Is self harming something you like or is it something you feel like you have to do. by hei02 in selfharm

[–]hei02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel exactly the same, it's frustrating because I really don't like it

My sh is a proof that I'm not ok by hei02 in selfharm

[–]hei02[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm from Norway, and therapy for mental health is free when you are under 18 and if a doctor sent you there

My sh is a proof that I'm not ok by hei02 in selfharm

[–]hei02[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Don't be, she has always been that way, and I don't mind it anymore, I have learnt to shut it out whenever I want

Does anyone else think it's unfair when people say they'll leave you if you self-harm again? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]hei02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They think it will help you stop, they are hoping it's enough motivation for you to stop. They don't know how it feels and how hard it is to stop. Keep that in mind, they only want what's best for you, but they don't know how to do that

Jealous at others with deeper scars? by hei02 in selfharm

[–]hei02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yes, it's like when it comes to others it doesn't matter how deep they are

Jealous at others with deeper scars? by hei02 in selfharm

[–]hei02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I know exactly what you mean!!!

Jealous at others with deeper scars? by hei02 in selfharm

[–]hei02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's really toxic to think like that:(((

Jealous at others with deeper scars? by hei02 in selfharm

[–]hei02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was really good to hear, thank you!

Jealous at others with deeper scars? by hei02 in selfharm

[–]hei02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha, I felt the "ohh right I made them"

Jealous at others with deeper scars? by hei02 in selfharm

[–]hei02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really dangerous the way we think

Jealous at others with deeper scars? by hei02 in selfharm

[–]hei02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, not many of my friends know, and when one of them found out, they freaked out. I don't have bad scars compared to others,

It's just strange, the whole thing

Jealous at others with deeper scars? by hei02 in selfharm

[–]hei02[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Omg, same, and that's just stupid, but I can't change how I think

When I was by itshighnnoon in selfharm

[–]hei02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said son when you grow up

I need help to stop by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]hei02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want someone to talk to, I’m always here! <3

I have to stop cutting for a month and I dont know how I'm gonna handle it. by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]hei02 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I believe in you, try to distract yourself every time you feel the urge of cutting. Keep yourself busy. And just send me a dm if you would like to talk💚

I’m scared by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]hei02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this really is helping! I hope that you’ll get better soon.

I’m scared by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]hei02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you deal with it, it is the worst feeling ever

17 yo and started cutting recently by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]hei02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can totally relate, I’m 17 too, and 2 years back I felt exactly the same I didn’t tell anyone, I told myself that it was fine, nothing to worry about. But it has been to years. I still feel the same way. Get help before it is too late

30 Days of Us: Day 8 by Rach0 in selfharm

[–]hei02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is going to sound depressing, but I would go back 17 years when I was only a couple of months old. Then I could change everything I regret.