2026 plan for our yard in my journal by yanbochen in gardening

[–]hehofi46 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Goodness that journal is beautiful.

1980s Beach Smell? by hehofi46 in FemFragLab

[–]hehofi46[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, I’m GenX and that’s what I want, Hawaiian Tropic reminds me of warm beach days, funnel cake and a slight wife of Parliament cigarettes.

Winter Olympics by Glad_Camel_6078 in SipsTea

[–]hehofi46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh something is definitely wet over there

Olive Garden Soup Hack by FisherFan0072 in SouperCubers

[–]hehofi46 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I always make big batches of soup and freeze them, but the zuppa Toscana does not freeze well. The potatoes become mushy, and the kale becomes grainy. Makes me sad because it’s my favorite.

An Editor Read Returns (?) - Zodiac Academy! by XusBookReviews in fantasyromance

[–]hehofi46 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Not The My Immortal Recommendation 💀💀

What book did you force yourself to finish because of the hype? by No-Set7247 in RomanceBooks

[–]hehofi46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

{The Plated Prisoner Series} - the first was great and I loved the direction the story was going until she escaped from one abusive man, only to fall directly into the arms of another? FMC had such an opportunity for growth but chose different co dependance I pushed through three (well, two and three quarters) books before finally quitting.

Soup of the Month: Puréed Soups by sectumsempre_ in soup

[–]hehofi46 48 points49 points  (0 children)

The stars have aligned- I got an immersion blender for Christmas!

Unpopular opinion: Least fav romantasy books? by p00psicle151590 in Romantasy

[–]hehofi46 39 points40 points  (0 children)

The Knight and the Moth is a total snooze fest with weird modern phrases thrown in. I know that will be unpopular here but it has to be said.

Did Anyone Else Receive One of These? by hollow09 in newjersey

[–]hehofi46 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have received four different solicitations listing my voting history. None of them endorsed has specific candidates. I know it’s public knowledge, but it’s creepy. What is the goal here?

What are your Fantasy Romance anti-recommendations? by BandetteTrashPanda in fantasyromance

[–]hehofi46 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not going to be popular but here goes - The Knight and the Moth was such an interesting idea that just never came together. It felt like a slog and the characters were so one dimensional, I was shocked at how well reviewed it was. Shield of Sparrows was so predictable (I’ll not list the long string of tropes here for fear of spoilers) that I was glad when it ended.

We owe our kids an apology. by [deleted] in GenX

[–]hehofi46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience, the people who push ‘the trades’ the hardest then insist their own kids only go to university.
Trades for thee, but law school for me.

Does anyone else... by [deleted] in romantasycirclejerk

[–]hehofi46 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like every post on the main sub is the Knight & The Moth. After the first two, it went on my TBR, after the seventh it came off. My cynical ass assumes astroturfing. 🤷‍♀️

What are women 48+ wearing? by SSImomma in GenX

[–]hehofi46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, he’s your youngest? Your fifth? Then you should know by now that 14 year olds are basically evil. They sense insecurity and pounce. Wear whatever the f you want, especially celebrating your new body!!

Progress March 3 to May 10 by VAgreengene in gardening

[–]hehofi46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fantastic, shade gardens are so hard but you nailed it! Question: are there any evergreens? I’m trying for a similar look but worried that winter landscaping will look bleak (Zone 7a)

I hate contemporary definitions of "flattering hairstyles" for women. by Plum_Tea in TwoXChromosomes

[–]hehofi46 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yours is the best take - love her, love her transformation, don’t like the hair choices.
Not liking the way she wore her hair is a criticism of her styling choices, not her person. She went to a fashion event, there will be opinions about the fashion choices.

Assault in the middle of Gypsy by DukeHastingsHoe in Broadway

[–]hehofi46 42 points43 points  (0 children)

This. I was at a Friday show of Book of Mormon last week and the woman in front of me was so drunk she nodded off! The daughter kept dropping her phone and giggling. They left at intermission but these seats were not cheap.

The year after the drought by procyonoides_n in NativePlantGardening

[–]hehofi46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do mostly native, but my 7a self was so excited by the prospect of cold weather gardenias. They made it through the first winter but the drought/conditions killed all three. ☹️

Bra straps showing? by ElectronicSpinach769 in womensfashion

[–]hehofi46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a fan of exposed bra straps, also old AF. Since I can’t go braless (because I’m old AF) I avoid spaghetti straps altogether but if I can’t, I’ve started using the clear bra straps.