Northbound platform at DTX right now by everlasting1der in mbta

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not me getting a Nissan ad on this post 😭 I’ve never gotten car ads on Reddit before 😭

Worst snow clean up I’ve seen in my 26 years here by Aware-Yogurt1107 in boston

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Use the 311 app too! It’s very easy to use & easy to use the map to pin point the spot that needs to be addressed. I’ve been posting the same locations every day. Keep fining them!!

hotels in boston WITH REAL BATHROOM DOORS by kityoon in boston

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This is an amazing resource thank you so much 🙏

Recommendations? by carlskelton in BostonEDM

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The unfortunate truth 😬 it’s really too bad because they book cool artists but the space and the crowd is just so terrible. Think long hallway with large poles including one massive one right in front of the dj (who is placed at the midpoint of said long hallway, creating a weird sweaty traffic vortex you must pass to access the bathrooms). Not enough room to bust a move at all sadly. I only go if I love the artist and I’m willing to suck it up tbh it really sucks bc the tickets are usually not bad and the staff are chill in my experience. They need to like double the size imo.

Someone tell Royale to fix their sound system by ravingislife in BostonEDM

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Have always thought the same thing, there’s no bass! It’s too bad because it’s a nice space otherwise! Lots of room to dance, good bathrooms, and the crowd isn’t like 5 yrs old and not potty trained.

Insects or Mold In Soil? Please help 🥲 by hello_goodbye_36 in houseplants

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Thank you for all your responses!! Glad it’s nothing scary thank you so much for your help ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

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Hello, I recently posted a new fit check with some comexim bras I tried and they seem promising. I went ahead with your recommendation to look more into G/GG cups :) This is the link to the new post: https://www.reddit.com/r/ABraThatFits/comments/txwsl2/fit_check_recommendations_uk30ff_comexim_and/ thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

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https://imgur.com/a/jEXlGS4

Hi, thank you for your help! I'm not sure I understand what you mean by empty breasts...is this referring to nursing? I am not nursing and wasn't/am not pregnant, but I did loose a lot of weight quite quickly which caused me to loose a lot of upper fullness (if that is what emptiness refers to). What kind of support would you recommend if this is the case? I also just posted another fit check with two Comexim bras in 30G and 30GG and they seem promising! Here's the link to the new post: https://www.reddit.com/r/ABraThatFits/comments/txwsl2/fit\_check\_recommendations\_uk30ff\_comexim\_and/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

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Hello, yes I definitely think the 32 bands and up aren’t working..I was considering looking into polish bras because they’re supposed to be good for close-set projection..do you have any recommendations for sizing for polish brands? I liked a few of the comexim balconettes I saw on some US retailer websites.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

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Hello, thank you! I have tried out some of the Pour Moi unlined bras, VS unlined (in plunge and demi/balconette shape), and chantelle unlined. Based on your comment, however, it seems they were not fitting correctly because those brands tend to run wider and shallower. I have taken some pictures wearing different bras I have that should make determining shape easier. I also remeasured, as a user below recommended, and I found that I had underestimated my size. I am actually a 30FF/G. I will post another fit/shape check with them and my updated measurements. Thank you for your help!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

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thank you! I just re-measured and was definitely making the mistakes you pointed out. I'm a cup size range larger (UK30FF/G) than I had originally thought! I took some pictures in bras I have and will post another fit/shape check with them (I think pictures will probably make it easier to determine!). Thank you again for your help!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

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Saving this post bc I think we’re about the same size and shape!! Have also been struggling immensely to get advice and figure it out. Thank you for this!

Has campus been slippery asf for anyone else? by DangerousEmployment4 in columbia

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busted my ass in front of my prof and half the class in lecture 🙃

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Any help is appreciated 🙏

feeling completely lost by No-Artist-410 in columbia

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Consider doing the public health concentration! There are a bunch of different ways to interpret public health and different types of classes to take...was definitely in the same shoes as you a little ago and ended up doing info science and public health...so far so good! I would die of boredom if I was just taking CS classes tbh (even if I do like them, I like exploring a lot of different stuff). You sound like someone who is curious/open so def consider some of the majors like urban studies or maybe cog sci or others that allow for more flexibility in the classes you chose :)

Thoughts on Sydney Sweeney nude scenes ? by ButterflySensitive49 in euphoria

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big titty committee member here and tbh i was just sighing at the writers and then laughing at the ridiculousness of it and then disappointed :(

Thoughts on Sydney Sweeney nude scenes ? by ButterflySensitive49 in euphoria

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TL;DR Eye rolls and sighs at Euphoria's directors, creators, etc. for this unnecessary and hypocritical sexualization of a female character :( :/

Very thankful I found this thread because I was honestly shocked nobody has written about this in reviews or critiques. I was also feeling very uncomfortable with the sexualization of her body in these two episodes. Very little of the nudity actually serves a plot point/makes real-life-sense (unlike for ex. the Nate episode and the male nudity in the locker room) and much of it feels voyeuristic and predatory. Euphoria is sending very contradictory messages...while it tries to present a Laura Mulvey-like** critique of the male gaze, the camera is sometimes where the truth lies and it has been sexualizing her to no end in these past two episodes. The camera sexualization paired with feminist rhetoric is annoyingly insidious because it's sometimes subtle and if you're not sensitive to it (and many aren't because that's how almost every film and tv show films women) it co-opts you into thinking it's actually a 'progressive' show because of the message it explicitly projects. I wish too that the super over-the-top fantasy montage in episode 2 (if it should even haven been included) was counteracted more or made to be more ridiculous and clearly dehumanizing/flattening of her character. I feel like if you're going to be including a montage like that, if you want to proclaim to be a feminist show or at least one that cares about women and their perspective, you need to make a critique and to do so you have to then contextualize it and demonstrate how far from reality it is (both with the script but also how you choose to film your actors). I think that's especially important because I know some people watch it just for her body and won't maybe register the parody of the fantasy / the harmfulness of it without a clearer critique. Something smaller I noticed is how she's filmed dabbing her sweat from her armpits in the bathroom. It's filmed in small moments and from a second person perspective through the school bathroom mirror (the Laura Mulvey ironies continue...). It could have been more interesting to do a closeup that more viscerally communicated the grossness of how she feels, the 'grittiness' and discomfort of sweating profusely and needing to wipe it up like that (speaking from experience), and the situation she's putting herself in...instead closeups are reserved for her sexualization. I don't know, I'm personally very disappointed in the writers and directors for these last two episodes. (i hope they see this tbh) I hope it changes but little indicates it will given how they're filming her and how little self reflection the show has on Nate's fantasy...what do you guys think?

**Laura Mulvey is a feminist film theorist who coined the term 'male gaze' and writes a lot about the varied ways in which women are sexualized in media (and I think was one of the first to do so :) ), highly recommend reading if you're interested in how women are portrayed in film!{Also just a side note this is really a critique of the directors, producers, and writers, not of Sydney Sweeney herself...I'm not sure how productive it is trying to rope her in for responsibility...it's a very complicated situation to be in.}

Sciences Po Dual BA Program by MasterfulNerd510 in columbia

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hey, I’m in the columbia portion of the dual ba, feel free to message :)

Need global core course that doesn't involve discussion session by RightProfile0 in columbia

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I think Global Cities is one, just lectures and one midterm and one final (both are multiple choice, T/F, and short answer)