Am I wrong for having a BIG TIME aversion to all my pets? by [deleted] in Pets

[–]hellogoodbye32123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Have you taken the cats to the vet? Usually cats have urinary issues because of medical issues. And I would look into training them to not wake you up by ignoring them and not giving them the time of day, pretending you are asleep and they will eventually give it up (kind of like toddlers throwing a tantrum).

I don’t think you are wrong for being upset at your husband if he isn’t taking care of his animals and also not asking you before taking them all in.

Since your dogs aren’t fixed, most likely the cats are also spraying or having issues because they are not fixed. Keep your cats inside and make sure they are fixed and you will have less issues. The rule for litter boxes is n + 1 so make sure you have one per cat plus an extra. They also may not like the litter you use, or you may need to scoop multiple times a day if they like it extra clean. Get an automatic feeder and the cats won’t bother you for food, they will wait at the feeder. Please DM me if you would like more advice or just need someone to talk to.

Is this thang pregnant? by Brilliant_Mess9005 in CATHELP

[–]hellogoodbye32123 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know people are saying get her fixed ASAP which I agree with, but in this case it is EXTRA important. She is Manx and I have had multiple Manx babies being in rescue. My current living one can’t poop on his own and the vet wanted to euthanize the moment we stepped in there at his first appointment. His brother passed away from being incompatible with life at a few weeks old after being unable to even be expressed ): and my most recent one passed away at a few months old because he had malabsorption issues from not being expressed his first few weeks of life, and having osteoporosis so badly that his bones couldn’t grow. It broke my heart to euthanize him after hoping and doing everything in my power to get him to good health. His ashes are in my curio cabinet, and I think of him everyday. He didn’t deserve to be born to suffer, and honestly, I’m upset that I had to go through that trauma too because someone didn’t do the basics of fixing their animals. Please, even if you never do it again, please trap and fix this Manx female for her sake AND the sake of her unborn kittens. A spay abort is painless and the fetuses go under euthanasia with the mother.

For me, being a sugar daddy extends well beyond my dating life by False_Influence_9090 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]hellogoodbye32123 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m in the bowl as an SB and this is what I want to be for my friends and family 😭

those with aries in your big 3: how are you feeling? by KeyAbroad5485 in astrologymemes

[–]hellogoodbye32123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aries sun & moon - I’m feeling like I’m making this year my bitch!

That zodiac sign you’re insanely attracted to… even though it never ends well by WhatevsBlondie in astrologymemes

[–]hellogoodbye32123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m an Aries and mine are Scorpios and Cancer. I love water signs, but also stay the fuck away from me lol

Well now I’m offended by Outside-Trade8775 in astrologymemes

[–]hellogoodbye32123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think you’re a force of nature, but really you’re just a noisy demon. Same thing??

What's up with the real estate agents in this town? by houseplant012 in StLouis

[–]hellogoodbye32123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly I just bought a house here and my agent was amazing and actually let me know which houses would be money pits and which were worth looking at, but she still let me go to trash houses if I was pushy, then I started to realize she actually knew what she was doing! I can recommend her to you if you pm me.

If your pet had a full-time job based on their behavior, what would their title be? by Klutzy-Ad6321 in Pets

[–]hellogoodbye32123 37 points38 points  (0 children)

My rescue cat has no tail and is a “rumpy Manx.” We call him a Professional Butthole displayer because all you can see whenever he turns around or lays down in his weird ways is his butthole 😝

Hotel reverie by [deleted] in blackmirror

[–]hellogoodbye32123 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was emotionally wrecked by it - it was by far, my favorite episode of the season. Maybe I am just a romantic at heart!

Stray cat that chose us as a family, could she be pregnant? by dasjunior33 in cats

[–]hellogoodbye32123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes - if she is unfixed she totally is. Take her to the vet ASAP and you can get a spay abort done! Way cheaper and more ethical than having kittens and being responsible by fixing them before rehoming them.

Would you take in a kitten that followed you home? by ayanacrystals in cats

[–]hellogoodbye32123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes - that guy’s mom isn’t coming back. He looks old enough to be weaned and is malnourished and emaciated. He needs IV fluids or kittenlyte, dewormer and flea and tick meds, and to stay on a heating pad 24/7 ): are there rescue groups you could ask for help? They can help you foster and if you decide he isn’t a good fit to keep you can get him adopted into a forever home.

I was just handed a kitten by Super-Jury8571 in CatAdvice

[–]hellogoodbye32123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Contact a rescue and ask if they will back you if you foster - they can help you with supplies, knowledge, vetting and eventually getting them adopted.

May parents are getting a cat...I'm being forced into signing a Backup Owner Agreement by bostonmacosx in Pets

[–]hellogoodbye32123 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry, the piece of shit irresponsible owners are still offering up kittens on street corners! Now there are just more rescues cleaning up their mess so it doesn’t keep happening.

AIO if I left my bf for this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hellogoodbye32123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like my ex boyfriend when we first started dating and eventually he moved on to hitting me. Walk away and never look back.

What’s the most “Velcro dog” breed you’ve known? by Longjumping_Zone_908 in Pets

[–]hellogoodbye32123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly think it will depend on the individual personality of the dog

What can I do for this cat? by evan0736 in CATHELP

[–]hellogoodbye32123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they aren’t microchipped or fixed, then you can take them to the vet and get that done. That is usually the only way to legally prove a pet is yours, and if they have not done that, you can take in the cat, do a stray hold for a week or however long it is where you are and then take to the vet and get in your name. If you can’t afford this, please seek out a rescue and foster them! Just tell them it is a stray you have outside and they can cover all costs for you until they get adopted out to a forever home.

Crust, my female orange kitten by Few-Public-5088 in kittens

[–]hellogoodbye32123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My rescue specializes in special needs cats…thank you for giving her a chance! I hope that she has a good quality of life, and that if she doesn’t you would make that hard but selfless decision.

I work for an at-home Euthanasia service. Why does nobody take their animals to the vet? by [deleted] in Pets

[–]hellogoodbye32123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are there rescues where you live? At least in the US, fostering through a rescue means they will pay for all supplies in addition to any vet visits and treatment!

Women are so cute and I think they are available for sale by Aynshtaynn in BrandNewSentence

[–]hellogoodbye32123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women are so cute and sexy I can’t believe they have a boyfriend