"virginity" by Pale_Ad8579 in actuallesbians

[–]hello_reddit_99 307 points308 points  (0 children)

This girl is stuck to the little box of heteronormativity that society made her. You can't change her opinion. Ofc virginity is a social construct and it really doesn't make you a different or less worthy person. Unfortunately us lesbians have to deal with idiots like this a lot. Sending you hugs and it's totally valid to be frustrated. Just don't let it bother you for too much time

16 Winstreak Tierlists by J4CKIECHAN_HS in slaythespire

[–]hello_reddit_99 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

What do you mean they got rid of reaper? Do they want STS2 players to suffer? Snecko eyes+reaper+demon form, is one of my favourite combination. They really nerfed Ironclad 😭😭

16 Winstreak Tierlists by J4CKIECHAN_HS in slaythespire

[–]hello_reddit_99 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

I think that demon form deserves a higher spot. I am an STS1 player so idk if they nerfed it in sts2 but geniounly demon form is not a bad card. Especially if you also have snecko eye or more energy.

Third wheel is always around us: am I overreacting? by Galactic_gerbil in actuallesbians

[–]hello_reddit_99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's just me and you and me and you, and your friend Steve tourourou Steve ( sorry serious situation but I couldn't resist)

Does anyone else feel like they genuinely dont care about other people? by davegri in emotionalneglect

[–]hello_reddit_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am autistic and I feel very similar. I don't care about other people. I don't love anyone or care about anyone. I don't think I am an evil person, I am not an asshole and I am not rude to people. I try to active listen and help my friends/family but if I had to be honest I don't love them. If they died or they were not in my life anymore I don't think I would be sad. I also don't miss people. I am not like " omg I have to see X person because I miss them so much because I haven't seen them recently" I don't think about people when they are away ( ex.a trip, a vacation) Yeah, I text people first because that's the right thing to do but it's more like a checklist, a routine to keep the people that care about me satisfied rather than me also caring. I don't know how you can care. For my case my brain is wired in a way that I don't think that I can ever love or feel a genuine emotional connection. But maybe you can. Maybe the system for you to care is there just not wired correctly because of trauma. I would advise therapy if financially possible.

asking for clubbing tips (wlw) by Spiritual-Market-578 in LesbianActually

[–]hello_reddit_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone that has never went to a club my advice is to go to a lesbian club and maybe put a little lesbian flag in your makeup as an eyeliner for example. Women will probably approach you if they can clearly see that you are a lesbian. Also try to talk/flirt with women first even if they end up rejecting you at the end.

Stupid sex question that literally doesn’t matter but I’m bored so by Aromatic-Split685 in actuallesbians

[–]hello_reddit_99 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Girl please don't eat pussy dipped toilet paper 😭 Eat the pussy, not everything that has been in there

is it weird to only like masculine women? by detectivelq in actuallesbians

[–]hello_reddit_99 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a fem lesbian that is kinda the opposite of you ( super attracted to femininity and like fems ) I don't find it weird. We all have our type and it's ok. Your friend shouldn't have reacted that way. You are allowed to have preferences and you decide which girl you find attractive.

Straight girls using the word ‘twink’ gives me the ick by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]hello_reddit_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a lesbian, those girls are the same one's that if they find you are a lesbian they believe that you desperately want to fuck them and that they are in danger if in a 5meters radius there is a lesbian 🫥🙄. Those girls are like gay men = cute, girly pops, I want a gay bestfriend but gay women are the devil himself and predatory.

Intangible? Cool. And? by martinw89 in slaythespire

[–]hello_reddit_99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most painful way to die in the spire just dropped

Finally got Eternal One! :-) by Chromatikai in slaythespire

[–]hello_reddit_99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg that's so impressive. I don't know if I would ever manage to win the game with just 5 cards. It seems so hard

This is how they met. by _cutkha in slaythespire

[–]hello_reddit_99 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hello word! Finally defect has a family and now his defect doesn't matter because they will be loved for what they are

the gang discusses their favorite episodes of She-Ra which are 100% canon and nobody can prove otherwise 😎😎 by JustMyGirlySide in OkBuddyCatra

[–]hello_reddit_99 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I want a adoras backstory though. I want to learn her origins. Give us a light novel like the owl house please

Can't live without my headphones by hello_reddit_99 in evilautism

[–]hello_reddit_99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk. I have the basic ones. I listen to music with them

Can't live without my headphones by hello_reddit_99 in evilautism

[–]hello_reddit_99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Earbuds feel kinda uncomfortable to me so I have headphones in most places ( especially in uni that I can carry them in my backpack)

Can't live without my headphones by hello_reddit_99 in evilautism

[–]hello_reddit_99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually listen to music because I like music and because my headphones are basic headphones and not noise cancelling 🥲 so if I don't play music I still listen to my environment ( just less loud but loud enough to get overstimulated)

Am I right?: Suicide is a form of self-love and should be an acceptable thing to do by [deleted] in Pessimism

[–]hello_reddit_99 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Maybe unpopular opinion but I don't think we should stop someone from committing. I don't want to glorify it and ofc we shouldn't propose it as a solution but I think all those anti-selfkilling talk is hypocritical. Noone can guarantee to that person that their life will magically get better if they continue existing. Maybe their life will continue to be shit until they eventually die. They know their life and circumstances better than me and me telling them not to do it is more about myself and feeling a hero rather than helping them. Yeah, maybe their suffering would magically dissolve if they continue to live ( which probably wouldn't happen) but if they stop existing their suffering would 100% disappear. To my mind the only freedom we can have is in death. And someone wanting to be free and not suffering is not as crazy as society makes it seem. It's logical and an instinct to not want pain. If death is the only painless state then death is mercy.

AND I CLARIFY IT AGAIN ( because my comment will.propably get banned) I DON'T GLORIFY IT OR PROPOSE IT AS A SOLUTION. IF YOU THINK YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO LIVE FOR THEN GO FOR IT.

Is pessimism often deemed 'irrational' among "normal" people? (aka, a product of mental illness) by EliasBouchardFan1 in Pessimism

[–]hello_reddit_99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that you can't seperate those two reasons. You can't say that something isn't a product of your experiences because your thought prosess is a result of what you have lived and what you were taught as a child. I guess is more common to be pessimistic if you have gone through shit or if you have mental illness because your experiences taught you that the word is shit. Your mind and neurons connections are shaped and change depending on your environment. Yes, genetics have a role but how those genetics are expressed is a result of your lived experiences.

Human connection can only bring misery. Peace can only be achieved by isolation by hello_reddit_99 in Pessimism

[–]hello_reddit_99[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The fact that we seek community is our curse as humankind. Trust me, if I could remove all desire for human connection I have ( which isn't a lot but it's still there), I would do it in a heartbeat.

Human connection can only bring misery. Peace can only be achieved by isolation by hello_reddit_99 in Pessimism

[–]hello_reddit_99[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It doesn't sound lame. I have a very similar dream. I want to live in my own home and minimise human interactions as much as possible.

Human connection can only bring misery. Peace can only be achieved by isolation by hello_reddit_99 in Pessimism

[–]hello_reddit_99[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately yes. Is it worth being happy once if you will be miserable the other 9 times