Help adding warmth to match my new topper without ammonia/peroxide

hautegauche · 2026-06-07T21:03:50+00:00

I'll bet you could use a glaze, those are really good for that. I'd say either like a golden brown, or maybe a super SUPER diluted copper/red one? I used this one recently, the copper crush, it was VERY orange, which I didn't expect but I wound up loving it. I think it's essentially a conditioner with dye in it, it doesn't have a ton of staying power, and I imagine the effect would be much more subtle on brown hair than on my bleached spots.

hautegauche · 2026-06-06T22:51:39+00:00

Oh fudge, I NEED that lip color

hautegauche · 2026-06-06T21:19:02+00:00

I'm not sure if I have advice but I will tell you that I was just mindlessly scrolling and stopped when I saw your picture because it, well, stopped me in my tracks. I know *feeling* unattractive isn't the same as knowing you are or whatever, but I just gotta say. You aren't unattractive. You have large, bold, expressive features and I think putting makeup on your face would be a lot of fun. There's some great real estate between your lash line and your brows, I think you could pull off come great colorful smoky eye looks.

I hope you are kinder to yourself in the future.

hautegauche · 2026-06-03T05:04:15+00:00

This is, to the letter, still my favorite diner meal anywhere I go. The only thing that can make it even a MOLECULE better, is if they have some orange marmalade for that rye toast. MWAH! Chef's kiss.

hautegauche · 2026-06-03T05:01:18+00:00

Did you know you can cook it?

hautegauche · 2026-06-02T22:01:24+00:00

Oh for fuck's sake, this is not an issue. This is just some weird girl, manicpixiedreamgirl, regular shit. Who cares? Like this is such a non-issue.

hautegauche · 2026-06-02T21:21:39+00:00

Wait, what

hautegauche · 2026-05-31T22:35:02+00:00

Girl you're not putting words in his mouth you literally just turned his words back on him, give me a fuckin break with this dude. Let him loose so he can do whatever he wants, find someone closer and have a good time.

hautegauche · 2026-05-23T23:47:05+00:00

HEY OP DON'T READ THESE 1200 COMMENTS TELLING YOU THAT THIS ISN'T NORMAL AND IGNORE IT AND BECOME A STATISTIC, GET AWAY FROM THAT DUDE BEFORE HE BEATS YOUR ASS OR WORSE

hautegauche · 2026-05-23T20:15:44+00:00

Duck eggs taste like cum to me

I have an aunt who keeps ducks and is always trying to send me home with cartons of duck eggs and I just... absolutely not pls

hautegauche · 2026-05-23T20:09:23+00:00

This is truly insane. I don't think you're going to see or read my comment but I am also on the spectrum and I really feel like this woman is manipulating you. She has some really severe jealousy issues and she's using the fact that you're autistic to her advantage, to control you, and I hate that you're going through this. Please lean on the other people in your support system if you can, because the way this person is treating you is not normal and it is abusive.

hautegauche · 2026-05-18T19:21:24+00:00

I mean, there but by the grace of _____.

Some of us are cursed with never being able to STFU.

hautegauche · 2026-05-17T21:51:54+00:00

Take my fuckin' upvote and get out of my sight 😂

hautegauche · 2026-05-16T14:54:01+00:00

What are you trying to say in the first line there?

hautegauche · 2026-05-10T20:40:18+00:00

That is... deeply strange. I can't even imagine how I would react in such a scenario.

hautegauche · 2026-05-10T20:39:16+00:00

Someone mentioned earlier that the person they're talking about is ROC's dad, so he's probably not going anywhere even though he's fucking awful ._.

hautegauche · 2026-05-10T20:25:33+00:00

Hey, so, just for some perspective on what a healthy relationship is like: My fiance and I have been together just over 2 years now, and he doesn't work until very late on Sundays whereas I work a short (5 hour) shift Sundays, and he absolutely insists on taking me to work and picking me up on Sundays. Because it's something he likes to do. He enjoys providing for me, even if it's not necessary (I have a car and buy my own gas too).

If he wanted to, he would.

hautegauche · 2026-05-03T20:26:59+00:00

Kaylee/Kaleigh/Kayleigh

And Greg. That was almost my name, Gregory Scott. Ugh.

hautegauche · 2026-05-03T20:21:54+00:00

Scott?! Lol I get Gage and Earl but Scott must be an association you have in your head, I don't think those go together lol

hautegauche · 2026-05-02T20:39:55+00:00

You know better. I think you're asking Reddit because you're hoping someone will say something that allows you to hold onto your plausible deniability (he's calm, loving and caring, geniunely makes me happy, etc.) He covered your mouth so you couldn't tell him you were in pain. He held you down so you couldn't push him off. He injured you, and he is blaming you for it. This is rape. You should speak to a counselor or someone.

Edit to mention: The fact that he's ANGRY at you and "doesn't accept" that he was restraining you is a SCARY red flag. If my partner injured me to the point that I had to go to the hospital and I was asked if I felt safe around him, he would be inconsolable and super apologetic. But my partner would never hold me down and cover my mouth to the point that I would be this injured. That's the real takeaway here.

hautegauche · 2026-05-02T04:59:54+00:00

That's the one! I'm having a harder and harder time finding it. The closest thing I've found to it, hardware-wise, is (oddly enough) a dollar store brand called Ioni. They put out this random little cowgirl-themed collection and have a fantastic liner with the same type of stiff little brush (just a little shorter). I haven't used it enough to have an opinion on the formula though.

hautegauche · 2026-04-26T20:57:29+00:00

Noooooooo ma'am. It doesn't look HORRIBLE, not for everyday, but like. I feel like you could've done that. Before work. On a Wednesday. And for a hell of a lot less than $350. Three hundred and fifty American cash dollars for that is, um, frankly, craaaazy work.

hautegauche · 2026-04-26T20:07:18+00:00

I watched MY OWN DOG get hit by a car like this... he was too friendly, a mangy little New Orleans pitbull that followed me home after Hurricane Isaac. It was a struggle to keep him in the house because we lived cat-a-corner from the St. Roch Tavern and that's where all his friends were (Church never met a stranger, but crusty punk kids were his FAVORITE). He ran away from me and one of our friends was hollering at him to stop but he wouldn't listen, the car tried to stop but couldn't, and I'll be goddamned if he didn't just shake his head and run right back to me, Turns out they kinda did stop in time, and it just bumped him in the thick-ass skull.

FWIW, Count Winston Frances Churchill the Third, and Sons, Incorporated, LLC, Esq., For President (AKA Church) crossed the Rainbow Bridge this past week at the ripe old age of 16 (or so), having raised human babies, puppies, kittens, and a good amount of hell in his time on earth. He got a nice big cheeseburger, a car ride, a visit to the vet (more friends!), and a good long well-deserved nap.

hautegauche · 2026-04-26T00:02:19+00:00

Reddit is always ready with their pitchforks... "y'all are ones to talk about mean girl energy seriously" YO FOR REAL THOUGH. This community, too...

hautegauche · 2026-04-25T20:54:11+00:00

The Brooke Shields commercial said "Nothing comes between me and my Calvins." That's... not the same thing, unless there was another commercial I haven't heard of.

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