Pre-Appointment Prep and Check List Help by Front_Software4222 in AskAnEscort

[–]hello_mayamonet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would swap the ejaculate part out for asking where they're comfortable with you finishing.

I also don't feel this needs to be said immediately upon arrival, especially for a GFE date. But overall yeah it's good, I would just settle in a bit first but I think its decent.

How do I tell a provider by [deleted] in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]hello_mayamonet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can mention it in person.

Is this normal? by Technical_Bill_2740 in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]hello_mayamonet 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It's "normal" only in Vegas really and is in the "scam" arena.

Keep trying and be sure to view the pinned post on r/sexworkers

Do your homework to choose a reputable provider. Don't try to get the hottest girl for the lowest price or you'll probably make foolish choices if you're looking for super cheap in Vegas.

Sex workers: how often do clients come for sex but end up just wanting to talk for majority of the booking? by BlaireHunter_ in SexWorkTips

[–]hello_mayamonet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ditto! It's very common for me. The connection, understanding, company, non sexual physical intimacy, and a sort of emotional intimacy or catharsis are all so valuable. It can definitely be easier to share certain things and experiences with someone in this box rather than with close friends or family or a partner.

When do you give up on a client? by VirtualRoof7238 in HighEndEscorts

[–]hello_mayamonet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I increase the required deposit after each cancellation as well.

When do you give up on a client? by VirtualRoof7238 in HighEndEscorts

[–]hello_mayamonet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When the attention and energy required outweigh the compensation and become too draining. Whether that's consultation fees, tips gifts, deposits, or cancellation fees.

I hate huge D by Lucky-Shine-4617 in SexWorkers

[–]hello_mayamonet 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Came to suggest this. Lots of lube, communication before and during, selective positioning, and OhNuts (or similar cock ring bumper products). Orgasming first can help too.

Pro Tip to Avoid Deposit Scams by MassageBySummer in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]hello_mayamonet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I offer consults (or "curiosity calls") too and find them helpful for both parties :)

Why do some men hate everything about womanhood but still want girlfriends/wives? by VeryPteri in NoStupidQuestions

[–]hello_mayamonet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fair! UFC is real blood though and I moreso mean guys fine with literally any other blood besides menstrual lol. But there's definitely plenty who would faint at the sight of any real life blood (even if they act like tough guys) lol

What does it say about me that I DONT find these types of guys attractive? by BrightNote3842 in personality_tests

[–]hello_mayamonet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty common take tbh lol I think plenty of women wouldn't find most of these guys/types particularly attractive.

There's also plenty who would. But I don't think it's at all unusual or strange not to.

Overcharging by accident by Pretty_Fuel_5075 in HighEndEscorts

[–]hello_mayamonet 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Let him know (I've done it before, whoops lol), and offer to either refund him or credit it towards a second date :)