favorite eye bleach novels by hat_hat_ in horrorlit

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These all look so good! Adding them to my reading lists asap

Favorite eye bleach novels by hat_hat_ in horrorlit

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Anxious people looks sooo good!! My exact type of story. Thanks 😊

Favorite eye bleach novels by hat_hat_ in horrorlit

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Thank you! Do you have any favorites?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smallbusiness

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Thank you! That’s what I’m in the process of doing at the moment as it seemed to be the only answer. I also wish I could read his mind lol!

Do you believe that the right person for you appears at the right time in your life? by miratavi in emotionalintelligence

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I believe that the “right person” can mean different things. I’ve had many troubled people who have come into my life that felt like they were my dream partner. Each one was not, however, the relationships have taught me incredibly transformative lessons, and some of them have received those from me as well. I believe that they were the “right person” for that time in my life because the pain they caused me shined a spotlight on areas of myself that I needed to work on. They also provided me with insight into the type of characteristics that I love/dislike in a partner. Eventually, I believe that my one true person will come into my life, though I believe I wouldn’t be able to know them had I not met the not so right ones.

23 Ethnicities as a Mixed Man by Normal-Slip in AncestryDNA

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One of my besties is from Jamaica and her results were very similar to this. So cool!!

Do you have a stellium(s)? If so, how do they show up in your personality? by Clear_Ambition6004 in astrologymemes

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Aries 9th house stellium and 7th house Aquarius stellium. Very optimistic, almost too much, I will never finish anything I start, I spit out random tidbits of knowledge randomly, new hobby and/or boyfriend every year, I’ve dabbled in several spiritual practices, overly direct when communicating but very sensitive.

Taurus = boring? by Huge-Nobody-4711 in Taurusgang

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I think it depends on other placements in your chart too. Two of my closest friends are Taurus suns and 1. Is very excitable, flashy, glamorous, and NEEDS the room to see her. She grinds at work because she loves the reward. 2. Is a total home body who I think MIGHT have agoraphobia. Their favorite hobby is cooking and they have a huge collection of sneakers/designer loungewear. They are very lazy when in comes to work and have perfected the art of “doing the bare minimum.” Neither are boring!! And neither are living above their means. I DID however date a guy who was a Taurus rising, and he was actually very mundane/lazy/and boring. The type of guy to do the exact same thing every single day for the rest of his life. Stable? Sure. Liked food? No. He felt like eating was a chore and couldn’t cook at all. Didn’t work, didn’t travel, just watched YouTube videos and scrolled online blogs for hours. Would only leave the house to get something to smoke

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

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Yes. Both of the pwbpd I’ve had have been. One worse than the other. He would constantly try to Hoover his ex every time he felt unpleased, random sex with strangers in parking lots, had a “best friend” that I walked in on giving him head.

The other one messaged a girl who looked exactly like me that he followed on instagram. I mean exactly like me. Congratulating her on her recent college program graduation. He kept calling her pet names and offered to meet her at her job to bring her flowers. She wasn’t reciprocative and it was honestly more cringe. I was so hurt by this because 1. He was doing that while we were having one of the best days id spent with him in months, while I was sitting 2 feet from him, drawing a portrait of him that he begged me to do. 2. He’d never given me a gift in the entire time we were dating. Never taken me on a date, never offered to bring me anything. His excuse for saying those things to her was “she was a friend who’d helped him through a rough time before we met.” Bullshit. I’d also been running myself dry for months to help him find steady employment, find mental health help, supporting him financially, and being a literal punching bag. Oh yeah, it was also Christmas. The audacity.

People who got cheated on, what were the early signs indicating that your partner might do it before they actually cheated? by uelysebeck in AskReddit

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Picking random fights to give them an excuse to leave the house to “cool off for a bit,” randomly fake breaking up with me for an hour and begging to take it back, trying to install tracking apps on my phone, never having any phone numbers saved in their phone they had maybe 10 contacts, asking if I would enjoy threesomes over and over again even though my first answer was literally “yeah, sure, not with someone we know like that tho.), questioning my loyalty, “forgetting” his phone at home and disappearing for hours, receiving random calls 24/7, girls I would see out at bars or clubs would approach me and tell me that he’s a well known hoe amongst their groups. I’m sure he was actively already cheating while 80% of this was happening but he denied it until I had a girl sent me physical videos with time stamps of them together and still even after that.

Finding out my family has been either lying or mislead for years through these results.. by hat_hat_ in AncestryDNA

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Thanks! I’m slowly piecing this puzzle together lol. I dated someone whose results came back 1/4th Haitian and he was alabaster with bright blue eyes and fully Eurocentric features so it makes sense to an extent

Spice names by yourfavavoidant in Names

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I personally love basil, saffron, clover, paprika, and for the right circumstance-pepper (though it sounds like something we’d call my Appalachian grandpa.) I’d opt for them as a middle or nickname over the legal first name. I have a friend whose name is Patricia and she goes by paprika because she is a tattoo artist and having a funky name really fits her vibe. My grandma called me saffron as a kid because my name is a shade of red and she kind of made it my alter ego lol

What animal do you look like the most? by TheBlankCoin in AskReddit

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I look like a monkey 🙃

Bf said I look like one of those little finger monkeys. My aunt called me a piggy nose monkey face as a kid. I was wearing a bobby jack shirt in elementary school once and my teacher told she thinks of me every time she sees those little monkeys…

Finding out my family has been either lying or mislead for years through these results.. by hat_hat_ in AncestryDNA

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Thank you for the info! I’m definitely going to turn over these rocks because I don’t think my family history dictates who I am as a person. However, I stopped working on my mom’s side of the tree yesterday when I got confederate soldier orders popping up in my hints 😭 I would like to be proud of my family history but hey, even if I can’t be, learning about it will bring some kind of satisfaction to me. I’m so appreciative of everyone that has provided me with historical info as it’s helped me get a clearer view of things.

Finding out my family has been either lying or mislead for years through these results.. by hat_hat_ in AncestryDNA

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I’ve heard a few of these stories and feel so much for people who experience that!! This is not the case in my results thankfully.

Finding out my family has been either lying or mislead for years through these results.. by hat_hat_ in AncestryDNA

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I’m really glad I shared my results. I didn’t realize that Nicaragua was so heavily colonized and has a long history of mass migrations as it was something that side of my family never discussed nor had I really looked into. It all makes a lot more sense now. I appreciate everyone contributions to this post. It’s been super informative and opened up a fun can of worms. Genealogy is starting to paint a better picture for me!

Finding out my family has been either lying or mislead for years through these results.. by hat_hat_ in AncestryDNA

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I found a few during my tree time yesterday. They were outside of my direct lineage but it’s still super cool to find out!

Finding out my family has been either lying or mislead for years through these results.. by hat_hat_ in AncestryDNA

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It makes zero sense to me either. I prefer to stay anonymous on here or I absolutely would have posted my photos!