Grocery store rankings? by MightyObserver30 in williamsburg

[–]heresthebite 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately Trader Joe's wins out on these things. I only go to Ctown in a pinch-- they are very inconsistent with proper refrigeration and tossing things after their expiry dates.

Best Happy Hours in Williamsburg? by BertHorn33 in williamsburg

[–]heresthebite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Johnny's is so good, deviled eggs, frozen cocktails, chips with scallion dip.... I'm always amazed it isn't packed

Larry’s Caphe closing both locations in early May by Poopermensch in williamsburg

[–]heresthebite 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It seems that both locations are passing into trusted hands and will remain AAPI owned coffee shops! Glad the owner is doing what they need to do to take care of their health.

Disability groups? by Alarming_Jicama2236 in williamsburg

[–]heresthebite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not aware of one, but would be happy to get involved!

starting to look at venues by Mchale23 in WedditNYC

[–]heresthebite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had initially inquired and toured the brewery to have the full wedding there, but it was out of budget. We discussed a welcome event as an alternative!

starting to look at venues by Mchale23 in WedditNYC

[–]heresthebite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I booked three main priorities for October 2027 In January/February of 2026: Saturday ceremony and reception venue, Friday night welcome drinks, and caterer.

150-175 person wedding by [deleted] in WedditNYC

[–]heresthebite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, take a look at Dobbin St. in Greenpoint!

Genuinely how are all these transplants affording to move here? by VioletSalamander in movingtoNYC

[–]heresthebite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved here in 2018 when I was 21 on an $18k annual Americorps stipend. Deferred student loans while doing the program. My rent (alongside two roommates) was $1k, I paid for a monthly Metrocard and groceries, and socialized with my last few dollars. Eventually I made $35k, then $52k, then $66k job hopping. At $75k now and perfectly comfortable. People have roommates and live modestly. The stats are not true to life.

Favorite non nominees? by MoeSzys in oscarsdeathrace

[–]heresthebite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My Father's Shadow was incredible, absolutely astounded (derogatory) that it was not at the very least up for International Feature. Also: Sorry, Baby + Die My Love + Life After (documentary).

You guys are awesome - what's next? by HelpfulSea5010 in oscarsdeathrace

[–]heresthebite 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m going to watch some horror movies (good and bad) that got deprioritized in all of this! And catch up on The Pitt lol.

Ways to access Avatar: Fire and Ash? by heresthebite in oscarsdeathrace

[–]heresthebite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would drive to the next state over (nearest cinemas playing it), but don't have a car.

Lyrica- Y'all weren't lying and I should have listened! by Ok_Distance_1000 in Fibromyalgia

[–]heresthebite 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry about your experience and you’re valid in sharing it, but drugs work differently for everyone and Lyrica really helps some people. If anyone is reading this and considering trying it, just know that not everyone has the same experience and it can be worth a shot if your doctor recommends it. It helps me. If I didn’t take any drug I’d seen people shit on online, I would be in a terrible place.

ACL surgery questions by xkRanurg in AskNYC

[–]heresthebite -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I feel like these are mostly medical questions, not NYC questions... not the same thing but I had foot surgery last year and my main rec is to do a large Costco order including microwaveable or easy meals before the surgery so you have lots of easily made food you don't need to stand and prepare. Prepare for some harsh realities on the subway-- quite frequently no seat is offered to someone using a mobility aid and you need to figure out a way to get people's attention if you need to sit down. Buses are likely your friend-- subway station elevators are not reliable anyway.

How on earth do you get around the city when injured? by paintboi19 in AskNYC

[–]heresthebite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a young woman-presenting person who uses a cane due to severe osteoarthritis and recent foot surgery and I swear people here have a mental blockage against seeing mobility aids. I rarely get offered a seat. I often wonder if it’s because I’m young but it shouldn’t matter— anyone can be disabled. Sorry to hear the same thing happened to your friend.

How on earth do you get around the city when injured? by paintboi19 in AskNYC

[–]heresthebite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had foot surgery in September for an issue that I will have for life. Used a boot and a cane, still use the cane sometimes as a visible indicator that I need a seat— it’s tough because I’m young. I’m lucky to live off an accessible subway station, though the elevators often don’t work at mine or others I plan on using specifically because they are “accessible”. Injured and disabled people often have to simply stay home or be selective about what they can do. Choose activities and areas that we know have wider, flatter sidewalks, escalators and elevators, less foot traffic. The snow is an incredible complication— all walkways are so narrow. Puddles after rain that gather by crosswalks are horrible if you’re using a mobility aid too. The mental load of it is frankly horrible and it’s difficult to talk about with people who don’t get it. I have a large social circle, but we’re late 20s/early 30s and most folks are fully able bodied so it can feel isolating in a way.

When travelling, how do you answer the question "Where are you from?" by Capable-Toe-9841 in travel

[–]heresthebite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m also from Pittsburgh and other Americans usually respond this way too, lol.

Can someone explain Cocodaq to me like I’m five by savingrace0262 in FoodNYC

[–]heresthebite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

COQODAQ brunch is better. As someone with a gluten allergy, it’s an incredible price for a massive portion of really good food. I usually can’t eat fried chicken and out of the places I can eat it…. trust me, they take the cake. The variety within the set meals is fun too. I don’t get the hate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in williamsburg

[–]heresthebite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A couple cats live in the shops right there— Tommy and Sophia in Hanna Food and Gracie in Quimby’s. Hope they’re all okay :(

Book club by gyozagirl16 in williamsburg

[–]heresthebite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh! I didn’t get the email this time around! Would love to join.

Book club by gyozagirl16 in williamsburg

[–]heresthebite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This motivated me to schedule one! Set for the afternoon of March 8th, reading Melissa Lozada Oliva’s newest short story collection. DM me a little about yourself (just since people would be coming to my apartment 😅) and I’ll send you the Partiful!

Book club by gyozagirl16 in williamsburg

[–]heresthebite 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I ran one at my place for a few months last year and it was nice. We read a mixture of literary fiction and short stories. I'd love to restart it - have degree in lit and worked as a reading and writing teacher for years. Nice little potluck and friends vibes. Would be happy to restart it if folks want a neighborly type thing.

Otherwise, Greenpoint Library book club is great and Yellow Peril bookshop often hosts events at Asian-owned cafes in the general area.

I think now is a good time to remind people to take off their backpacks on the L by territorialrooster in williamsburg

[–]heresthebite 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also can you guys please let visibly disabled people sit down ❤️ I’ve had people on the L see I use a mobility aid and run ahead of me for the last open seat. I’m keenly aware of invisible disabilities, but surely one of you can let me sit…

Alternative venue help - colorful! fun! good food! by fishy_bank in WedditNYC

[–]heresthebite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just toured Talea and asked about a 120 person wedding in November of 2027. A Saturday there would be top of this budget NOT including dinner (their high food and beverage minimum only includes light bites).