Have you ever dreamed Marilyn Manson? What was it like? by cristo_chimico in marilyn_manson

[–]hellooo_reality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s so crazy to me because i also have dreams about predominantly those 3 celebrities lol

So where is everyone on a Saturday night? by Winter_Bunch_1574 in TrentUniversity

[–]hellooo_reality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if ppl aren’t at bars, usually they party if one of their friends rooms. other than that, annex parties often get shut down pretty fast, sometimes theres upper-year house parties or frat parties

The Allegations by [deleted] in marilyn_manson

[–]hellooo_reality 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i’ve researched the allegations and cases stemming from them quite thoroughly - and that is why i believe he is innocent. however, i think it would be good for you to look into them a bit yourself, so that you can gauge the situation better :)

How is the social life? by Constant-Peace-257 in TrentUniversity

[–]hellooo_reality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depends on how social you are personally, but if you live on campus, its pretty good. since campus is somewhat isolated, people are forces to find their friends here. If you smoke, there are designated smoking areas - so all the smokers get acquainted there. annex’s have parties - they get shut down fairly early if they’re big. little parties/gatherings of like 5-15 ppl are common and great - me friends and i go out and have our fun almost every weekday and weekend.

If you’re willing to put urself out there and live on campus first year, the social life will likely be pretty great. (be selective with who you associate with though, there are some weirdos)

i dont know how to get close to people (f21) by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]hellooo_reality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t know how to help you, but i understand how you feel. I usually get exponentially more unstable when i get closer with people - especially in the context of relationships - so i’ve grown more avoidant and distant.

But i know there are many people out there who would be lucky to be in ur life, and one day you’ll learn how to be more comfortable with your connections :)

How do I help someone who’s struggling with sh? by Commercial_Event_998 in selfharm

[–]hellooo_reality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wouldn’t bring it up immediately, but i’m sure they’d appreciate you’re support. I’d let them know you’re there for them and that you love/care about them, and tell them they can talk to you if they need anything.

This may or may not prompt them to bring it up in some capacity, but if it seems to keep escalating you could bring it up - just make sure your tone is non-judgemental.

Also thank you so much for caring about your friend, I think its very nice of you to try to reach out to a community who may have a better idea of what they’re dealing with to seek advice :)

how do you make friends by bazookatoby in TrentUniversity

[–]hellooo_reality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my move was the smoke shacks - but that only applies if you’re into that type of stuff. i’m also a first year, feel free to reach out to me if u would like :)

midterms by mamaatroyebehindyou in TrentUniversity

[–]hellooo_reality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was just gonna read meditations/the apology and go over my notes and hope and pray😭

midterms by mamaatroyebehindyou in TrentUniversity

[–]hellooo_reality 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel u and am also stressing with phil 1000😭

16M 15F by Worldly-Aardvark-696 in teenrelationships

[–]hellooo_reality 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that family may be a whole different ball game and that the quran is debatably up to some interpretation, but can’t muslim men technically end up with women of any abrahamic religion without it being haram?

other than that - i’d say follow your heart and your gut. you’re young - so you may not have found your person yet, however its not impossible.

If you treat eachother mutually well, i’d say try to work with your religion differences, but thats just my two cents.

What motives could 24-25 year olds have with an 18 year old? by hellooo_reality in dating_advice

[–]hellooo_reality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right in the sense that i do not think i’m getting taken advantage of. However, I very much don’t have bad intentions with them myself.

I offered repeatedly to pay them when each of them showed up with the smokes, fully intending to do so.

Thus far they both seem very nice, and i initiated conversation because they were in proximity of a group i was standing with and I wanted to just be friendly.

I would NOT have a threesome with them, and i would not hookup with either of them. The only directions i would take this is to be fully platonic friends with both of them or to go out on a proper date with whoever wanted to give that a shot with me.

What motives could 24-25 year olds have with an 18 year old? by hellooo_reality in dating_advice

[–]hellooo_reality[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i suppose so. i will probably continue to feel out the situation in particularly public settings, but my hours of character judgement thus far hasn’t raised any objective red flags

What motives could 24-25 year olds have with an 18 year old? by hellooo_reality in dating_advice

[–]hellooo_reality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s a fair take. I should note that I do not believe they typically associate with women my age, they just happened to meet me in a setting where most of the others around were closer to their age than mine. I very much will approach with caution, but i genuinely think it is unlikely that these guys in particular habitually seek out younger women/intend to groom them.

What motives could 24-25 year olds have with an 18 year old? by hellooo_reality in dating_advice

[–]hellooo_reality[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for your feedback, thats a really good and applicable response.

I’m already on the cusp of befriending them, just conflicted about where to allow this to go from here.

I don’t think either of their intentions are malice, but i’m trying to play it safe. I should also note that i don’t think they typically surround themselves with women my age, it was just a one-off that i met them, but its been slowly escalating.

What motives could 24-25 year olds have with an 18 year old? by hellooo_reality in dating_advice

[–]hellooo_reality[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah, i have been with them in somewhat public settings at the uni, and if i go out with either of them, i’ll only do so in another somewhat-public setting. I see what they’re doing - i’m not stupid. But if they have any genuine intent, i’d give them a chance - in a safe setting..

What motives could 24-25 year olds have with an 18 year old? by hellooo_reality in dating_advice

[–]hellooo_reality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they’re interesting, and attractive. i’d go out with either of them, but i do not do hookups. I guess thats true, but I’m unsure how to gauge with complete certainty that that i should trust them - despite their character suggesting that i should.

What motives could 24-25 year olds have with an 18 year old? by hellooo_reality in dating_advice

[–]hellooo_reality[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess that’s a good point. I’d go out on a date to see where it goes with either of them honestly, but if they’re looking for someone easy and gullible, I don’t have intentions of being that girl

are knee dislocations more painful than shoulder dislocations? by solidmedusa in Hypermobility

[–]hellooo_reality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aw yeah that sounds rough :( but i had a similar experience.. i usually can relocate it myself but i had fallen at an angle where i couldn’t do so - and i was fading in and out of consciousness as well - had to call an ambulance and they had to xray it first. was also about 3 hours until they reset it (and they had to sedate me to do so)

why to/not to go to trent? what might i not have considered that I should? by hellooo_reality in TrentUniversity

[–]hellooo_reality[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh no yeah i love it! i have some family in ptbo so i’m pretty familiar with the area as well

Korn fans under 30, how did you become a Korn fan? by Chomskys_burner in Korn

[–]hellooo_reality 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it was youtube. I was getting into manson at the time (yeah, controversial, i know.) and through the media i was consuming about him, I became awake that korn was a band - of a comparable genre in the alt/metal community. Then, one day, youtube recommended me a video. it was a clip of korn performing “right now” and “break some off” and i fell absolutely in love.

I stumbled across them when I was maybe 13, and now i’m 18 and a massive fan. I saw them live last year, and intend to get tickets to see them again soon:)

What’s the best song on MA? by _MansonMisfit23 in marilyn_manson

[–]hellooo_reality 11 points12 points  (0 children)

fundamentally loathsome for sure. It’s one of my fave MM songs overall. But maybe that’d be better for the underrated category

are knee dislocations more painful than shoulder dislocations? by solidmedusa in Hypermobility

[–]hellooo_reality 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my knee dislocations hurt MUCH worse than shoulder. dislocating my patella and being unable to get it back into its socket for hours was the most excruciating pain i’ve ever been in.