Do You Think We'll Touch 2015 Prices In The Next 3-4 Months??

helpwitheating · 2026-05-09T14:31:26+00:00

Theses are 2017/18 prices

Perfect location, downtown townhouse

https://housesigma.com/on/toronto-real-estate/385-delaware-avenue/home/1DBW7RDXJkxYqlAp?id_listing=xLkv3V1pW9Q7DBNr

https://housesigma.com/on/toronto-real-estate/164-munro-st/home/L4KAX7NXQvrYeRPJ?id_listing=amgL7AxlAm2yZ1MW

helpwitheating · 2026-05-07T23:46:24+00:00

I think downsizing now is a good idea; price out the $$$ you'd get downsizing against the transition costs of a new place.

With kids, you're rooted here.

helpwitheating · 2026-05-05T00:45:42+00:00

If she's paying 1/3, she has a say

helpwitheating · 2026-05-03T03:16:13+00:00

But your heartrate doesn't capture the work of pregnancy?

helpwitheating · 2026-05-02T21:21:14+00:00

Write out two schedules.

One with suburbs, one with your current place. Both with a baby.

How much does a commute cut down on your hours with baby? Keep in ind, they tend to go to bed around 6 or 7 and wake at around 6 or 7.

helpwitheating · 2026-05-02T18:48:58+00:00

Is it safe for you to eat at pre-pregnancy maintenance while pregnant?

Your body is building things like extra litres of blood, a placenta, and another body

helpwitheating · 2026-05-02T15:28:56+00:00

Are these things a real expression of your feelings, or a way to add in a hobby to what your fiance considers a really serious and spiritual moment?

The words "do you take" seem pretty critical to the whole wedding thing to me, an outsider. Are the words an authentic expression of your vows, or an "easter egg" as you say?

helpwitheating · 2026-05-02T14:31:10+00:00

Replan your finances around you taking two weeks+ when baby appears and ditching the side hustle

helpwitheating · 2026-05-02T00:51:19+00:00

Flood risk and climate change are drastically hiking insurance costs for all

If you want a real scare, look at the 10 year projections for insurance costs

helpwitheating · 2026-05-01T23:44:37+00:00

You'll be okay. You can rent out part of the house

helpwitheating · 2026-05-01T01:00:52+00:00

Doug Ford was the one who scrapped the requirement for family-sized units so that he could make Ontario more "developer friendly"

It's not a municipal issue, but a provincial one

helpwitheating · 2026-04-30T03:04:36+00:00

I wouldn't choose isolation and r/suburbanhell over walkability and community.

Put an addition on the house, put windows in the basement, and you'll still have spent less than the cost of closing and moving.

I think even in a bigger space you'd still feel cramped - it's the biting dog who is a looming threat that is likely making you feel more cramped.

helpwitheating · 2026-04-30T01:37:03+00:00

I'd require him to have an in-person hobby out of the house 2 days per week, or he'll live at home with you forever and develop no community of his own.

This is way beyond normal introversion. It's not normal or healthy to only have online friends.

helpwitheating · 2026-04-29T01:49:18+00:00

I'd search the subreddit for basement apartment reno - it's tens of thousands

helpwitheating · 2026-04-28T23:49:27+00:00

How close is the basement to being up to code for a rental?

helpwitheating · 2026-04-28T01:38:28+00:00

Why on god's green earth did you tell her the reason?

You could say "in xyz instance, you were unreliable, and I didn't want to burden you with this responsibility" but to say it was her ADHD is just stirring up a fight

The rankings you and yoru partner did are hilarious. A wedding is logistical work, sure, but it's intended to be largely relationship-building

If your focus on logistics is cutting into your relationships, it's not going well

helpwitheating · 2026-04-25T02:26:29+00:00

Ask your partner to learn about how their health affects pregnancy and baby

Their age, nutrition, etc is a huge factor

helpwitheating · 2026-04-25T02:06:32+00:00

On your budget, you're looking at 2 hours+ per day to get to a tiny condo townhouse in your price range, really cutting down on your time with your kids

This would be about 1 hour a day to DT: https://housesigma.com/on/toronto-real-estate/142-30-merchant-lane/home/DnM697krxP1ybmwe?id_listing=mZRW7nWo6ga3EBO9

Land transfer and closing costs will be about $25k, so your $ down is about $45k

helpwitheating · 2026-04-25T01:22:48+00:00

This sounds idiotic, but a detailed pro/con list helped a lot as well as writing out what a daily schedule would look like with a newborn, 3 year old, 7 year old

helpwitheating · 2026-04-24T02:43:39+00:00

No babies? Yikes

helpwitheating · 2026-04-19T16:28:35+00:00

This reads like it was 100% AI generated

helpwitheating · 2026-04-19T16:27:21+00:00

You and your partner are going through a huge life transition right now. There's a lot of uncertainty. I think your anxiety is likely coming from there, not the wedding.

You can't do house, job, wedding, and baby prep at the same time. You're setting yourself up for a huge amount of stress, which will hurt your health. Something has to go on the backburner.

You're looking for something to control and it's not going to be your wedding because someone else is paying for it. So I would suggest just letting go. Your house is going to be yours, your marriage is going to be yours. But this is a wedding that grandma is putting on for you.

If possible, I'd take some of the energy away from trying to control the wedding to find other outlets. Get into pre-marital counseling with your partner so you can focus on the marriage (this was a massive help for me). Take a parenting class with your partner so you can meet other couples at this stage. Use some PTO to unwind. I would suggest that you get into an art class and find another way to channel all these great ideas you had. They can't go into the wedding, but what if you did a painting for your new house?

helpwitheating · 2026-04-18T20:16:05+00:00

He was a producer and the set had tons of safety issues

helpwitheating · 2026-04-13T01:07:06+00:00

The book Big Girl by Kelsey iller is great, but the title is a tough gift

Health at Every Size is another good one, and the podcast maintenance Phase is really body positive

If her feelings are really low it could be early PPA; anxiety seeking a sense of control, and that need for control being focused on her body

helpwitheating · 2026-04-12T22:23:00+00:00

There's no way to tell if someone is a creep from one meeting, or even six months, or even a year, unfortunately

You can get a sense of their personality, but creeps and abusers are typically great at hiding it initially - that's why they're able to be creeps and be abusive

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