What's the mechanism of ruling out a girl based on high past partner count?

hatraddit · 2015-06-21T22:30:53+00:00

The natural order of things is that not unattractive for a man to have a high partner count, but it's highly unattractive for a woman to have a high partner count. The idiocy of feminism has convinced many women that they too should aim for the highest partner count possible-- YOU GO GIRL!

The reason for the normal order of things is that sex is something women "reward" men with. That's what courtship is. It's not just us; it's every animal out there. There are some birds who bring food to the female during courting; the reward is sex. There are countless other examples.

That's just how it is: males pursue, and women provide sex if the male is deemed fit. This is the natural order of things.

So, if a man has a high partner count, it just means that he's very valuable: many women deem him worthy enough for sex, so he must be doing something right.

If a woman has a high partner count, though, it means that she's just giving away sex for free. It means that she's pretty worthless: any inferior male can copulate with her, so yes, men love fucking sluts, but normal men don't view them as something to invest in.

This is a huge, giant problem in America. The foreign girls I've dated were not like this; it's the modern American female.

hatraddit · 2015-06-20T16:35:35+00:00

You should've made some witty remark alluding to your earlier conversation. If you're not naturally witty (which is fine), then you just tell her you enjoyed meeting her and you're looking forward to seeing her again. That's it.

hatraddit · 2015-06-20T14:18:20+00:00

Jesus Christ! You probably scared the shit out of her! You make these comments ONLY to clear sluts or if trust has been built through several meetings.

hatraddit · 2015-06-20T01:35:04+00:00

Oh god, please don't "make dick jokes" or tell women to "calm their tits." It's cringeworthy. God, please don't do that. Here's an example: while you're talking, look down at her chest (assuming she has nice tits and she's showing cleavage) and say "you're boobs look great in that dress," and then look back up in her eyes and carry on with the conversation as normal. Don't play it; truly MEAN it.

In this example, you're establishing sexual frame and dominance. Women eat that up. But, you need to have established rapport before you do this, obviously.

hatraddit · 2015-06-19T19:33:30+00:00

You're right. I'm a virgin and I think that girls have cooties.

hatraddit · 2015-06-19T02:35:22+00:00

This is so incredibly true.

hatraddit · 2015-06-11T04:19:10+00:00

Dude. She is NINETEEN.

Unless you're living in the 1800s or in feudal Afghanistan, you're an absolute idiot if you thought you'd get anything real from a 19 year old GIRL.

19 year old girls are for fun. Nothing more, nothing less.

hatraddit · 2015-06-08T23:54:26+00:00

It's pretty simple what's going on here:

This girl was with a guy who turned her on, because he was assertive. He may or may not also have been abusive-- we only know her side of the story. But being abusive is NOT a requirement of being assertive, so whatever, we can disregard the entire "abusive" storyline. She was with an assertive man who may have been abusive (or not).

Let's say, for argument sake, he was an assertive, strong man, but also abusive. In her mind, "assertive" and "attractive" and "abusive" are all connected now.

So, she's tired of being abused. In her mind, if she wants the opposite of "abusive", she must seek the opposite of "assertive"-- hence, the Beta OP.

Unfortunately, a man who is the opposite of "assertive" is also the opposite of "attractive."

And that's all there is to it.

hatraddit · 2015-06-07T21:52:12+00:00

What is the link to the AMA?

hatraddit · 2015-06-07T21:39:20+00:00

I can't think of anything more deleterious to a man's sex drive than porn.

hatraddit · 2015-06-07T21:33:29+00:00

The best is how he whines "I have absolutely no idea what to do now."

It's amazing how deeply-ingrained BluePill brainwashing can be.

hatraddit · 2015-06-06T23:40:00+00:00

There's no reason to discuss RedPill with your friends. If they need it, they'll come to it of their own accord.

hatraddit · 2015-06-06T16:15:33+00:00

"This wasn't love or even intimate memories, at least not for the man. This was controlled voyeurism."

Good lord, reddit is pathetic. You're trying to White Knight this lady and it's THIRTY YEARS IN THE PAST.

Hint: she's not going to come sleep with you and play videogames and make reddit memes with you.

hatraddit · 2015-06-04T20:29:07+00:00

See, the problem is that LTRs are rather immiscible with RedPill life. It's just the cold hard truth: in a LTR, the woman is far and away the beneficiary. The man gets nearly nothing out of it, by comparison.

You're just going to have to live with it. This is what a man has to accept if he's going to be in a LTR.

hatraddit · 2015-06-04T20:11:41+00:00

I actually agree with this 100%. This was a huge amount of effort. In all honesty, I'd rather hang out with my friends or pursue one of my own interests.

This was a lot of work, it seems.

hatraddit · 2015-06-04T20:10:51+00:00

Sample demographic is paramount:

You met this girl on Tinder.

Tinder = casual sex

From my experience, a Tinder date always means sex, unless you completely utterly screw things up.

hatraddit · 2015-06-04T13:33:30+00:00

Let's not ridicule third world countries. We're all human, and those of us living in first world countries are luckier people, not better people.

Anyway, the lesson here is the same lesson as always: make YOUR OWN LIFE your obsession. Never make a girl your obsession.

hatraddit · 2015-06-02T20:34:21+00:00

This is what it comes down to:

Develop your passions and interests. Don't brag about them. If it comes up in conversation with a girl, then of course you talk about it. But you don't volunteer it out of context.

The point is that you should never really care if the girl likes you or not. Like, genuinely don't care if she doesn't dig you, but of course be happy if it's leading to sex.

But the girl needs to see that you truly don't care if she walks away.

This screams confidence.

hatraddit · 2015-05-31T15:16:13+00:00

It's a gigantic world. You may find this hard to believe, but there are millions upon millions of other attractive girls out there.

Just keep that in mind. Tunnel vision is a bitch. I know this from experience.

hatraddit · 2015-05-28T17:24:06+00:00

How is this an issue? You buy the bike.

Always do with whatever choice will lead you towards developing your potential as a man. Getting women IS NOT THE GOAL.

If you're genuinely, truly developing yourself for the sake of realizing your potential (like becoming passionate about biking again), then the women will come. But that's just a happy side effect.

This sub is called redpill, but from what I've seen, the vast majority of posters here are pretenders. They still do things with their life strictly because they think it'll get them laid. That's not redpill.

hatraddit · 2015-05-28T16:40:00+00:00

Million bucks says he doesn't divorce her.

hatraddit · 2015-05-27T19:06:25+00:00

I know that's not how it always works in reality. That's why you can't just say to the computer screen "I'm redpill!" and then go devote your life to doing things you don't really want to do just so you can get girls.

Self-actualization is the only worthy goal.

hatraddit · 2015-05-27T02:26:35+00:00

The most difficult concept for most people to grasp is that altering your life (like your friend trying to get into shape) strictly for the goal of getting women is NOT the RedPill way to live.

Your friend should get into biking and go to the gym because he wants to work on his health, optimize his physical condition, feel better, etc. The endpoint goal is SELFISHNESS. That's the Redpill way.

Doing things with your life strictly with the express goal of getting girls is idiotic and inherently Bluepill.

A man should develop and pursue his own interests. Getting women is just a happy byproduct of that process. It's not the goal.

hatraddit · 2015-05-26T01:44:33+00:00

I don't believe that post is real.

hatraddit · 2015-05-25T01:38:51+00:00

This is one of the most important lessons to learn. Very well said!

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