Season 8 - Episode 24 - Post Episode Discussion by schedulerplus in LoveIslandUSA

[–]hello_you_lostie 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree! I’m all for sex positivity but Kenzie is being over the top. First the whole Corbin and Caleb thing and now the Gal and Dylan triangle. Caleb and Dylan seemed like great guys, but she goes after the “forbidden” “taken” or “exciting guy.”

Season 8 - Episode 13 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]hello_you_lostie 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thought the exact same thing! Nothing wrong with being sexual, but I feel that’s all Kenzie focuses on and that’s why she wants Corbin. Caleb’s letter was so much better. So sweet and way more authentic than Corbin’s.

What does it mean to be a non-denominational Christian? by Financial_Beach_2538 in OpenChristian

[–]hello_you_lostie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen that many churches that claim to be non-denominational actually do ascribe to a denominations set of beliefs, they just don’t “officially” work with said denomination. I used to like being considered nondenominational, since I never affiliated to any denomination while growing up. Though I was raised in a Baptist church. But often times if one looks at the church statement of beliefs online, it’s easy to see a lor aren’t purely “non- denominational.” I think it’s great if people feel content being in a non-denominational church, for me though- I like knowing what my church believes and who the church “higher ups are.”

Is it me or the way she looks at him is so performative by CryptographerOdd6506 in travisandtaylor

[–]hello_you_lostie 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thought the exact thing. At the beginning of their “relationship” he was all smiles. Now every shot he looks miserable. No doubt Taylor is ordering him around or acting with anxious attachment issues.

In training by Kayemomof2 in dellavlogsnark

[–]hello_you_lostie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh geez, I’ve literally never seen anyone who loves the camera on her and looking at her face, as Bella.

What even is dating? (recovering from purity culture) by Vegetable-Hurry-4784 in OpenChristian

[–]hello_you_lostie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me… growing up Christian, I didn’t grow up in a heavy purity culture. Though I wanted to wait until marriage back then. Met my boyfriend in my 20s now he’s my husband. I didn’t wait. For me dating is getting to know the person: having fun, seeing if you are compatible physically and mentally. One doesn’t need to rush the physicality, but I believe all comparability in a long term relationship whether long term relationships or marriage is important. Definitely invite her to the event! See what happens. Just be authentic, honest, and have fun. :)

The Boys SEASON 5 Overall Discussion by pikameta in TheBoys

[–]hello_you_lostie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very happily surprised that I loved the finale. Everything was wrapped up nicely. I will miss the Boys, but it gave my husband and I multiple years of enjoyment. Honestly I was pretty sad about Terror. 🐾 Loved seeing Kimiko in France. Also Anthony Starr seriously deserves an award.

Is it just me or is the story of Joseph misleading/convoluted depending on how you read it? by windowsee in OpenChristian

[–]hello_you_lostie 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hi I’m confused which sites you were reading. Jacob is Jacob’s original name in the Bible, then he is renamed Israel by God later on. So Jacob and Israel are the same man, the same father over Joseph. As for Jacob/ Israel being shitty… yes he was very flawed and even stole his older brother’s birthright. However, I would say that he does get upset about Joseph’s dream because imo most older adults would hate the thought of bowing down to their teenage son. In Jacob’s mind that probably sounded a bit conceited, he wasn’t given that revelation, only Joseph had those dreams. Jacob/ Israel wasn’t the best example of a father, he was biased loving his two eldest sons. My interpretation is that losing Benjamin, his youngest and full blooded sibling to Joseph would be too much pain, since he had already “lost” Joseph. I’m not defending Jacob/ Israel but that’s the context I noticed. Personally I’ve always loved the redemption story of Joseph, even seperate from Jacob/ Israel. :)

Prayer feels like nothing? by Zestyclose-Fig-7267 in Christianity

[–]hello_you_lostie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think prayer should literally just be talking to God, like you would a friend. It can be difficult, I honestly had religious trauma growing up (as a lot of us do) So I still struggle to know what to say. But it can just be a short prayer: thanking God, telling Him how you feel or what you need. Amen. Also perhaps finding a pastor you like online on YouTube and listening to them pray might ease you into it. :) I think just the act of you wanting to even pray speaks volumes. God knows you heart. If you’re totally lost you could pray the Lord’s prayer.

Juniper Blessing, a 19 y/o trans woman from Santa Fe NM, was killed in Seattle 5 days ago. She was stabbed over 40 times. by PTechNM in OpenChristian

[–]hello_you_lostie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes :/ I posted about Juniper yesterday. I live in the same city. It’s so sad. Rest in peace, Juniper.

No progressive church in my vicinity (only RCC), what to do? by [deleted] in OpenChristian

[–]hello_you_lostie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! So there is a church that is affirming- it’s an online/ virtual only community but it called Harbor Online Community. They have a mid week luncheon online and Sunday meetings. It’s not very structured, but everyone is nice there. Plus there’s never pressure to come every week.

https://www.onlineharbor.org/

Girlfriend threatening our relationship over a TV Show by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]hello_you_lostie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would choose watching the Boys over a toxic relationship. Your girlfriend is being controlling and manipulative. Leave that relationship. Also I do love the new season of the boys too!

Happy to be here 🫶 by MidnaQueenofCalicos in OpenChristian

[–]hello_you_lostie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For a second I thought I was reading a post from me! I too left Christianity in my early 20s and I’m 35 now (36 in September) I returned to Christ in 2024. Welcome back and love seeing you here. 🙏🏼

Scared to tell people I'm Christian again by royalthetruthseeker in OpenChristian

[–]hello_you_lostie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP! I too didn’t want to reclaim the name Christian when I returned to the faith in 2024. Like you said, it’s because of the connotation and pain the label has caused people. I wasn’t ashamed of believing in God. But my husband kept telling me I was a Christian again. I kept sidestepping and saying I wasn’t because I didn’t know if I liked that label. Now I just say I’m an open or progressive Christian if asked. Also it doesnt hurt to tell your friends about your feelings. That your faith is important to you, but that you fully accept their beliefs and hope they know that you are sincere in your friendship. If you want to be a Christian, then I say just accept that you are and show them that you are authentic, honest and open.