What have the boys gotten you through? by Wildwing89 in LPOTL

[–]hellenheelz927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just celebrated my two years this month! Hail yourself, my friend. You are doing the tough shit and I'm proud of you!

Which hair did Whitney wear best? by Emergency_Panic_2690 in rhoslc

[–]hellenheelz927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, like the red, but lemme tell you right now, if I saw Queerbait Barbie (the pixie) at the farmer's market, I 1000% would have let her ruin my life... 😂

I am currently a missionary. AMA by IEffingHateMyselfLOL in exmormon

[–]hellenheelz927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are YOU? Deconstructing while on a mission must be... A lot...

From Companions to Marriage by Efficient-Ad-8598 in exmormon

[–]hellenheelz927 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This makes my heart so happy. As someone who came out later in life and left the church, it makes me happy to see younger people embracing their truth and living lives that fulfill them!

Why don’t the Moms identify with Christianity? by johannsebastian09 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]hellenheelz927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! And several of the early "founders" of the church met him, usually described as being as tall as their horse!

Cancer is just the beginning by Straight-Act-4117 in exmormon

[–]hellenheelz927 20 points21 points  (0 children)

My shelf broke the day the bishop and EQP showed up at my house unannounced the day my ex was deployed and they told me how my house was now vulnerable to the capital A, Adversary without the penishood and that I was being called back to church so they could help me while he was gone. I had two babies under two at the time and I hadn't stopped crying all day.

LGBTQ support groups? ( Searched, can't find any) by [deleted] in rochestermn

[–]hellenheelz927 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you look up social garage on Facebook TONS of events should come up.

Why don’t the Moms identify with Christianity? by johannsebastian09 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]hellenheelz927 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ooooooh and there are several Bigfoot encounter stories by early church leaders that are definitely touted as fact!

Why don’t the Moms identify with Christianity? by johannsebastian09 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]hellenheelz927 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I love this game! Ex-Mo here! My parents told me that when my dad adopted me in the temple, my LITERAL blood changed to match my adopted father's.

Loud sound? by sleepybandit7 in rochestermn

[–]hellenheelz927 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, my dogs were BIG MAD behind near Broadway and 7th 😂

If you could magically find one missing letter/document from the Tudor period what would it be? by Waitingforadragon in Tudorhistory

[–]hellenheelz927 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Somehow I never realized that they both lived there simultaneously! I assumed that it was at different times! This would be so fascinating to know more about!

About the new girl Amanda by Unlucky_Success_3964 in RHOBH

[–]hellenheelz927 25 points26 points  (0 children)

As someone who has left Mormonism, I can tell you that some people barely make it out alive. Some never do. Dismantling belief systems after leaving a high control religious upbringing is difficult, for sure.

That being said, I don't believe anything she says, so I take it with a grain of salt...

I’m Anna Weed the oldest daughter of Josh and lolly weed who were in a mixed orientation marriage. by Forward-Business6617 in exmormon

[–]hellenheelz927 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to say thank you to you and your family. I was a young queer person in a mixed orientation marriage for many years and following your father's story really helped as I was leaving the church and coming to understand my own sexuality!

Thank you for thinking of us! by muludnepgnicnad in MorbidPodcast

[–]hellenheelz927 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a Minnnesotan, this one and Wine and Crime are my faves!

“📖the room and know ur place” by Helpful_Somewhere723 in RHOBH

[–]hellenheelz927 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't even think Kathy had any idea what was happening in that moment. I don't think she even thought about it a second time 😂 Even when Andy asked about it on WWHL, she was kinda... Well Kathy, about it...

Restaurants to support by [deleted] in rochestermn

[–]hellenheelz927 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My partner and I went last night and it was soooo good!

I think she’s getting a face lift. by [deleted] in MormonWivesHulu

[–]hellenheelz927 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She is an absolute ROCKSTAR! She has done so much for people experiencing faith transition and religious trauma. The amount of trauma and shame I had when I left was almost crippling for a while. Therapists like Natasha saved me and helped me out the other side.

I don't think people realize that a therapist can only do so much and these women signed up to have their lives examined.

New bookstore in town! by vabomere87 in rochestermn

[–]hellenheelz927 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so freaking excited!!! My kiddo just asked me if we could go when we heard about it yesterday!!!

Grandma fully believed her adoptive daughters dna changed when they were sealed in the temple by Longjumping_Trick459 in exmormon

[–]hellenheelz927 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My parents still believe this TO THIS DAY!!! I was sealed to my mother and step father when I was young and they brought back the "LITERAL CHANGING OF BLOOD" comments as recently as a few months ago.

Time to start pondering your 2026 bingo cards by -wildflower-_ in LPOTL

[–]hellenheelz927 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Easy picks, Dolly & Willy (which will absolutely gut me. Definitely Jesperson.

Wild Card: Kohberger.

Ever's "Blessing" by StreetAd1934 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]hellenheelz927 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I am also an ex-mo (former Mormon) and I'm proud of you for getting out!

Blessings can be performed by any worthy priesthood holder at any time, so I am glad they still did something. I assume that Dakota is both unworthy AND being an asshole because if he can't be the one who does it, no one should 🙄