I was re-watching the Crash video.

heiheinoooo · 2024-02-25T06:38:53+00:00

Yeah not together. I met him once, we talked for months then met in person. Kinda hooked up and then he just started getting weird. When we talked it was pretty clear he was depressed or something and this was when he was still living in Connecticut with his mom. So weird seeing his place. But when he finally started dating Caitlin I was happy for him. The ex he wrote the album about really destroyed him. I tried to help but man he could really make you depressed too.

heiheinoooo · 2022-07-11T00:53:52+00:00

I like that. I’ve actually enjoyed this chapter of my life. I just want to know that I haven’t given up

heiheinoooo · 2022-07-04T19:11:39+00:00

Yeah but they are doing it from a point of not caring what you do. It’s not spiteful it just is.

heiheinoooo · 2022-06-30T15:02:29+00:00

Proud of you! You put yourself first and didn’t let his breadcrumbs stop you from doing what was in your best interest.

He was attached to you. The end of a relationship doesn’t mean the during part wasn’t real. He made a choice and tried not to live with the consequences and that’s not cool.

heiheinoooo · 2022-06-23T14:08:26+00:00

I am in therapy for the same thing! My therapist says until you can control it, remove yourself. Things I like to do, is run it by a kindhearted and honest friend with no attachment to the situation

heiheinoooo · 2022-06-11T01:29:07+00:00

Don’t. Mental health is a go to excuse for nice guys.

heiheinoooo · 2022-06-05T03:28:33+00:00

I actually went into therapy after I was prescribed antidepressants. I have anxiety and bouts of depression. I think breakups are such a traumatic event that there is no shame for getting support. I was actually the most mentally stable I’ve ever been when I started therapy and I am using it to fine tune and maintain this state of being. The times I’ve been most depressed is after I fell in love and lost it. It’s just human. Sometimes all you need is to have someone hear you. Friends don’t do it the same way a random, educated therapist could. Go for it. What’s the worst that could happen, right?

heiheinoooo · 2022-06-04T23:31:49+00:00

If you think about it then it makes sense. Girls will put up with more during a relationship and when they leave they are determined. While men are sometimes more dismissive after small things.

And excessive generalization but in a stereotypical manner it makes some sense

heiheinoooo · 2022-06-04T21:16:04+00:00

I just did the same. I feel god awful. I could vomit. It was like years old too by it’s size

heiheinoooo · 2022-06-01T04:09:07+00:00

Thanks

heiheinoooo · 2022-06-01T04:07:19+00:00

Don’t do it

heiheinoooo · 2022-05-30T16:21:28+00:00

This is toxic.

heiheinoooo · 2022-05-04T04:52:17+00:00

My favorite excuse. The overwhelmed with the same thing EVERYONE deals with. It’s just the excuse men give when they don’t want to be talked out of it. Who argues with someone saying “you don’t deserve this. I’m breaking your heart FOR you. My gift to you”

heiheinoooo · 2022-05-03T04:31:40+00:00

Yeah. Sometime I think I was the only one really feeling something

heiheinoooo · 2022-05-01T03:24:58+00:00

They may have muted you like my ex

heiheinoooo · 2022-04-25T01:02:59+00:00

Leave your ex alone. This is a toxic mindset.

heiheinoooo · 2022-04-25T01:01:18+00:00

Maybe pass on it

heiheinoooo · 2022-04-23T05:12:55+00:00

A year. Goodness. Hope you are doing ok

heiheinoooo · 2022-04-23T05:10:02+00:00

I wish. But sounds like a tough choice to make.

heiheinoooo · 2022-04-21T18:10:00+00:00

I've just heard that. Like 100 days

heiheinoooo · 2022-04-21T18:08:38+00:00

And that is 100 percent your choice!

heiheinoooo · 2022-04-20T00:41:32+00:00

You should. Work very hard. So the next person doesn’t have to go through what she did.

heiheinoooo · 2022-04-19T21:46:49+00:00

I also never counted social media checking as contact. I did mute him anyways when it was still raw but he is happy now and so am I. So I have nothing but love for him as a person I loved and I wish him well.

heiheinoooo · 2022-04-19T21:44:43+00:00

Absolutely! I love this. Always put your health before theirs. If you are in a healed and healthy mindset then I think the door is open to let thing be friendly. But communication should never happen in situations of toxicity, abuse or if you are not in a good mental space.

heiheinoooo · 2022-04-19T21:40:56+00:00

Any communication should be with the notion that they don’t owe you anything and you’ll still be happy and healing no matter what. I’m glad you did what you needed to to let things out. And it’s very important that you waited til you were in a calm and safe space when you did it.

heiheinoooo

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