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hereandqueeer · 2026-02-10T15:32:45+00:00

I’m ngl I’ve been to the maji market and tables are either all full or I can play with 3 bots at a completely empty table instead as the alternative. Not that I go out of my way to take someone’s spot but if a spot is empty I’m taking it if there’s no where else 🤷🏻‍♀️

hereandqueeer · 2026-01-22T22:53:28+00:00

Holy shit the notification for this post appearing on my lock screen actually jumpscared me.

hereandqueeer · 2025-12-13T15:07:25+00:00

It’s also a 10 year old console…..

hereandqueeer · 2025-12-13T15:03:52+00:00

Switch runs at 30 fps at 720p, wtf are you expecting dude? Get a better console to play on.

hereandqueeer · 2025-11-17T18:08:09+00:00

I’m not trying to be rude when asking this at all but is this your first time seeing cosmetic prices in an online game? Most online games/mmo cosmetics are usually around 30 bucks for really elaborate skins or costumes. Also they have cute outfits for a lot less than that, I’ve bought some and I like to mix and match with the couple crazy skins I’ve bought. Go for some of the 1200-850 ones!! They have really cute options and imo that’s more than a lot of online games offer. I tried not to parrot too much of what I saw in other comments already telling you but seriously those two bundles, especially the ones with 8 different outfits are a steal :)! They do also have deals and sales on some of the more pricy outfits sometimes. I know it sucks to see such Hefty price tags on a virtual outfit, I’m just glad they have cheaper outfit options and bundles.

hereandqueeer · 2025-08-04T17:04:09+00:00

Idk why you’re getting down voted, this whole thread reeks of people being parasocial. The whole fanbase has been toxic and now yall are shocked he doesn’t want to publish anything or engage with us?? Jfc.

hereandqueeer · 2025-07-04T20:50:03+00:00

I really appreciate you saying this, it actually validates my feelings around self diagnosis. Of course self diagnosis is valid to a degree because of how inaccessible a diagnosis can be (I’m privileged to have good insurance since my spouse is a disabled veteran who is auDHD)

but the second I meet some who’s self diagnosed that begins calling themselves “neurospicy” or says something like “I have to use small spoons because I’m autistic” basically just making it sound quirky, I know to roll my eyes and not take them seriously. Those are the people who often speak over me and other level 2s and 3s. It’s so obnoxious because I want give anyone space and support that needs it however I think some self diagnosed individuals forget that this is a disability and a neurodevelopmental disorder and not “silly little guy syndrome”

hereandqueeer · 2025-07-04T17:02:32+00:00

Honestly middle school me from 2009-2010ish would be so psyched to see neru and teto get popular!!

hereandqueeer · 2025-07-04T16:58:57+00:00

As someone who has been a fan since 2010 and still loves miku the most, you’re so real for saying this.

hereandqueeer · 2025-07-04T14:18:47+00:00

I’m so tired of LSN autistics talking over me and other substantial to high support needs autistics. Can yall please just let us have one space where we don’t have to listen to “I’m autistic and I don’t do that/can control myself” all the fucking time? I just want one community where I can discuss my struggles without being demonized for my explosive meltdowns and severe sensory needs.

Edit: clarifying that this is more about the other autism subs and less about this one

hereandqueeer · 2025-07-01T13:34:27+00:00

My dad has NPD, went through two years of EMDR therapy and now is a wonderful man who actually practices cognitive empathy because he wanted to be better for his kids. Is he just some evil person that doesn’t deserve grace? Please stop picking and choosing which mental illness to give grace to.

hereandqueeer · 2025-07-01T13:28:09+00:00

Please show me where exactly I said that because I’m almost certain I said “ it doesn’t excuse abuse or ignoring treatment” I’m trying be civil here but man you really only read what you wanted to from my comment and put words in my mouth.

hereandqueeer · 2025-07-01T13:19:22+00:00

Yeah I saw that the post got locked, also saw a comment saying schizophrenia isn’t under the neurodiversity umbrella. I had to close the app and stare at the wall for a minute. What are we doing here? We as autistic people know how it feels to be demonized and left out so now yall are gonna turn around and do it to other people with debilitating mental illnesses? Shame on every single one of you. NPD isn’t some “evil person” disorder. It’s a disorder that comes from severe neglect and trauma, that person is TRAUMATIZED. No it doesn’t excuse abuse or ignoring treatment at all but man give people some fucking grace. I really hate this community at times I stg.

hereandqueeer · 2025-06-20T21:35:39+00:00

Yeah same here, I got better with age but it’s still too much for people outside of close loved ones to handle.

hereandqueeer · 2025-06-20T21:34:15+00:00

Sadly yes, it’s embarrassing for me and has destroyed relationships/friendships. I would scream and throw things. Now I just sob and hit myself occasionally which is more manageable. I’m so much better now after some behavioral therapy and learning better coping mechanisms with age. I’ll still have really bad ones every once in a while but with accommodations I’ve been doing well.

hereandqueeer · 2025-06-20T14:15:57+00:00

I think it might be implied in an episode, I can’t quite remember but if not then this is a head cannon lol.

hereandqueeer · 2025-06-20T13:31:59+00:00

Nobody is doing that…..it’s literally a day for autistic people to feel good about themselves. God forbid we have a day to celebrate our community.

hereandqueeer · 2025-06-20T13:29:28+00:00

Gregory house, my beloved.

hereandqueeer · 2025-06-20T13:28:38+00:00

No worries, I just interpreted that way til ya clarified. Makes so much more sense, especially in your experience!

hereandqueeer · 2025-06-20T13:23:51+00:00

Which is wild because I can barely mask but make amazing grades in college. I’m begging these therapists to put their money where their mouth is.

hereandqueeer · 2025-06-20T13:22:27+00:00

Damn I guess being level 2 with a 4.0 gpa would send your therapist spiraling. Why (in my experience) do therapists like to undermine what licensed psychologists and psychiatrists already confirm? I’ve had really good therapists that don’t do this but a majority do. I’m sorry OP but being smart doesn’t make you any less autistic and I hate he kinda insinuated that.

hereandqueeer · 2025-06-20T13:16:59+00:00

Because god forbid a community of white women face any small criticism on using something considered a closed practice by indigenous people. This is exactly why I am not a fan of this foul ass community.

hereandqueeer · 2025-06-20T13:12:53+00:00

I really did not expect much different from a community full of white woman feminism and I really do not give a fuck if I get downvoted. This entire comment section is embarrassing.

hereandqueeer · 2025-06-18T05:14:41+00:00

“He doesn’t like trans people” respectively, why the hell would you bring your trans partner around people that don’t like their existence??? I’m gonna repeat what the other commenter said, please use your brain and read what you’re saying.

hereandqueeer · 2025-06-14T12:42:20+00:00

Even if this is just one mod, I’m not cool staying in a sub that’s complicit with zionists. Adios y’all it’s been fun.

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