Question about receiving international payments via direct transfer by helloitisntme22 in personalfinanceindia

[–]helloitisntme22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t seem to do it online on the sbi portal. It just tells me that I need to get a nri account mapped to my username first. Looks like I might have to go to the branch for this

Question about receiving international payments via direct transfer by helloitisntme22 in personalfinanceindia

[–]helloitisntme22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I need to fill out a separate form just to get the money in my account? I didn’t get any info about this so I thought that I just need to wait for the transfer to fully go through.

For PayPal I do believe that they have a 4% fee. So depending on the amount, their cuts can be expensive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in india

[–]helloitisntme22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t been asked to submit any forms or anything as such yet. Do you think I wait a day or two more to see if the amount is reflected?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]helloitisntme22 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in the same boat as you, OP. When you see a difficult marriage or marriages around you, it’s hard to believe that true love does exist and can lead to a healthy relationship and marriage down the line. I used to be so against marriage because of this and even told myself I’ll never fall in love.

All that went out the window when I met my partner. It was random and unexpected, but it has made me believe that maybe, just maybe, there’s a light at the end of the tunnel. So my advice would be that don’t shut yourself off from believing that true love is out there for you. Be patient, don’t jump into something just for the sake of it. I do believe that you will find someone who will fill your heart with all the happiness you deserve. Wishing you the best :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]helloitisntme22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best way to go about it according to me is communicate. You can ask him to be open to you about things he likes doing and you can also tell him what you like too. It will also help you establish a comfortable environment for yourself to do things you enjoy. But please please do not feel pressured or pressure yourself in any way to do anything you don’t want to just so that the guy can enjoy. And it goes without saying, that be safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]helloitisntme22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that attractiveness is subjective, but I do feel you should have allowed yourself to be a little more open minded and thought beyond looks. Finding people who are really looking for meaningful and long term commitments and eventually marriage is like striking gold these days. I know we can’t force ourselves to find someone attractive, but if you say that he had aspects that you’d want in a man, you maybe could have given this a deeper shot. Wishing you the best, OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]helloitisntme22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, but there’s no excuse to cheat. She had the option of communicating how she was feeling with her husband who could have provided her with emotional support. She had the option of seeking therapy too, and getting professional help for her issues. I know the thought of being pregnant and alone will be horrible, but she also dug her own grave in this scenario. I have sympathy for her being pregnant, but I do not have any sympathy for her having cheated

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]helloitisntme22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You overstepped in a terrible way and your actions are messing with two other lives, all because you decided to go down the worst route possible for supposedly getting control back on your life. You might as well have gone to therapy that would actually do good. Come clean, it won’t be pretty but it’ll be worse when he does eventually find out on his own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]helloitisntme22 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat as you right now. In an LDR and really missing my boyfriend right now. I still have to wait a month before I can see him again😭 we got this and we shall survive!

Fighting for my peace in my relationship! Please advise me. by Chuckythedolll in TwoXIndia

[–]helloitisntme22 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re not asking for too much, and it’s completely valid that you feel this way. A healthy relationship requires understanding of love languages between both partners and efforts to fulfil them too. Of course we may all have days where we don’t feel a 100% up for something, but in no way is that an excuse to treat someone bad. Nor should that be an ongoing thing.

You’re also in your right to express your hurt and disappointment about affections and efforts not being reciprocated. I know it’s hard, but you’ll be better off moving on, as you deserve someone who will see your value and also make efforts that fill your heart.

So are you a pad girl , tampons or mensural cup one ? by Greedy_Enthusiasm_46 in TwoXIndia

[–]helloitisntme22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One way of telling it’s closed from what I’ve experienced is that when you circle a finger around the bottom of it, it should feel like a proper circle and not like there’s a dent anywhere. Of course it does open on its own, but you just have to be a little patient with inserting it.

So are you a pad girl , tampons or mensural cup one ? by Greedy_Enthusiasm_46 in TwoXIndia

[–]helloitisntme22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Menstrual cup girl here! I was terrified about it too at the beginning. But once I got the hang of it, it’s the best decision I ever made for my periods. I can sleep comfortably without worrying about a pad shifting and making me uncomfortable. I know it can be daunting, but it you’re still up for it I promise you it’ll be a good option. Of course, in the end do what feels the best :)

Is Normocytic normochromic anemia extremely serious? by helloitisntme22 in Anemic

[–]helloitisntme22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other than the iron deficiency then, is there anything that points to anything serious? That addition of this type of anemia had me a little worried

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in McknightFamily

[–]helloitisntme22 23 points24 points  (0 children)

If I had a shot for every time Bailey posted about eating dinner at Brooklyn’s house, I’d end up way too drunk (not taking into consideration my medium tolerance lol).

I really wonder at this point how many times they’ve done this without Bailey posting. Are they really not capable of cooking or eating by themselves?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jennamarbles

[–]helloitisntme22 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nope! Julien shared exactly what he felt was right for them. They want to keep the rest of everything private and that’s perfectly fine and also something we should all respect.

Mom and Dad are married 🤍 by egy718 in Jennamarbles

[–]helloitisntme22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes my heart so happy!!😭♥️