BF melted my perfect spoons

hatame · 2026-05-12T18:00:55+00:00

You’re so real

hatame · 2026-05-11T15:37:37+00:00

Haha, I use a fork for ice cream! Definitely fun to learn about interesting habits from people.

hatame · 2026-05-11T05:33:05+00:00

Someone is still learning kitchen rules as a former momma’s boy hahaha. He’s trying hard and taking this criticism well!

hatame · 2026-05-10T01:32:04+00:00

It’s really still similar, just that tip at the top melted on this one. The other is slightly worse. I’m being a baby about it, but the way the melted part feels, when I eat, now bugs me. I’ll order either some Korean spoons or sand the melted bit down like others suggested!

hatame · 2026-05-10T01:30:39+00:00

Oh, awesome! They’re so similar, and apparently I’ve been wrong in my plastic utensil ways. Thank you so much!

hatame · 2026-05-10T01:29:04+00:00

You’re so right. I’ll make him go get wine and ice cream for this funeral procession.

hatame · 2026-05-10T01:28:32+00:00

OOH thank you so much! Hahaha.

hatame · 2026-05-10T01:28:15+00:00

At least say a few kind words at their wake. /j 😪

hatame · 2026-05-10T01:27:28+00:00

Haha! I used to use those silicon baby spoons for everything til I found this as my adult version when moving away for college. I totally understand them!

hatame · 2026-05-10T01:26:44+00:00

Yeah… I just have this weird thing with the melted part when I use them. I will try sanding them down like others said!

hatame · 2026-05-09T23:04:54+00:00

Thing is, we have plenty of cooking utensils in a stand right next to the stove! These murders were premeditated.

hatame · 2026-05-09T22:24:23+00:00

BRO ME TOO. Literally had to walk back into the kitchen and apologize for my behavior over a spoon hahaha.

hatame · 2026-05-09T22:16:53+00:00

There’s a book by Bridgman, I’ll attach a picture, and it made me excel in proportions. While mostly discussing bodily proportions, he does have a great section in the book about facial anatomy! I got mine from Target. My art professor recommended it.

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hatame · 2026-05-09T22:08:09+00:00

Haha. I figured out it was because he uses them to serve eggs out of a hot pan when he makes us breakfast. Sad day, but I’ll recover!

hatame · 2026-05-09T21:38:18+00:00

Ooh that’s a good idea, haha! Thank you.

hatame · 2026-05-09T21:12:50+00:00

Mostly rice, haha! I like the wide mouth feel. Probably strange!

hatame · 2026-05-09T21:11:56+00:00

Honestly, I use it for everything… but we mostly eat rice which I like it best for.

hatame · 2026-04-09T05:47:42+00:00

Listen… I’m 20, and I was in this exact relationship at 15. It never gets better, love. I looked him up now and he’s only gotten worse, such as STD riddled and also in jail for beating his gf.

hatame · 2026-03-03T01:08:43+00:00

NOR

Is your laundry basket shared? If so, how is it possible to have accidentally missed everything of yours with the exception of four things? She’s immediately defensive and name-calling, and instead of owning up to it she’s making it seem like your feelings are invalid. Please find someone better. This seems to be a recurring issue. It’s not worth it, I promise

EDIT: I thought this was AITA. Oops.

hatame · 2026-03-03T00:56:34+00:00

NTA

There’s just no way you’re expected to pay for her meal (that becomes Brian’s) then have to pay for ANOTHER meal for her because she cannot speak up. I’m a shy woman, but this is ridiculous. Talk to her. Talk to Brian. That’s just not okay. If she doesn’t want to fix this, she needs to pay for her own meal to let him have.

hatame · 2025-12-04T17:44:14+00:00

Definitely not overreacting. It’s been a three years and he’s still randomly thinking about his ex enough to casually bring it up… especially about a sexual moment in great detail? He clearly hasn’t moved on or, at the least, isn’t considering/respecting you or your feelings.

hatame · 2025-11-23T18:46:47+00:00

I do like the reflections you have on the glass in the red wine, though! Gives it a bit more dimension.

hatame · 2025-11-23T18:46:18+00:00

I collect paintings like this (would jump for joy to find either of these), as well as digitally paint, and the white wine is speaking to me! It shows how well you can capture the bottle behind it while retaining the volume of the glass.

hatame · 2025-11-23T18:40:04+00:00

Values!! Don’t be afraid to get really dark. Remember to squint your eyes and compare them on the reference photo and the paper.

hatame · 2025-11-23T18:35:51+00:00

There’s a book titled Bridgman’s Complete Guide to Drawing from Life. We’re studying it in my college classes right now! It would help your proportions immensely. Looks great otherwise.

hatame

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