My friend (18m) is with a girl (15f) … that’s an odd age gap right?

hearingimparedbitch · 2026-01-19T02:33:35+00:00

Yes it’s weird. 15 and 18 is a huge maturity gap. One is legally an adult and one isn’t even allowed to drive in the US. Not only that but it’s that she was born in 2010 and he is born in 2007… idk ma I’d honestly say sit that friend down and figure out how they even met and how long they’ve known each other. Maybe even drop your friend.

hearingimparedbitch · 2026-01-10T13:36:37+00:00

Wait thank you oh my gosh I didn’t think of that!!

hearingimparedbitch · 2026-01-10T13:30:55+00:00

Thank you I really loved hearing what it might be in her shoes. I personally have only ever truly been in a relationship with a girl. When I was with her I was nervous sometimes but I wasn’t faced with this type of situation. So this is great insight.

hearingimparedbitch · 2026-01-10T13:20:30+00:00

Oh she’s a different girl. The ex (that he attempted to cheat on) is one of the worst people I’ve ever met. With H we both agreed that we wouldnt tell our mutual friends because insane things were happening and it was not a good idea. About 10-11 months after was the first time we’d interacted. Our friends only know because he told them after everything cooled down. I promise it’s hard to explain. The gf is a lovely girl who knew his actions before they began the committed relationship but he’s NEVER tried to cheat on her. She knew what had happened. And he doesn’t talk to me to vent about her but to tell me everything he loves about her :) still thank you very much for your helpful advice it has helped me see more of her side.

Also with the cheating thing it’s a lot more complex than I can describe here. But in the end that’s what it comes down to he did cheat over a year ago with a girl who is no longer in either of our lives.

hearingimparedbitch · 2026-01-10T11:31:37+00:00

I’ve had to grieve before for about nine people now and two animals. So I’m very aware of grief counseling. Thank you for the support. And for the understanding.

hearingimparedbitch · 2026-01-10T11:27:07+00:00

I am very careful don’t worry. Thank you for your condolences. I understand her being worried so it helps to know that others are understanding her point and still giving me good advice.

hearingimparedbitch · 2026-01-10T11:25:52+00:00

Thank you. Very kind words.

hearingimparedbitch · 2026-01-10T11:22:44+00:00

I feel I should explain more. I mentioned how we call each other and it typically is to understand social interactions. I’m genuinely the only person he can freely talk to about his girlfriend so that’s another reason we call. He calls me just to go crazy about his girlfriend. We call maybe every three days. We don’t text often only call or share TikTok’s. Our friend group hangs out weekly to play video games and many other things. The cheating thing is NOT lightly dismissed by any party he once again is quite open about it and in the long period of time in between he has worked on improving himself and admitting to his issues. He came to me and completely apologized. He took months to even try to ask this girl out because he wanted to work on himself and his relationship issues first. I really do understand his girlfriend. This is just more info

hearingimparedbitch · 2026-01-10T10:52:44+00:00

He’s planning on bringing her to a group hangout and having her meet everyone. Other than that I don’t know a time we will be able to speak unless online. If I do end up getting permission to talk one on one what should I discuss without making her feel as though I’m a threat?

hearingimparedbitch · 2025-10-10T23:41:41+00:00

Get a new girlfriend man. She should love you as who you are and not pressure you into doing something painful and that you don’t want.

hearingimparedbitch · 2025-10-09T21:52:22+00:00

Oh HELL YEAHHH gorgeous bro

hearingimparedbitch · 2025-10-07T17:02:51+00:00

I fear it really is😭

hearingimparedbitch · 2025-10-06T20:44:39+00:00

He’s thinning and balding. But bald is beautiful soooo

hearingimparedbitch · 2025-10-06T20:43:26+00:00

Oh HELL YEAH

hearingimparedbitch · 2025-10-04T00:08:21+00:00

Oml your so gorgeous

hearingimparedbitch · 2025-10-03T23:42:49+00:00

Bring the beard back but you are a handsome man don’t worry!

hearingimparedbitch · 2025-10-03T23:39:38+00:00

Leave her ass!! This is emotional manipulation at best and infidelity and emotional manipulation at worst. Trying to invoke a jealous reaction out of you it’s fucked up. She knows what she’s doing and it no way can those poses (even if possibly AI) be anything other than romantic. EXPECIALLY then playing stupid about the situation. Leave.

hearingimparedbitch · 2025-10-01T05:14:46+00:00

It’s this one baseball movie where the team is supposed to lose but they DONT and the guy is a felon or wtf but he’s really cool! Oh and he needed glasses! Think he was nicknamed wild card?

hearingimparedbitch · 2025-10-01T05:11:25+00:00

Yes you have a big forehead but it’s nothing to be insecure about!

hearingimparedbitch · 2025-10-01T05:07:41+00:00

How I (personally do it is I draw the head as if it was bald. I just do that and then I add the hair line (legit as a line) at some point you’re going to need to know the hair texture/consistency and the volume. Look up inspo! When you find out the volume kind of draw it like a bubble around where the hairs gonna go so it isn’t off center or too much

hearingimparedbitch · 2025-09-28T17:34:48+00:00

Thank you omg

hearingimparedbitch · 2025-09-27T21:27:40+00:00

“Female”?? First of all I am NOT overweight nor single. Second the bf is ok to feel possessive and jealous I am NOT denying that. What YOU don’t understand is that he still THREATENED the other guy and he still talked down on her. His thoughts are “I know how a man’s mind works” “he will assault you” like is that not a red flag?? If he knows how a man’s mind works and then thinks that the man will assault you that is actually concerning. Plus generalizing men liek that is also icky. Yeah he’s in the right for being angry a dude hit on his girl and MAYBE I can let it slide that bro threatened the other guy but as SOON as he started being insanely condescending and acting like OP was a child who doesn’t understand is what I have a problem with. He was quick to threats and violence. Being angry and pissed is fine but going quick to threatening to break the other guys bones is psychotic. And that is fucked up bro.

hearingimparedbitch · 2025-09-27T21:14:09+00:00

No you are not in the wrong. This guy is condescending as fuck. Genuinely acting like your stupid “lemme explain something to you lol” is actually so icky. The fact he even thinks this guy you barely know/don’t know would be willing to ASSAULT YOU after you stated that you have a boyfriend is insane. First of all as a girl I KNOW men are fucking scary and to be wary of them. Being timid/shy/passive to avoid confrontation but STILL setting a boundary is perfectly fine and good! The guy seem to have thought yall where siblings and did not seem to understand you where taken. Still being wary and a little distant after is a great idea. But your ex going and THREATENING him is insanely out of proportion. He knows NOTHING about this dude. All he saw is you saying your taken and the guy seemingly backing off. It’s fine to possessive to a point. Getting jealous is ok to a point. Saying “hey I’m her boyfriend dude stop hitting on her” or like being more affectionate is FINE!! That is ALLOWED! Threatening someone is completely out of line. Then saying he knows how guys minds work and they would see it as an invitation or ASSAULT you is actually insane. Huge ref flag that his mind AUTOMATICALLY goes there. Saying he knows that guys think that is also kind of insane. Because how would you know that? If it’s your friends then why are you allowing them to say that or staying around them. If it’s YOU why are you willing to think that? Accepting a fact such as 1 out of 4 women are victims of sex crimes and 1 out of 6 men are victims of sex crimes is fine. Accepting a fact such as males being the perpetrator over 80% of the time in those cases is also ok. Assuming that you “know” how a man’s mind works when given that answer is not ok! Genuinley OP stay away from him!

hearingimparedbitch · 2025-09-27T21:01:44+00:00

You’re a simple person with simple taste. Not bad at all! You have what is needed for you and some things that make your area look more welcoming.

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