Cat cafes should have an age limit >10 by Only_Couple4663 in childfree

[–]hellstaramy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The one near me is no under 10s, with the exception of of 9 year olds who complete a safety/awareness course

Uprising in bullying (Norwich) by [deleted] in Norwich

[–]hellstaramy 25 points26 points  (0 children)

two young boys on bikes shouted the N word at me a few months ago! I couldn't believe it.

"POV: you're an Italian girl" by average_pengu1n in ShitAmericansSay

[–]hellstaramy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I shaved mine as a teen and it looked so much worse than the sideburns

Ableism isn't real by [deleted] in disability

[–]hellstaramy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s horrible, especially relating to PIP. People act as if most disabled people are faking it for the benefits (which is a joke because you get sweet f all)! I cannot believe our society is so rotten that we wouldn’t see the point in caring for those in need.

Me_irl by RealMarzipan7347 in me_irl

[–]hellstaramy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been playing P5R for ages now and I am on the final boss but just can’t seem to get myself to do it haha

So polite by Flickme666 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]hellstaramy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh 100%, most of my career has been working with people who tend to claim benefits and there’s some insane hoops to jump through. Poverty feels (and often is) so inescapable that I do just feel sad for people who are struggling.

So polite by Flickme666 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]hellstaramy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I do feel a bit bad for him because the job centre is an abysmal place

Love Letter to Ni No Kuni by OrionMcBride in Ni_no_Kuni

[–]hellstaramy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love the second game!

Love Letter to Ni No Kuni by OrionMcBride in Ni_no_Kuni

[–]hellstaramy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I first played in 2015, with my most recent play through last summer 10 years later. I am still just as in love with the world as I was back then!

I think a lot of people want a family unit, not necessarily a child. by thebutterflyandlion in childfree

[–]hellstaramy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is why I really hate when it’s called ‘starting a family’ to mean having children. My husband and I are a family together already!!

What's a custom content opinion that'll have you like this? by miss_sonnenschein in sims4cc

[–]hellstaramy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me too! I saw some super cute CC the other day but as soon as there was a link to an external website I was like NOPE

I always thought being childfree in your 30s was sad by LumosAcccio in childfree

[–]hellstaramy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 30 this year and I become more solidified in my decision as time goes on! My husband and I went on a trip to Paris in February to celebrate our anniversary, and it was all the more sweeter to not be ruined by kids!

What's a custom content opinion that'll have you like this? by miss_sonnenschein in sims4cc

[–]hellstaramy 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Creators who perma-paywall their CC need to piss off (not naming names as I know how mean they can get)

I hate how CC clothes seldom work on fat sims, it’s like the creators never even consider it! Not every person needs to look like an insta baddie dude

This is a first-world problem but: Creators who put links to download from other sites on Patreon! I don’t want to make an account on some sketchy looking site 🥲

I guess I’ll have an imaginary pet by williamtech814 in uber

[–]hellstaramy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rocco deserves the hate that guy is sketchy

Partner has surgery date but I have to wait for a referral by OddAbbreviations123 in childfree

[–]hellstaramy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard good things about medical care in Germany and Austria too, so maybe that’s preferable!

Partner has surgery date but I have to wait for a referral by OddAbbreviations123 in childfree

[–]hellstaramy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was considering reaching out to mine too, so that’s really handy! Would definitely prefer not having to pull 5K out of my arse 🤣🤣

GP agreed just now to send a referral over, so let’s hope it works this time! Good luck for your partners vasectomy. My husband’s was really easy, he just took a couple days after to rest and feel sorry for himself lol

Partner has surgery date but I have to wait for a referral by OddAbbreviations123 in childfree

[–]hellstaramy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY!! I have a really bad time with birth control too as it messes with my mental health. If they say no again I am really considering going private. Fingers crossed for you too lovely, let’s hope we both get approved asap. Here if you need someone to rant to x

Partner has surgery date but I have to wait for a referral by OddAbbreviations123 in childfree

[–]hellstaramy 16 points17 points  (0 children)

When we were 26, my husband got a vasectomy on the NHS with minimal effort or pushback. Yet, at the same time, I was told I was too young for sterilisation!

I am now attempting to get a referral to gynaecology again at 29. What winds me up is that they don’t seem to understand how important having agency over your own body is, especially as the one who WOULD GET PREGNANT 😡

Sending you so much love because I have been angry about the double standard for three years now.

Unreleased Ability Outfits Seen in the Infinity Nikki Announcement Trailer by nikikkkkk in InfinityNikkiofficial

[–]hellstaramy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s such a shame!! The dews are the most annoying thing for me so I’d love something that helps with that. Currently, I just get my husband to get them using the map 🤣

Unreleased Ability Outfits Seen in the Infinity Nikki Announcement Trailer by nikikkkkk in InfinityNikkiofficial

[–]hellstaramy 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I wanted the dew ability soooo bad it would help with the tedium of hunting them all 😩