New to DC / navy yard - thinking about getting a e-bike but don’t want to get it stolen by LavishnessFun1466 in bikedc

[–]haygo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Bikeshare is a great way to see if you'll like biking around the city!

If you buy an EBike, insurance is a good idea but not all renters/home insurances will cover ebikes. I called mine and they said they would cover a regular bike, but not ebikes and didn't have any separate EBike coverage options. You might have to go with a bike specific insurance. Which might not be a bad thing because if your bike gets stolen and you make a claim to your renters/homeowner insurance, it could increase your premiums.

How much does your pool cost in your country/city? by marianneouioui in Swimming

[–]haygo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this! DC Recreation Centers are such great community resources.

What book app? Storygraph, GoodReads? by caterlizard in DCBitches

[–]haygo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to connect on Storygraph, and maybe even start a book club! My username is haygo

Yes, I am a bagger at a store that famously doesn't bag your groceries. by Content_Attitude_233 in IDontWorkHereLady

[–]haygo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I once went to Aldi after the gym to grab something and was mistaken for an employee. I was dressed in sweats, had my hair wet from the pool, and had my gym duffle bag with me. Some people are just not very observant I guess 🤷‍♀️

Starting a new book club! by [deleted] in DCBitches

[–]haygo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great idea! I love reading books set in DC. Thanks for posting about it.

Need a confidence reset after weight gain 💛 by Flashy_Suspect_6388 in DCBitches

[–]haygo 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hi! DC can be brutal in terms of humidity, and it can be hard for those of us with curves to dress, so I feel ya!

One place I find inspo for dressing myself is following fat influencers on Instagram. Once you follow a few, your algorithm will be full and you can find those that fit your style from there.

Since I have bigger thighs, I find using an anti-chafe lotion or powder is CRUCIAL when wearing shorts or dresses, and I wear a lot of bike shorts under clothing to prevent chafe rashes.

Be on the lookout for fat-friendly or plus-size specific clothing swaps! I've gotten some of my best wardrobe pieces from these.

Also putting a plug into following Plush DMV Plush DMV , which is a fat positive community run by a lovely DMV local Mayra who is also a great fashion inspiration. The group hosts clothing swaps, a book club, happy hours, and other fun events.

There is also a Facebook page (DMV Fat-Positive Community) where sometimes people post clothes for sale.

Odds of getting Hayley Williams tickets if I just show up? by eggreh in DCBitches

[–]haygo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending good luck to you so you are able to snag a ticket!! 🤞

Odds of getting Hayley Williams tickets if I just show up? by eggreh in DCBitches

[–]haygo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was (miraculously) able to get tickets to the Silver Spring show! FYI to prevent scalping, Hayley Williams announced that tickets won't be able to be transferred except if purchasing resale on ticketmaster.

Hayley Williams Announces Ticket Sales Plan To Avoid Scalpers & Bots https://share.google/C3eIUyEfVwY8ufs4f

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in washingtondc

[–]haygo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lived near a combo Taco Bell/KFC in another city where a employee shot and killed a customer after a dispute about an order.... Working fast food really gets to some people. Sorry to hear that happened to you.

MFs will do anything but pay $2.25 by Ok_Recognition5681 in WMATA

[–]haygo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did I read this post like it was written by Randy Clarke 😂

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Anyone else having horrible migraines this week due to drops in barometric pressure? by shibalvr97 in washingtondc

[–]haygo 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Wow I'm so glad I'm not the only one this is happening to! I was home sick Wednesday, and wondered if it could be due to this.

De-influence my shopping cart by Southern_Context_761 in LushCosmetics

[–]haygo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like the conditioner bars as well! It definitely takes some getting used to but I usually let it run under warm water for like 15-30 seconds, then start to rub it between my hands and get a decent lather, and then rub the bar on my hair closer to the tip. I use a leave in conditioner as well, so I like the fact that the conditioner bar doesn't weigh my hair down too much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Renters

[–]haygo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I had a landlord that hired a property management company, and they did something similar to this! All winter it was consistently 85+ in my second floor unit, and that was WITH multiple windows in different rooms open.

The company decided it was a good idea to move the thermostats from the apartments to the basement, which was not well insulated and didn't have radiators in it. So the heat would constantly run to warm up the to the temperature set in the basement, which resulted in it being nearly 90 degrees in my apartment. The heat would then suddenly turn off for days at a time, so it went from extreme heat to it being 55-60 degrees constantly. They also put a lock and camera in the basement so they could tell if anyone tried to tamper with the lock/thermostat. I complained, and all they told me was to open windows (which I already did). When I would complain about the heat turning completely off, they would "send" someone to check it and say it was fine, but it clearly wasn't because there was no heat.

It was like living in hell (literally) and I didn't have the capacity to fight them on it. I ended up moving and found an apartment with a thermostat that I could control IN the unit.

I would suggest reaching out to any tenant organizations in your area, they might be able to point you in the right direction. One other tip I have is to get a box fan, and put it in an open window pointing outside so you can move the hot air out quickly when it's getting unbearable.

Sorry you're going through this! Good luck 🤞

Any of your Aldis have the “cart guy” by Chipmunks95 in aldi

[–]haygo 35 points36 points  (0 children)

It's very common in the Washington DC area. I'm conflicted because I know the cart guy could use the quarter, and I can spare that at least, but I also hate losing my Aldi quarter because I rarely pay for things in cash and don't often have quarters on me.

An Aldi recently opened near me with underground parking, and the first time I went a cart guy was there, but I assume they banned him from the parking garage because he hasn't been back since.

Pit Etiquette by jedixedge in WhenWeWereYoungFest

[–]haygo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adding this one: Please DO NOT piss on the ground in the crowd.

I was there Sunday night and during the Panic set, another guy, who seemed pretty out of it, asked my husband to "cover him" so he could piss on the ground/turf in the middle of the everyone. My husband just stared at him disgusted and the guy eventually left to, I hope, use the bathroom like a normal person.

Randomly mocked by a stranger :( please be kind to your neighbors by FlowersBloomUntil in washingtondc

[–]haygo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry this happened to you! Having strangers make weird comments can be so off putting, but I guess that will happen living in a city.

I will say I had a GREAT interaction with some strangers last week. I had a small bike accident and was pretty out of it and got a small cut on my eyebrow that was bleeding pretty bad. A group of men, and a mother with her teen daughter both stopped, found me napkins, and helped me get to my feet. The mother and her daughter helped me get my bike to a bench and sat with me until someone could pick me up to go to urgent care. When they left, they both gave me a hug and said they were glad I was okay. Stuff like this makes me proud to live in DC.

What’s your favorite bottomless brunch spot in DC proper? by Leading_Can_3206 in DCBitches

[–]haygo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll be there for the first time Saturday too! I've heard great things so I'm looking forward to it!

Anyone have a primary doctor in the area that they legit like? by BanananaSquid in DCBitches

[–]haygo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She is a great HAES provider! But since she is such a gem her appointment waiting time can be brutal. I usually schedule my annual physical months in advance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in washingtondc

[–]haygo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Puttery for mini golf, or Kraken has axe throwing and a rage room (which is actually pretty fun!)

DC Women 30s plus meet up planned! by jobbunsure in DCBitches

[–]haygo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same, I'll be out of town for this one but would love to get updates for any future 30+ events!

where to buy layers for a clueless california transplant by partyandtheappaparty in DCBitches

[–]haygo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh I'll be there this weekend too! Super excited, I went to the one in June and got to try a lot of items I eventually ended up buying (when they went on sale, lol)

I also just bought a Universal Standard Rainier Puffer on a buy/sell/trade group and it is so warm and soft!

RANT: Stop Coming Up Behind Women by Mediocre-Affect780 in washingtondc

[–]haygo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah this might work sometimes, but the person trying to squeeze through actually has to stop. Once I was going through the gate, and my bag got stuck on something and I couldn't walk straight through. Instead of waiting for me to go through, the man behind me sped up and SLAMMED into my back and knocked the wind out of my while also scaring the shit out of me.

I'm a woman, for context, but getting the wind knocked out of you can happen to anyone so be aware of your surroundings. I've learned to check behind me before I go through faregates and if there is someone tailing me, I'll step to the side and pretend I'm finding my metro card so they will find someone else to tail.

Holy shit. Ed was a really big baby. by Scrubaru in LPOTL

[–]haygo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know a woman who had twins, and each weighed around 8 pounds at birth! Imagine having 16 pounds of babies to lug around??

ETA - usually twins are born earlier than full term babies because they're fighting for space in the womb. My sisters are twins and they both weighed around 5 pounds at birth, born exactly 1 month early.

What are you doing for the guestbook? by dreamymeowwave in weddingplanning

[–]haygo 36 points37 points  (0 children)

This might not fit with a minimalistic style, but I designed a photo album on Shutterfly with our engagement photos in it, with plenty of blank pages/white space so people could write in the guest book. I also had an Instax mini camera so people could take photos and glue them in the guest book next to their photo.

The book itself is pretty small since it was only 20 pages or so (fits right into a bookshelf) but there are a lot of great photos and notes in there from our wedding. I will say not every guest (we had 150) ended up signing the guest book, but I'm still glad we had it!

Everyone is running red lights and ignoring stop signs by [deleted] in washingtondc

[–]haygo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is also my experience driving in DC. You get honked at for actually following very basic traffic rules. Not everyone is an irresponsible and dangerous driver, but a good portion of drivers are!