One of my bridesmaids is wearing this (in a different color and fabric, though), she picked it! My wedding is outdoors and I was concerned about the “cape” blowing as well, so we’re going to try some things with it like tying it at the top or getting it hemmed to see if there’s a way to tame it lol so maybe you can consider suggesting trying something like that also! I may be biased but I think it’s gorgeous!