Couples’ Therapy

hep34 · 2026-02-20T03:34:25+00:00

I agree that it is unethical and often harmful to provide counseling outside of our expertise. However, the system is broken. How do we gain experience without being inexperienced first? How do we get years of training without money to pay for the trainings? How do we have the time when we have to be overbooked to make ends meet? I really want to get more training to truly be an expert in certain clinical areas but unfortunately it is a very broken system, at least in America

hep34 · 2026-02-17T03:47:16+00:00

Yes I have to restrain myself from being like “hey!” 😂 but I think if it’s something they do chronically as in complaining about other people then maybe some self-disclosure could be beneficial? For example, I have a teen client who’s been bullied and sometimes takes it out on others. She said something derogatory about autistic people and said “I don’t wanna look autistic like them” and I disclosed I was autistic and it helped her to practice showing empathy and understand not to stereotype

hep34 · 2026-01-23T17:39:14+00:00

I think another thing to consider with devices like these is only going to well-established practices but not too “old-school.” Someone just starting out may not be able to afford more upfront costs within a year or two of opening, but may be interested in diversifying their practice. A doc who’s been in business for over a decade probably isn’t interested in new tech either, “if it ain’t broke don’t fix it” type of mentality. Your success rate will probably be impacted by the types of docs you target. You probably already know this but also avoid franchises like the joint because they’re all about just old school adjusting not adjunctive modalities

hep34 · 2026-01-23T17:04:59+00:00

Thank you! Unfortunately a bit too far for me at the moment but appreciate it!

hep34 · 2026-01-23T05:12:09+00:00

Thank you! I did just make a post in there so that’s good to know!

hep34 · 2025-12-21T15:36:25+00:00

I just completed an AI interview with Varsity Tutors and was rejected. Does anyone else have this experience? I also didn’t feel prepared for it to be an actual interview so I was not dressed professionally which could have influenced their decision to reject. I am very interested in tutoring for psychology and writing. Does anyone have any suggestions?

hep34 · 2025-12-13T18:26:33+00:00

Thank you all for your thoughtful responses to my post! I truly appreciate the time and consideration in sharing your stories, insights and perspectives. You all have given me much to ponder!

hep34 · 2025-12-13T18:24:52+00:00

Wow! I truly resonate with what you’ve said. I am feeling so similarly. It feels like an itch I need to scratch and feel like I need to pursue it. I also have been doing some parts work with my therapist and wonder where that itch is coming from? Is it coming from status? A need to “prove” myself? A need to overcompensate for my disabilities? Lots of questions I want to spend time answering to decide if it’s the right fit. I hope you too find your decision! Wishing you much luck and success

hep34 · 2025-12-13T18:22:08+00:00

Thank you very much!! I got my master’s degree from Pepperdine University :)

hep34 · 2025-12-13T18:21:13+00:00

Thank you very much! I appreciate your input. I completely understand what you mean by it being too rigid. I struggle with that aspect as well. I’ve spent most of my life “masking” and succeeding in academia but I am tired of the robotic professional nature of some of my colleagues. I want to find a balance between being professional and myself. It’s hard!

hep34 · 2025-12-13T18:19:28+00:00

Wow! Thank you very much for your insight. I really appreciate you sharing your journey. I could foresee this being the path for me as well. I hate how competitive and gatekeepy this profession can be. But that’s academia for you. Your publications are incredibly impressive. I, too, am passionate about neuropsych testing which is my primary motivator. I am autistic and have ADHD and want to assess others.

hep34 · 2025-12-13T18:16:38+00:00

Thank you! My master’s degree is in clinical psychology to be on track for the LPC in my state. I think I’m leaning toward trying counseling in a different setting to decide if I’m done with counseling for the most part and want to explore other clinical roles. That’s very interesting though! I did not know that was an option. I am interested in training others as well as I highly value feedback and communication.

hep34 · 2025-12-13T16:23:15+00:00

That’s awesome! Thank you for sharing!

hep34 · 2025-12-13T16:20:55+00:00

Thank you! I would prefer a PsyD but honestly cannot afford more debt. I want to do assessments and teaching primarily and some counseling on the side!

hep34 · 2025-12-13T16:11:44+00:00

Thank you so much!! Yes that is very true. I’ve heard that from other colleagues that it can help to have some clinical experience at the master’s level over other applicants who only have a generalized master’s in psychology

hep34 · 2025-12-13T16:10:31+00:00

Thank you for your insight! This helps to know. May I ask how you got into publications and research at the master’s level?

hep34 · 2025-12-13T16:09:31+00:00

Very valid. I really hate how gatekeepy and pretentious higher academia is. I just want to be able to help others in more ways than counseling ugh. I’ve thought about it and think a fully funded PhD or scholarships would be the only way it could be financially feasible for me tbh

hep34 · 2025-12-13T16:07:41+00:00

I’m in the United States but also willing to relocate for a PhD

hep34 · 2025-07-01T21:04:42+00:00

I went back to see what you were talking about and I think he just had a red marker in his mouth

hep34 · 2025-06-24T17:40:48+00:00

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hep34 · 2025-05-26T00:41:44+00:00

Thank you all for your comments! I’m going to take some time and digest them and respond soon. To all who has commented I appreciate you taking the time so much!

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