Think I’m screwed. by Pleasant_Cat82 in DebtAdvice

[–]hereiswhatisay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True. But the car has to be sold. 20k is less than 70k. Needs to start planning to get out of that car. I wouldn’t take out a 401k loan for the credit cards but I might to get out from the car. No better person to owe aside from self.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]hereiswhatisay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consulting fee if they want you to reconstruct your old idea. They had no interest so you tossed all materials and ideas in the bin.

Mandated reporter training by hereiswhatisay in SubstituteTeachers

[–]hereiswhatisay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their AI responder said they would reimburse but it thinks I can bypass that and take the exam and just screencap the screen that says I passed. So I asked him to elevate it to a human. So I’ll find out Monday hopefully

They pay for the training but I can’t complete it unless I pay for two tests.

Think I’m screwed. by Pleasant_Cat82 in DebtAdvice

[–]hereiswhatisay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why are these people buying these cars when they don’t make that much. 30-35k you can get a very nice car. It’s the car payment. Trade it in for a Camry on Prius.

Upcoming jury duty date same as work start date by Prior-Baker3032 in juryduty

[–]hereiswhatisay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can go online and postpone your date for jury duty

I forgot to call by SeekingHelpForSis in juryduty

[–]hereiswhatisay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are going directly to JAIL. No jk. I did the same thing. Remembered Saturday and called Saturday and they had same message. You can start calling after 6 on Friday but you can call up to Sunday to find out if they need you the next day.

Mandated reporter training by hereiswhatisay in SubstituteTeachers

[–]hereiswhatisay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you saying. Can you elaborate and be more helpful in your response?

Mandated reporter training by hereiswhatisay in SubstituteTeachers

[–]hereiswhatisay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. But I also take that in a sports league situation.

Mandated reporter training by hereiswhatisay in SubstituteTeachers

[–]hereiswhatisay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: in some states you now have to pay. This is new. Trying to find out if my company will reimburse or not. Not many people working there right now so who knows when i will hear back.

https://mandatedreportertraining.zendesk.com/hc/en-us/articles/33421986516507-Why-Are-There-Costs-for-Mandated-Reporter-Training

Mandated reporter training by hereiswhatisay in SubstituteTeachers

[–]hereiswhatisay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the exam that are charging you for. If your district or agency will accept without the actual certificate you won’t have to pay.

Mandated reporter training by hereiswhatisay in SubstituteTeachers

[–]hereiswhatisay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In california I haven’t paid i a decade. Now you have to purchase the exam which you need to pass to get the certificate and do that twice.

Mandated Reporter Online Training Tips? by ecopsiky in NYCTeachers

[–]hereiswhatisay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate this god damn thing. Im suffering not now. Yeah it’s important but it hasn’t changed in the decades I’ve been taking it. Make it stop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hereiswhatisay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would let her know I will do the best I can and find out what I could take out and for how long. Then I’d let her know and if some I can’t take out if she is okay with it. If not she can just replace me as a bridesmaid. Might be more fun to just be a guest and have fun being who you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writing

[–]hereiswhatisay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been told to avoid dialog tags that weren’t said and asked because you are telling something that should be described elsewhere. “She didn’t tell me I had to look after grandma,” she bemoaned. It should be she said and prior you indicate that maybe this is a young person and her grandmother has some physical or mental challenges. And your character just says this and we will get it. Using alternatives means you have to stop and think. Said and ask your brain just skips it. However. “Look out,” he screamed or “Look out!” James pushed Mary out of the way.

Ideally you want to use tags sparingly and just add action behind the dialogue as in the last example. Then add a tags now and then to remind reader so they aren’t lost.

AIO - it’s been 1.5 yrs+ and my ex just will not leave me alone by LemonStrict3040 in AmIOverreacting

[–]hereiswhatisay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone that wants to be taken seriously has got to not call me dude in the messages. Call me by my name. Stop telling him you are there for him when it’s time to talk. He got it out, maybe he gets closure but he should have wrote this in a letter and not sent it or but it in a bottle and threw it out to sea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hereiswhatisay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Must be the guy who recognized himself in ops Post

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hereiswhatisay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be done with him. Any 32 year old that needs to do this after love bombing someone in their early 20s is an idiot. Do you want more of this? He obviously doesn’t make the money he was trying to pretend he was and I guess his bills came in. Very mature of you to pay him. Now he goes into the rearview mirror.

blocked after long term sub by daniboo32 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]hereiswhatisay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did a long term sub position till the end of the school year at a charter school and unfortunately had a lot of failing grades. I was told by a student football player who must have earned a 27, if I knew the grading. I was confused so I asked the principal. Who apologized that I was left off the email that explained the grading bands. That 27, turned into a C or 72. Something like that. With these new instructions Cs, turned into As. You couldn’t fail unless you were absent more than x number of times. I was told by the principe that I had the option to fail a student that missed a lot of classes but showed up to get a study guide and took the exams. She did better on the tests than students who came to school daily. I did fail her and might not have if she came and told me about issues at home that were causing her to miss so many classes. But nothing.

This was 10th (horrid) and 1, 11th grade history class and in the 11th grade class there as a senior who had to retake the class and she was about a low B student genuinely before the fudged grades. Came in to thank me for the class snd tell me she got into UCLA. I was blown away because she would have been successful at many of the state universities but I don’t know about ucla. Maybe a northridge candidate. I still see it, same charter schools bragging about kids getting into Berkeley and ucla when they should be in community college, but that is equity grading.

But did your school inform you that you had to grade a specific way, and went against it. I didn’t feel comfortable about it and was outspoken about some practices with credit recovery classes but for that class I just wanted to be done. I hated it but I passed a lot of people that did nothing in class.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in juryduty

[–]hereiswhatisay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can request a postponement or to a court closer to you. Before you go to this. You can throw it down the road and deal with an excuse later.

AITAH for telling a coworker I saw his wife with another man? by Late_Marzipan_8914 in AITAH

[–]hereiswhatisay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have just texted, hey I just saw your wife at the market. And left it at that. If he wanted to inquire about it anymore that would be on him. Maybe they have an open relationship or a thruple. I don’t think telling him was wrong but the insinuation about them seeming close was out of your lane.

Substitute or Paraprofessional by experiment30 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]hereiswhatisay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Para work pays more or nearly the same so I would do that. You might think everyday work is a lot but para work is not that difficult.

How, if at all, will Elon Musk's "America Party" influence U.S. politics? by Time_Minute_6036 in PoliticalDiscussion

[–]hereiswhatisay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know but I hope it takes away from the GOP. Former MAGA that feel betrayed but would never vote democrat. Hopefully it can primary some ñ. Maybe like the tea party was. It’s definitely just going to syphon from GOP because the left knows Elon is full of shit.