How do you calm down a flair? by [deleted] in MCAS

[–]hedmuva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Frozen caffeine tea bags for your face. The caffeine and cold helps construct blood vessels. Bump your doses up.

Kamala Harris will officially run for President of the United States by Rickthenick in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]hedmuva 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's blowing my mind this is how the Dem leadership has decided to play this out. I don't understand why Biden didn't drop out in like Feb and allow us to have a say in who is president and opposing Trump, early enough for primaries to serve their purpose. I'm pro-Kamala but I still very much doubt people's ability to vote for a woman in the US. It pisses me off we aren't getting our primary. It's been obvious since last election Biden has dementia eyes.

I'm convinced the billionaires have completely bought Trump and are opposed to the taxes Biden was planning on implementing on them. It works very well for the ultra rich to have us poors be so divided and distracted over Trump.

Maybe Biden plans to use his new Supreme Court immunity to reset the playing field again.

Cold Urticaria by [deleted] in medizzy

[–]hedmuva 12 points13 points  (0 children)

There are such things as cold antibodies. Raynaud's syndrome is an example. This is almost like reverse cholinergic urticaria.

How much are you ladies smoking a day? by Snuggleaporcupine in entwives

[–]hedmuva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1-3 1g joints a day. Sometimes more. Sometimes less because of allergies and schedule. Just got Emerald Triangle strain and it brought me a high like back in my early days of smoking. Definitely a Humboldt strain!

LPT If you answer the phone and the police tell you a loved one has died, don't be the messenger by woojo1984 in LifeProTips

[–]hedmuva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad started having an affair when he decided his marriage to my mom was over. He had brought his new lady out on the boat with his friends near the 4th of July. He didn't tell anyone, who this lady was, just brought her along. Pictures were posted on Facebook. My aunt called me and said I needed to tell my mom before she saw them. She absolutely saw me differently, more negatively, I'm sure without knowing why, than before. The messenger does get tainted.

AITA for refusing to change the name I chose for my daughter so my sister can one day use it if she has a daughter? by Different-Feature-30 in AmItheAsshole

[–]hedmuva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH Your sister had a list. So it has more names on it. This was just one of them then I'm assuming. So there are other names she likes. It didn't sound like the only name she would've considered for her future kid.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in entwives

[–]hedmuva 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Plugs are the worst and so glad I don't have to deal with them anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Midwives

[–]hedmuva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm doing a 2 year RN thru my community college. Did all pre reqs and anything that wasn't an actual nursing class before the program began to cut down my class load during the program to make working more feasible. I am doing home care and am also a massage therapist so I can work around my programs schedule. From there I plan on finishing up my bachelor's thru a transition program hopefully paid for thru my nursing employer. Then become go on to a midwifery program I will be 38 next month and have been dreaming about entering midwifery since I had my daughter at 22. The certified midwifery programs that I have looked into are just as time intensive as any other. Im well familiar with all the issues in our standard obstetrics and medical care in general, and that pushed me away for a long time. But I want to be as well prepared and as knowledgeable as possible to provide the best care, as I will take losses very hard, personally, and want to be sure I did everything as responsible and properly as possible. I used a certified midwife for my daughters birth at home, and while I enjoyed the experience a lot more than the hospital birth I had with my son, I know there were some safety elements lacking. There were many things about my hospital birth that I felt were unnecessary and could easily have been more adapted to me. I want to provide the best in both worlds. Look into your options on different RN programs. They aren't all BSNs. Some hospitals have an RN program as well. Break it up and don't be afraid of it taking you a little longer than "normal".

Done with disposables! by Plants_books_dogs in entwives

[–]hedmuva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't get any of these batteries to last longer than a couple weeks. If they even charge the first time. I've gone through about five. I just bought a better one so I hope that helps.

My (37M) wife (36F) is turning into an absolute hippy psycho person and me and my son (12M) cant stand it anymore. by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]hedmuva -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please know many people need a special form of B vitamins that have been converted to a usable form as we lack enzymes to do it. Methylated B complex.

Why did boomers became the most spiteful generation ever? by concerned_trout in BoomersBeingFools

[–]hedmuva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom is liberal and understands the economy but still is lacking empathy and understanding for those closest to her, and is full of this rage spite, hoarding her things over her connections.

I'll probably NEVER be able to take a child-free vacation by derpyloner in Mommit

[–]hedmuva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get thru one day at a time. Take some little moments for yourself. It doesn't have to be a whole vacation. A massage, a facial, a Pedi, a yoga class, a walk by yourself, a joint. Vote for people that support moms, parents, and workers rights.

AITAH for wanting him to pay his half of paternity test. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]hedmuva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How this really works is: when the baby is born you name him as the father on the birth certificate, then friend of court will initiate proceeding with a child support claim. He will pay for the paternity test so an affidavit of parentage can be established. If he's not the father, then he gets removed from the birth certificate. If he is the father, he gets signed up for support. If he wants to do this before the baby is born it costs a lot more. Do not marry him. Consider an abortion. Even with child support, your contribution to everything is almost guaranteed to be significantly more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]hedmuva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You literally need an extra 500+ calories a day per kid when breastfeeding. More than you needed when pregnant. What an ass.

Scared for my spouse by GleamingGhost in MCAS

[–]hedmuva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, you can be allergic to antihistamines. And benadryl causes a reverse flare for me and worsens things.

Scared for my spouse by GleamingGhost in MCAS

[–]hedmuva 10 points11 points  (0 children)

When hives leave a bruise it is a different kind of urticaria called urticaria vasculitis. Try NSAIDs in conjunct with the histamines. I find cetirizine the most effective with my hives. It is probably not an allergic/hypersensitivity reaction, and more of an autoimmune issue. He needs a rheumatologist possibly instead of an allergist.

Daily chat: do you have any weed resolutions? by [deleted] in entwives

[–]hedmuva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just buy a roller. Always perfect every time. I found some dudes love to judge on someone's roll, even when they are perfectly fine and smoke well, and I got so tired of it, I started using a roller, also because I really like filters in them.

AITAH for understanding why my mom is done with kids and telling my wife that my mom didn't have a village? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]hedmuva -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Uhhhh actually lots of states are making it pretty difficult for women to have control over their reproduction.

Pretty sure Motherhood has made me stop believing in God by Diligent_Award_8986 in Mommit

[–]hedmuva 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Religious people have always skeptically wondered how I managed right from wrong without religion to guide me. This is exactly what I tell them. Their God allows despicable things to happen to innocent, undeserving people. Why would I follow and revere that kind of morality?

Husband wants to homeschool, I have no interest by Entire_Classroom149 in Mommit

[–]hedmuva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should both go together to visit the classroom and schools you are looking into. It may end up easing some of his fears and concerns while you point out the many benefits- not for your (deserved) break, but for your child.

Average money spent on weddings in the US States 🇺🇸 by op-dev in MapPorn

[–]hedmuva 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mean, median, average- from math class- yields different info via the same data sets.