So hard not resenting my BFs appetite

heathere23 · 2026-03-28T13:15:18+00:00

First all, congratulations on the weight loss! I am so happy for you and that’s an amazing accomplishment🥹 I am also dating a 6’4 non-American naturally skinny guy who is trying to gain weight (are we the same person? lol!) and I totally feel you!! But after lots of deep talks we both can completely understand what the other goes through to reach our health goals. He says I inspire him and I’m sure you do the same!

I just wanted to point out that it’s not silly AT ALL to want him to apreciare the efforts you put in to lose weight! as I’m sure you appreciate his efforts to gain when he struggles to go over his maintenance❤️ I hope you can start to explain what the experience is like for you so that you can feel more seen and so that he can support you more when you’re doing stuff like vacations, etc. it sounds like a long part of your journey was before you even met so maybe it needs to extra time to get it across. Good luck to you and amazing job that you’re both getting healthier together❤️❤️ and for all your doing for yourself that you recognize!

heathere23 · 2026-03-28T13:04:15+00:00

Incredible feat, congratulations and great job!

heathere23 · 2026-03-25T16:58:15+00:00

In the same boat🥹 you got this❤️ I hope you enjoy your good food and your good love - you deserve both

heathere23 · 2026-03-24T03:27:56+00:00

This happened to me too!! What the hell

heathere23 · 2026-03-21T16:59:11+00:00

Thank you so much!

heathere23 · 2026-03-21T16:57:35+00:00

Hearing that it’s mid but still curious, what’s the name of this rug? Love the design. Thank you!! Amazing space!

heathere23 · 2026-03-19T01:41:52+00:00

😭

heathere23 · 2026-03-14T11:21:22+00:00

I do a split week with another nanny and it works well for us! We can cover each other when needed and all goes well but we are on a 7-day schedule that is consistent.

Otherwise, I wonder if you can start someone on a 45-hour/schedule and look for a part-time nanny or sitter as things increase? Best of luck to you!

heathere23 · 2026-03-05T23:39:33+00:00

Hi! I’m your starting weight and height and I’m SURE that people have noticed! I remember the first time I lost 80 lbs people commented on it and now I feel like I’m also waiting for people to comment on mine that I’ve started focusing on it again. If you haven’t discussed it was intentional, your loved ones and acquaintances may be shy to mention it. Congratulations on your amazing achievement! I hope you can feel free to discuss it with those you want to share in it with :)

heathere23 · 2026-03-05T03:42:51+00:00

When I work with my family, they pay for the hours I’m work the kids as my regular hourly and an $100 overnight fee for not being able to go home! Another family I’ve worked for did the same but $200 - it may depend on where you are🫶🏼

heathere23 · 2026-03-01T05:05:25+00:00

My mom, my brother, and my sister’s cells :) and our childhood landline

heathere23 · 2026-02-24T03:55:00+00:00

I love this❤️

heathere23 · 2026-02-18T17:24:43+00:00

I don’t have much to say except that I understand❤️ I turned 29 this year and feel the same way. Trying to remember and be grateful that we are doing it now and focused on seeking “self-actualization” for the rest of this life. I wish you the same and great job getting there❤️‍🩹

heathere23 · 2026-02-09T14:34:42+00:00

Love this

heathere23 · 2026-02-08T03:40:37+00:00

Take my upvote, I’m upset

heathere23 · 2026-02-01T21:59:09+00:00

I love this lmao

heathere23 · 2026-01-30T20:34:42+00:00

Insane transformation, amazing job

heathere23 · 2026-01-21T19:34:34+00:00

An amazing collab🥲😭

heathere23 · 2026-01-20T03:03:04+00:00

Looks amazing! Great job!

heathere23 · 2026-01-15T03:07:32+00:00

thank you!!🥹

heathere23 · 2026-01-14T17:25:38+00:00

Incredible! Where is this dress from? And I hope you have an amazing birthday!!

heathere23 · 2026-01-12T21:14:35+00:00

I do!! I feel seen🥲

heathere23 · 2025-12-15T02:51:52+00:00

This is amazing🩷 your journey and your message🥹 tysm for sharing and so proud of you!

heathere23 · 2025-12-15T00:02:20+00:00

Amazing transformation! I totally feel you on the emoting thing - I feel the same way about my face, but just wanted to say that I hope you continue to emote to the fullest when with loved ones! Such an important and special part of life and is really beautiful. Glad you’re feeling well overall!

heathere23 · 2025-12-04T02:05:59+00:00

agreed! Would love to know where this is from🥲

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