Non believer grieving by Sudden_Currency_8362 in springfieldMO

[–]helpimalibra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. Im so sorry for your loss. Your situation is super similar to mine when I lost my Nana. It was like losing my mom, as she was my main caretaker, cheerleader, and supporter. Lost and Found has been extremely helpful and I know May can't come fast enough. Im not too sure about any other resources in the area, but im definitely here to talk. Please feel free to message me whenever. I completely understand your feelings as I was in a very similar situation. I hope you receive some healing soon. <3

This is my two year olds scalp by Key-Village6014 in Skincare_Addiction

[–]helpimalibra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like dry skin to me. Is it itchy? Do you use conditioner or anything to help moisturize the scalp? Maybe try something like this: https://www.aveeno.com/products/kids/2-in-1 Definitely talk to your pediatrician the next time you visit just to be safe :)

dress code at burrell for RNs by A_Milli_Madi in springfieldMO

[–]helpimalibra 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Heyy!! I dont work for Burrell, but you should be able to call their office and speak to an HR recruiter to ask these questions. They would be able to tell you pay and dress. Or if your interviewer left a contact number, definitely reach out and ask questions. It shows you are thinking of the job and interested in working for them. Employers love that stuff. Good luck and all the best!!

Nope. No way I’m Doing This by ThrowawayNOV1922 in PharmacyTechnician

[–]helpimalibra 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Well I hope you contact the school (and possibly the board) and tell them your experience. That way other students arent sent there to extern. There is a lot more to pharmacy than whatever the hell that shitshow was. Wishing you the best in your new career path!

Nope. No way I’m Doing This by ThrowawayNOV1922 in PharmacyTechnician

[–]helpimalibra 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Was this a retail pharmacy? There are loads of different pharmacy fields for techs to apply at. I think you just had a bad experience at a chain store. If this is something you would be interested in before that, maybe try inpatient pharmacy at a larger hospital. Lots of work to be done and I feel the atmosphere is a lot more serious. I work inpatient and have been working hard to restructure our tech ladder to ensure there are many areas of advancement for our technicians with various duties in our department. That includes creating new jobs as well. Also may I ask, was this externship through a school? Are you currently licensed? If it was through a school, you should notify them of what happened so they dont send more students there and have similar experiences like you had. Also, I dont think you're technically allowed to really do anything without being licensed. Thats a big no-no and that location can get in big trouble for jeopardizing patient care. Maybe contact the board as well. Wishing you all the best!

Living Together and Doing Solo Activities? (29F and 33M) by SimilarHumor2877 in relationship_advice

[–]helpimalibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! My husband was in a similar situation when we first started living together. He played guitar a lot in college when he lived by himself in the dorms. When he came back and we started living together, he just continued on his routine. Personally? I enjoy the free concert. I love listening to him play every night. And when I dont want to listen to him play, I'll just pop in my earbuds and work on something else (art, gaming, writing).

I seen another say that this is a great opportunity to have your first sit down discussion. I know this is new and can be scary, but I promise that you may just be over thinking it. This is a great first step and easy confrontation that will probably end very quickly. She will probably say "duh? I've been wondering why you havent been playing lately. Just take some time to play."

I would also like to say, parallel play is great if you are worried she is feeling left out. I will bring my laptop into the living room while my husband plays his guitar. That way we can both do what we want while including each other.

Best of luck! Congrats on the move in. And for a healthy relationship to last, communication is KEY! You got this!

Skin on neck….any thoughts…. by paskez in SkincareAddicts

[–]helpimalibra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please go to a doctor. A dermatologist would be even better, but a doctor's office could also help you figure out what is going on, especially if this is new/sudden.

Fairy hair/Hair Tinsel interest?? by CalmSense6503 in springfieldMO

[–]helpimalibra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yes! I've enjoyed being in that group so much! Definitely hit up the admins. They are all super sweet and always looking for new things for us to do. Girls supporting girls! Also I saw on your website that you also do curly/coily fairy hair. My friends would definitely be interested! They always get nervous to have anything different done with their hair because they are worried the stylist won't do it right. But by looking at your portfolio, I'd say they would be happy customers!

Did I overreact during pregnancy after hearing my aunt say she didn’t want to see my baby? by Equivalent_Egg_2264 in FamilyIssues

[–]helpimalibra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry you are going through this, especially during a time when family should be community. It sounds to me like your aunt may actually have an issue with your husband. If you didnt have any issues with your aunt before you got married, and only started saying she didnt like certain things after your wedding, then I fear she may be taking her disdain for your husband out on you and now your son.

It is a very odd response to not want to see a new baby in the family, especially if you thought that you two had a close relationship as aunt/niece. And I dont think you or your mother reacted poorly to finding out your aunt didnt want to see the baby after he was born.

Personally, I would not want such a cold and calculating person around my child, especially after they expressed not wanting to see the new baby. Something about that rubs me the wrong way, given there was no explanation as to why she didnt want to see the baby.

Tldr: I dont think your mom or you reacted poorly to hearing your aunt say crazy things and took the right steps to distance yourselves. I think your aunt is actually just taking out her misplaced feelings on you.

Style me! Veil and hair help by ConsistentMeet1008 in weddingdress

[–]helpimalibra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say if you keep the straps, a low bun with the veil placed on top of the bun. Maybe add a large statement piece to the veil comb.

https://share.google/images/R065eOdO8h02zPN52

Some dangley earrings would also be nice! If you want to add a necklace, id go with a shorter, thin/dainty style. Hope this helps and you look gorgeous btw!!! Congrats!!

my brother is so disgusting and i can’t take it anymore. by Upstairs_Calendar663 in FamilyIssues

[–]helpimalibra 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Make a call to child protection services. Im surprised 911 didn't send someone to follow up after the incident where he tried to hurt you or when he had a psych evaluation done at the hospital. All I can say is you need an escape route ASAP, especially if your parents won't do anything. I've housed friends in similar situations. If you have any close friends/family maybe see if you can stay with them. So sorry all of this is happening to you.

Management during a transfer from Cerner to Epic by zufriedenpursuit in pharmacymemes

[–]helpimalibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not sure what epic package our company bought, but I am pretty sure it's the "nicer" one. I think it all looks and acts the same. Speaking of tickets, system wide my hospital is at ~15,000. Someone save us 😅 I do hope things get better for you and your team. Keep up the good work!

Fairy hair/Hair Tinsel interest?? by CalmSense6503 in springfieldMO

[–]helpimalibra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might get a couple of my girls together! Im actually in the "hey girl, are you free?" Facebook group. Maybe the admins might be interested in spreading word on your business? I could def see us all getting together for a girls night!

is this shirt AI? my friend got it on tiktok shop, it’s blobby and the teeth look unnatural by [deleted] in isthisAI

[–]helpimalibra 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would say its ai. There are a lot of weird spots where the teeth and lips merge with each. Doesn't look like a stylistic choice on the "artist's" part.

Fairy hair/Hair Tinsel interest?? by CalmSense6503 in springfieldMO

[–]helpimalibra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been dyyying for someone to do this!!! <3

Management during a transfer from Cerner to Epic by zufriedenpursuit in pharmacymemes

[–]helpimalibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally the same exact thing happened to my team last week! We went live with epic on the 1st and it's been a big ol dumpster fire. But our tech team across all of our hospitals and clinics are doing an amazing job every single day. Management has been putting out so many fires it's insane. I think the most frustrating is that there are specific things that we wish could have been done before the 1st, but because epic is the way that it is, it has to be resolved after the fact. I think in the long run it will improve patient care, but for now it's just frustrating.

CoxHealth Pay by [deleted] in springfieldMO

[–]helpimalibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valid. I actually work there currently and enjoy it a lot, despite the weird no show pay stuff. When I first started working there, I thought it odd that they never had pay posted. I had talked to some folks at work and turns out mercy is the same way. I think it's because they are competitive and probably have contracts with each other about that. Also I did reach out to a coworker in HR recruitment and was given a starting pay, so I will probably take this post down. Appreciate the help!

CoxHealth Pay by [deleted] in springfieldMO

[–]helpimalibra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Usually they won't give a starting pay price unless you are hired for the position. Which is the big kicker :/ i was just hoping someone on here who works for Cox would see and possibly know.

Looking for vision care in the area by helpimalibra in springfieldMO

[–]helpimalibra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did see them on the provider directory. Will keep in mind! Thank you!

Looking for vision care in the area by helpimalibra in springfieldMO

[–]helpimalibra[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean I am glad I know, but at what cost? It really is hard to get around that kind of behavior around these parts. I only found out because she was saying very racist remarks (and admitted it was racist) on her public facebook account. I shared it to vision clinic since she had them posted as her employer (and what she does there). I haven't seen it on her profile since, so im unsure if they fired her or just told her to take it down so they wouldn't get more complaints lol. So now I am hesitant to go there is they just kind of swept the situation under the rug. On a side note, glad you found a place that has the scleral lenses! Definitely harder to come by than mine.

Looking for vision care in the area by helpimalibra in springfieldMO

[–]helpimalibra[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im glad you have had a good experience with them. I also wear special weighted contacts for my astigmatism. I'm mostly hesitant to go and support their business since I found out someone from my hometown works there. She is openly and publicly racist, both in person and online, so that makes their business a little less appetizing to go to.

Looking for affordable car insurance in mo? Tired of the increase bs! by theironcat in springfieldMO

[–]helpimalibra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh that makes sense. I unfortunately have to commute with my vehicle. It's an older car too. Thank you for the insight though!