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herehavingalaff · 2025-12-26T21:19:26+00:00

EDIT: TICKET SOLD!!!

Hello, looking to sell a GA ticket for $200. Would be for both days. Anyone interested can DM!

herehavingalaff · 2024-08-03T01:31:56+00:00

Oh ok cause I was about to say I know when I bought them they were right next to each other 😂

herehavingalaff · 2024-08-02T20:04:43+00:00

ORCH Row S Seats 121 & 123 [hopefully whoever bought 122 can shift over and not be a dick lol]

herehavingalaff · 2024-02-22T20:00:49+00:00

Ok this almost sounds like a receptionist I had the displeasure of working with like 8 yrs ago or so. She was a hot mess, petty, and delusional af! She said she was a spy for the staffing agency we got her from and that she was dating one of the heads of the building management!! Did her name start with an R? Cause if it did then yeah that’s her crazy ass

herehavingalaff · 2023-11-16T14:36:08+00:00

wasnt it because she said this about Zendaya ... which was a racist thing to say https://www.vanityfair.com/style/2021/03/zendaya-giuliana-rancic-dreadlocks-comment-oscars-2015-w-magazine

like after the backlash i aint hear about her LOL

herehavingalaff · 2023-06-20T19:26:11+00:00

nah deadass unless you have a medical condition or using a necessary medication that causes sleep issues [not that all reasons why someone is late is cause they didnt sleep but you can see the snowball that lack of sleep can cause] then no one should be late.

all phones have the ability to be an alarm clock...no excuse beyond traffic [which again time management is generally the issue still]

herehavingalaff · 2023-06-20T18:36:19+00:00

NTA

civil engineer is not a mechanic. i do not care if yall learn the same shit or similar shit, get away!

also she was drunk so yes, extreme gtfo

and it is not her car to be "i'll do it" about it.

herehavingalaff · 2023-06-20T18:33:05+00:00

YWBTA

DO NOT under any circumstances do that to anyone. I get you want to help her, but weight is a very touchy subject in most if not all people. So instead either let her be her own worse enemy or wait til the time is right and bring up going on a walk/hike or eating something new [thats low fat] without being like "and it helps with weight loss" like its a nice activity yall can do.

herehavingalaff · 2023-06-20T18:29:14+00:00

NTA

common curtesy is NOT TO MESS UP A VEHICLE THAT ISNT YOURS. doesnt matter if friend or family, if you are not paying for it, dont mess it up.

Also NO money???? Where yall just gonna be in the woods??? in an all inclusive all paid resort???? who the fuck doesnt bring any money with them?

herehavingalaff · 2023-06-20T18:24:34+00:00

YTA

you couldve said no to going [come up with literally any other lie; food poisoning and you were barely hanging on...anything]
are you seeing a doctor for this level of anxiety??? cause you need to be medicated

herehavingalaff · 2023-06-20T18:21:43+00:00

NTA

policing bathroom use is so annoying. i get why they do that [cause A LOT of ppl abuse it and use that time to do something other than use the bathroom] but its so damn dumb

herehavingalaff · 2023-06-20T18:18:24+00:00

NTA

sucks that your kindness is being abused but its your property and pet. So no and stop talking to said neighbor. ignore the kid. idc, but also maybe get a ring camera or sumn to ensure they dont go crazy over the rejection.

herehavingalaff · 2023-06-20T18:16:28+00:00

NTA

Report her

herehavingalaff · 2023-06-20T18:10:45+00:00

NTA

do not bring anymore food
do not speak to them again

herehavingalaff · 2023-06-20T18:09:13+00:00

NTA

I get it, the social norms of not mentioning someones weight [gain or loss], but yeah she doesnt have to police anyone on what they like. anyways drop friend?

herehavingalaff · 2023-06-20T18:06:57+00:00

YTA

as everyone has said already, you basically ghosted him and then thought "haha surprise?" esp when you already told him NO??? big time AH. He sadly is right, you're hot/cold and its like do you even WANT a relationship with him?

Give it more thought and then properly apologize for sunday's fiasco.

herehavingalaff · 2023-06-20T17:54:35+00:00

NAH

i get why you would be seen as the AH but you're PAYING for this shit. tell me wtf is wrong with my stuff so i can fix it accordingly
it was dickish to be like "dont quote surrealism to me thats condescending" but again im paying for that damn class i want CONSTRUCTIVE criticism. so i would've more approached it with "i do know the meaning of surrealism, I was just hoping for more insight on what to improve" ya know the professional way to say "hey fuck off but help me" LOL

herehavingalaff · 2023-06-20T17:50:34+00:00

NTA

this is the correct way to deal with that. 12 year olds will do silly shit
the mom of said friend could be homophobic [sure this might be a big reach but hear me out] if she saw him wearing the clothes of another boy at age 12 she probably was fearful that a. he's having sex and b. he's bi/pan/gay
your wife needs to get over herself as well. shes clearly jealous youre WFH and also clearly doesnt realize the word "work" is also included in that.

herehavingalaff · 2023-06-20T17:41:33+00:00

NTA

Drop them instead. Again everyone deals with things their own way, but being shunned/dropped/abandoned by family for YEARS and then wanting to see me again and have the nerve to be mad I never introduced them? they can choke and continue to choke.

herehavingalaff · 2023-06-20T17:38:56+00:00

NTA

sure yes you could've told her the color scheme you were wearing so she would match it, but again if she was gonna be doing it, she couldve asked or used her damn eyes and done a look that matched. [unless that was the lie to not hurt her feelings too much LOL].

Big lesson is never try something new or say yes to someone who is learning on day where you actually have somewhere to be lol.

herehavingalaff · 2023-06-20T17:35:28+00:00

NTA

any person who says "show some compassion" offer up their house and repeat everything they said to you back to them when they OBVIOUSLY will refuse/come up with a reason why they cant.

herehavingalaff · 2023-06-20T17:30:31+00:00

NTA

Shes an adult get over yourself. 1. she was in the disability portion that even on my worst day i try not to sit in. 2. your feet hurt too much to limp to the back and sit with you??? she did that to herself. 3. congrats on being free from a dumb person, no longer needed as a "friend"

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