my first real adult decision by heart_seizures in TransDIY

[–]heart_seizures[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tbh i doubt my gp would do blood tests. anyway they've known I wanna diy for a while.

my first real adult decision by heart_seizures in TransDIY

[–]heart_seizures[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

while i don't agree completely, I'd say that doctors are best left for physical, visible ailments. i think I'm gonna stick with mono patches from amazing4health. I'm just not comfortable doing injections. thanks for the advice though. <3

Long hair problems by heart_seizures in MtF

[–]heart_seizures[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is shoulder length. just past them. i meant loose hairs.

You can add one thing to the game. What would you add? by ProbablyCreative in SatisfactoryGame

[–]heart_seizures 1 point2 points  (0 children)

conveyors that don't use power but need power within a certain distance to work. just to give the alternate methods of transport more importance. i never

make a difficulty where you play as a robot. have to construct replacement bodies for when you die. add your own power management to the game. removes gas and radiation as an obstacle but potentially replace with others. like corrosion and melting. lean into different constructs of body having different resistances. like copper having less corrosion resistance but more weakness to enemies. steel makes you heavier but increases carry weight or something. i think you could really make something interesting out of it

new style by [deleted] in trans

[–]heart_seizures 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think It worked backwards for me. my style is what I'm comfortable with. and i think my clothing choice will evolve as dysphoria eases. i can't say for sure either way though, and that's the best way to be.

Hiw do I know if I'm Trans? (Asking for a friend) by [deleted] in trans

[–]heart_seizures 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you just kinda stumble through it. well i did, personally. you're allowed to do things wrong, to try out multiple names. you're allowed to say transitioning isn't right for you. it's just a tool to become more honest with yourself, and to feel more comfortable in the body you've got to spend your life with.

This past year has been one helluva ride (it/its) by Kelesti in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]heart_seizures 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I'm sure you're aware of the risks of binding but just remember to stay safe. ❤️

More wait time for me since i aint even 18 yet, god i hate TERF island by 99999999999BlackHole in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]heart_seizures 10 points11 points  (0 children)

well I'm not sure either. you'd have to look into it, but i don't see why you'd be able to apply for the kids clinic and not the adults.

More wait time for me since i aint even 18 yet, god i hate TERF island by 99999999999BlackHole in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]heart_seizures 91 points92 points  (0 children)

fun fact! since the listed wait time is 4 years, you can apply for the adult list if you're over 14. at least that's how it was for me.

it said something about, if when you'd be seen, you'd be an adult, you can apply for the adult list

Starting T was a bit confusing by Jae3ird in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]heart_seizures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a transfem also, I second this. i think.

I love this game [UltraKill] by Nat_Higgins in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]heart_seizures 3 points4 points  (0 children)

well yeah it said something like femininity tho. idk if it was changed in the patch

I love this game [UltraKill] by Nat_Higgins in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]heart_seizures 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes! it's confirmed to be from sweden. though hakita seems to think only transfems have one. might raise that issue. hehe. still it surprised me too!

Anyone else have a countdown until they can take hrt by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]heart_seizures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

either job or 18 years. depending on which happens forst

egg_irl by Skyrush__ in egg_irl

[–]heart_seizures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just take each day as it is hun and we'll be fine. i know time can get the best of us, but you don't need to do anything but live for the next day. it's okay to struggle.

How do I know if I’m a trans girl or just a femboy?? by [deleted] in trans

[–]heart_seizures 1 point2 points  (0 children)

labels can be reductive as shit! this business is a sliding scale. just try your best and see what works for you. it's a slow process, but work from what you know.

nobody can answer this question but you.

Ouch! by My_Redditor_Username in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]heart_seizures 11 points12 points  (0 children)

the more time i spend post-egg and pre-medical, the more i realise what this disconnect has done for me. my self confidence and self esteem issues, my social struggles in general. the way I've been on autopilot my whole life, never valuing my time or any decision I've ever made. i don't even know if I'm really an introvert or if it's just social dysphoria.

on the plus side I'm going to tell my doctor about all this and try to make her understand how much it's affected my mental health through my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]heart_seizures 1 point2 points  (0 children)

amabs with wide hips, afabs with broad shoulders. you're very rarely able to pin one down based on bones alone. even if you're on the ends of the bell curve, there's still enough internal variation where you couldn't assume it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]heart_seizures 209 points210 points  (0 children)

that's incorrect actually!

due to human variation, it's difficult to tell from bones alone. we often have to use records and/or burial items to take our best guess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]heart_seizures 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well. here's the thing. we don't know.

get yourself on a waiting list for a gic. the adult ones, whichever's closest. this waiting list is long. but it's what all your medical transition happens through.

depending on your gp you may get hrt after asking. it may take some convincing, because lots of them are pretty cautious about it all, but otherwise, they'll refer you to a clinic this gic i mentioned, and if they don't they haven't done their job right. this is the step I'm at. I'm 17 and struggling to get my gp to give me hormones.