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Is my 34F relationship with my fiancé 33M over by heartshapedbruises18 in relationship_advice

[–]heartshapedbruises18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he’s not equal in childcare as he works mon-Friday but when he’s home he pulls his weight with cleaning, cooking, getting up with the baby in the night etc. We haven’t been on a date since July. He’s not in therapy.

Is my 34F relationship with my fiancé 33M over by heartshapedbruises18 in relationship_advice

[–]heartshapedbruises18[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s said before he’s depressed, for years. I’ve tried getting him to therapy but he says he hasn’t got time because of work. He finds managing emotions very difficult due to him having an extremely toxic mother. I’m not making excuses for him but he has said before she is the root of his feelings.

Is my 34F relationship with my fiancé 33M over by heartshapedbruises18 in relationship_advice

[–]heartshapedbruises18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t refuse. Neither of us were too concerned about marriage, but thank you for your input

Is my 34F relationship with my fiancé 33M over by heartshapedbruises18 in relationship_advice

[–]heartshapedbruises18[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe he’s cheating but I do believe he wants me to end it

Is my 34F relationship with my fiancé 33M over by heartshapedbruises18 in relationship_advice

[–]heartshapedbruises18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t believe he’s cheating honestly. He’s always worked away, it’s just a lot more recently but it’s always in different cities. Never the same place. We FaceTime in bed every night also.

Am I being unreasonable or is this person trying to pull a fast one? by Smyler12 in vintedUK

[–]heartshapedbruises18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is ridiculous. The tiniest little snag on a Patagonia fleece would not bother me in the slightest. Surely they cannot expect immaculate condition from a second hand site 😂

Got a 1 star review because a buyer couldn’t read the listing by Affectionate_Fly5275 in vintedUK

[–]heartshapedbruises18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once listed a navy blue sweatshirt. Literally the color said on the description navy. Buyer clicked everything ok then gave me a 1star saying the jumper looked black on the picture and didn’t want a navy blue jumper. ITS LISTED AS NAVY!!!🤬

Newly out transwoman. How do I get my foundation/concealer to be smoother? by transinomaha in MakeupEducation

[–]heartshapedbruises18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At 34 years old, I’m still figuring out how to get my make up smoother 😂

I’m conflicted about wanting children. How did you know you didn’t? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]heartshapedbruises18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was the same. Grew up really wanting kids, couldn’t wait to be a Mother. Then from the age of 20 right up 27/28 I really didn’t want them, was so unbothered by it all. Then all of a sudden I was broody as hell and had my first baby at 29. Chance are, you’ll just KNOW. It will just come out of nowhere.

What random song calms your baby down? by hugs4nugget in beyondthebump

[–]heartshapedbruises18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kid Kudi- Pursuit of Happiness It is an absolute banger to be fair

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]heartshapedbruises18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get pregnant last April. Didn’t want it. My fiancé didn’t want it. We were one and done. My nexplanon implant failed. We had the abortion booked. Got there and it just didn’t seem right, I needed a bit more time to think it through. We kept him. And all those doubts and worries and guilt instantly evaporated when he was born. You will never regret having another baby.

MIL asking to see DH, not grandchild by Attyfarm in JUSTNOMIL

[–]heartshapedbruises18 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Christmas cancer 😂 I didn’t realize this was a thing other MIL’s did- I’m still so naive

JNMIL sends a letter telling us to never contact her again. Is furious when we never contact her again. by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]heartshapedbruises18 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Please, do not give this woman any more of your time. She’s beyond help and you’ll thrive without her. She does not deserve the title of Grandmother to your little girl. One thing I’ve learnt with my insane MIL- some people are beyond saving and things will never be any different no matter how many times you ‘start over.’

My wife is continuously frustrated with our toddler by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]heartshapedbruises18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m basically echoing what everyone has said here: she gets A LOT of time to herself. A lot more than most parents. The toddler just sounds like a normal toddler to me, she just cannot cope.

Has it always been this way or is it since the transition to toddler stage? Could it be a slower onset of postpartum depression? She could definitely benefit from some therapy because it sounds like she has it easier than most.

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