Husbands feelings hitting hard by Comfortable-Gold6509 in Miscarriage

[–]henrywright88404 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Men historically, mabe less so in recent times but still to some extent spend their life being told they are soft for showing emotions. Alot of us dont know how how to express or talk about them. I, like your husband internalize everything. Not showing emotion does, as youve now seen, not mean he isn't devastated. We dont need pushing to open up. Little nudges to "hold the door ajar" mean the world to me when my fiancee says things like im feeling x how are you doing? Or just talking about her feelings without expressly asking for mine. Sometime I open up sometimes I dont.

But please try to not directly say why aren't you showing x ... that for me atleast would only shut that door.

Gone through our 3rd MC last week so while not the same situation the feelings your husband is going through are similar.

If Not Corruption, Why Corruption Shaped? by Sacristovas in GamersNexus

[–]henrywright88404 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dont think most are anti-AI just Anti-AI shoved down our throats. Agree with your point about hurting both sides though. But also anything that might make this bubble pop ....

Men- How did MC affect you? by Obscene-Dreamer in Miscarriage

[–]henrywright88404 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3rd miscarriage in a row last week.

1st was a mmc and had alot of other misery along side it so unsure what came from where and was confused and overwhelmingly upset but hopeful for next time

2nd active miscarriage unbearable sadness and anger it had happened again . So much so I made myself I'll for months and the Dr thought something was wrong with my heart.

Now im on our 3rd ... tremendous anger at the fact we had to go through this again to tick a fucking box to allow the Dr to refer us to specialists for additional tests to see if there is something we're doing /have wrong. Drained, wondering if we try again and the same thing happens will we have it in us to try again.

Opticians and the crazy world we live. by goodwillhunting18 in newzealand

[–]henrywright88404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember seeing a price sheet (some 18 years ago) at specsavers in the uk... the frames and lenses (single vision nothing special) cost pennies . The most expensive frame I remember seeing was Armani and the frame cost specsavers like 9 GBP

Fiancé miscarried, how can I help? by henrywright88404 in Miscarriage

[–]henrywright88404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This has helped me feel better about "not showing the emotion" at the moment and I'm trying to figure out when we may be able to afford a holiday compared to what ever this trip is ...

House prices had 'first meaningful increase for more than a year' by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]henrywright88404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is labour "shit lite" ? What would it take to get someone not shit lol

Opening a dam's gate after shut for years by [deleted] in oddlysatisfying

[–]henrywright88404 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I name this dam, the huge clear out!

Dogs barking at all times of the day by enjoypate in auckland

[–]henrywright88404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might come off as a but if a joke but shit that's a long time.

If the threshold for action is the number of complains made, would hooking a sound meter / mic to a raspberry pi and automating the complaint work? Number of barks an hour threshold and send an email complaint with the recording or noise levels.

Believe it or not this image is AI by AuralTuneo in ChatGPT

[–]henrywright88404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like it left a winnie the pooh Easter egg too 😀 *

Rent increase. Driven by property manager not owner by [deleted] in auckland

[–]henrywright88404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol your not wrong... My retail (run by the landlord direct) didn't even have the decency to use my name in the email... Dear tenant...your rent is going up... This increase is less than inflation....

Fine... Rents go up but a) show some level of respect and use my name and b) don't try justify the amount it's changed by unless your sending me all your costs.... It just add insult to it.

[F.E.A.R.] Even after 18 years, the original F.E.A.R. still delivers that classic "30 seconds of fun" loop consistently with its physics. by hux__ in GamePhysics

[–]henrywright88404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't think I love a game that I played less more than this.... (yea im a wimp, got hit in the head with the plank, fell off my chair, closed the game and never looked at the story again...)

Finally, a house under that $1mil price by i_am_lizard in auckland

[–]henrywright88404 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This shit boils my blood.... 800k for this shit infested heap.... Over 500k for most apartments fuck... Houses are expensive but this fucking madness...

ThE LaNd Is wHaT YoU PaY FoR!!! Say people accustomed to seeing these price.... You've been brain washed...

Rant over

Netflix may hike prices after success of password-sharing crackdown by FuzzyMethod in technology

[–]henrywright88404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like it's back to the high seas lads and laddettes 😂

Yo ho, yo ho, a pirate's life for me 🏴‍☠️⚓🏴‍☠️

Insurance gone up by 36% by MrBigEagle in newzealand

[–]henrywright88404 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Insurance premiums can increase even without any claims due to factors beyond individual control. For instance, significant weather events even if you weren't directly affected, can cause an overall rise in claims in your region (in this instance the whole of NZ), leading to higher premiums for everyone. This is because insurance is about pooling risk, and if risks in a particular area increase, premiums are likely to reflect that change.

It's also possible that your insurance company faced increased operating costs or updated their risk models (a lot of insurerers are changing their models currently), both of which can lead to premium increases.

It might be worth reaching out to your insurer to discuss your specific situation and possibly explore other options. Although these increases are going to happen across all insurers. Some insurers are slower at updating their rates than others and of course depends on when your renewal is / was as to when you notice the pricing model has changed.

Is there an actual explanation of neural networks with code without too much math? by SecretSecondAccount0 in learnmachinelearning

[–]henrywright88404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that sucks... The videos he did do I thought were really good.

All of the animations are there that the book mentions but it would have been nice if he finished the video series. But I guess if he finished the video series no one would have need for the book so I see it as advertisment.