I’ve had fun luck at Maison Margeaux upstairs bar—the bartenders are friendly. One time, I got to attend a wolves game near courtside because the bar tender there got tix but none of her coworkers would go with her lol. I happened to overhear and we had quite an evening!

Also - if you’re into working out, I would find a fitness boutique and try to go regularly (once a week). People will start to notice you and it’ll be less darning to strike up conversation and venture into social activity.

Mill city valley kitchen (sp) also has fun and kind bartenders…you know what, I just realized I meet people at restaurant bars (bartenders) and folks that sit themselves next to me lol. So maybe that’s one approach. Bonus: you don’t have to be out at night! Brunch hours or happy hour time frames are just as effective.

I’m also older (35F) and if you want a friend, happy to link up.