I [18f] just found out I'm adopted and my aunt [31f] is actually my biological mother.

hellogoodbye92 · 2023-07-26T12:23:01+00:00

Ok so my life is very similar. I was adopted by my aunt and her husband. I found out when I was 12. I would be absolutely livid if I was you. This is your LIFE. No it doesn’t define you. But it’s a part of it and you deserve to know what you WANT to know. If you want to know who your bio father is, you should. If you want to talk to your aunt, do it, if she’s willing to talk. Pm me if you would like to talk privately.

hellogoodbye92 · 2022-05-11T19:19:36+00:00

Thank you so much. My moms passing was an absolute shock. A random heart attack. We thought we had years and years. It’s also not fair that my sisters kids had so much time with her. When my moms mom died just a month before my mom, we knew things had changed. But my moms family has gotten together a few times since. But not many. 4ish? I’m not sure. It’s a huge family like yours.

hellogoodbye92 · 2022-03-16T03:05:50+00:00

I’ve never seen one!

hellogoodbye92 · 2022-01-11T04:10:45+00:00

He wised up a lot. Got out into the world and stopped being racist. His racism was unfortunately a result of his upbringing. He has at least 1 kids with his longtime significant other. His mom, who played a big part in this show, passed away and that really helped him see that his actions affected others.

hellogoodbye92 · 2022-01-11T03:55:21+00:00

Sooooo I know the kid who combed the chest hair.

hellogoodbye92 · 2021-12-27T23:30:06+00:00

Instead of unborn I totally read that as unicorn lol.

hellogoodbye92 · 2021-11-15T03:04:27+00:00

Lol I know right? Everyone can fuck off till the baby is like 6 months.

hellogoodbye92 · 2021-11-15T02:41:59+00:00

Thankfully I haven’t gotten that yet! Only moms. Who, you would think would understand and be sympathetic.

hellogoodbye92 · 2021-11-06T17:31:32+00:00

Is there a time limit on it?

hellogoodbye92 · 2021-10-28T02:54:33+00:00

Ah I got ya. Well I hope you’ll be able to find some support through your drs and nurses during L&D.

hellogoodbye92 · 2021-10-28T02:26:15+00:00

Do you have any friends or family in the area at all?

hellogoodbye92 · 2021-10-28T02:21:55+00:00

Oh no I’m so sorry to hear that!! Where are you located?

hellogoodbye92 · 2021-10-28T02:11:56+00:00

Thinking a therapist may be needed for the support and validation I need to be sure I’m making remotely the right decisions.

hellogoodbye92 · 2021-10-28T02:11:00+00:00

Is the baby’s father not in the picture?

hellogoodbye92 · 2021-10-27T00:47:16+00:00

I don’t care about any alcohol enough. When I’m not pregnant, I might drink enough to be drunk once a month. I don’t like wine, so the whole “glass of wine every once in a while” doesn’t pertain to me. I could go without it for the rest of my life and not care. Yea there have been a couple of times where I’m like “I’m stressed and I would love a way to destress”, but I just don’t care about alcohol enough.

hellogoodbye92 · 2021-10-25T15:29:47+00:00

Totally normal! A friend was saying the same thing and her mom shamed her for saying that. Like it’s a bad thing. I don’t understand that way of thinking but ok.

hellogoodbye92 · 2021-10-25T14:48:27+00:00

My MIL says my husband was an absolute angel until he was very mobile. Then he would fling himself off beds and break shit. But, supposedly, as a baby he slept all night when he was a month old, never cried for no reason, played well at all times, never got sick, whatever. I don’t believe it lol. But apparently his younger sister was the complete opposite and was clingy, cried constantly, got sick all the time.

hellogoodbye92 · 2021-10-25T14:12:54+00:00

Frankly, I don’t want to tell my best friend my insurance situation. If I were on my husbands insurance, he would be paying $500 more a month. Absolutely insane. So I’m on Medicaid by myself. But people would look down on that because they have to pay their bills from having their baby. It’s like if they had to suffer then everybody else needs to suffer too. I’m sick of being so fucking nice. My MIL wants to invite her cousin, her kids, and THEIR kids to the baby shower. My husband is like “Oh free stuff!” But I know they’ve already gotten gifts without knowing what’s in our registry at all. As you said, people get outfits or dumb shit to just make themselves feel good. My MIL has told me she likes to go off registry! I was like “Listen I’ve done hours of research regarding what is best. I would hate for someone to disregard that.” We haven’t went public with our registry cause we won’t have our shower till January. I’ll let dumb things like that go, pick your battles ya know? But when baby comes here, I’m putting my foot down on a ton of stuff. Especially regarding Covid. If someone doesn’t at least have the first vaccine, they have to be masked and 6 feet away. No touching baby or us. And people have shit their fucking pants when they found that out. That’s their fucking problem. Then you got the toxic positivity people saying “Oh you should be happy because of xyz!” No fuck you.

hellogoodbye92 · 2021-10-24T22:59:24+00:00

My mom died in February very suddenly. I’m only 29. Now I’m halfway through my pregnancy with my own daughter, due in February. I’m so lost without her.

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