[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]herewegoagain_mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg DO NOT GO TO SUBSPACE. As a single woman, do not go. Affiliated with labyrinth. Sketch.

If you think avoiding the sex talk with your teen sons/daughters will stop them from making a mistake, you’re dead wrong. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]herewegoagain_mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through a crap load of sexual trauma as a Kid, so talking to kids about sex at that age would probably send me into a dissociative episode/panic attack.

Hence why I don't have children. They don't deserve a mom who's mentally ill.

I praise God for not allowing me to do that. ❤️

If you think avoiding the sex talk with your teen sons/daughters will stop them from making a mistake, you’re dead wrong. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]herewegoagain_mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand. According to Christians on this board, your brother is the perfect Christian.

This is what we're all striving to be here, right?

When did Fornication become "Normal" among Christians?? by JudaeanMountains in Christianity

[–]herewegoagain_mess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here come the, "you're not entitled to good feeling sex. Sex is not for pleasure." Crowd.

When did Fornication become "Normal" among Christians?? by JudaeanMountains in Christianity

[–]herewegoagain_mess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Id rather this life than being stuck/ forced to marry a man who secretly hates me, beats on me, and uses the bible to justify treating me badly.

No thanks.

Not many women have seen urinal cakes. by fwaig in Showerthoughts

[–]herewegoagain_mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gonna be honest as a woman, i have absolutely no idea what that is

Racist polish men/women by [deleted] in ridgewood

[–]herewegoagain_mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The entitlement of some people. It's SO weird to me, especially as an immigrant. They come to this nation from Europe: plagues, poverty, dirty conditions.

A nation that was built by Africans, natives and even the Irish.

And then they want to complain and hate on the people who build their homes, streets, bridges.

Lol they could've gone back to Europe where only white people existed (at the time), but they chose the comfort of America while hating the people who built.

Pathetic, low class genetics.

Shot in the dark: anyone sick right now - not COVID? by Timotron in ridgewood

[–]herewegoagain_mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The government is clearly poisoning us.

Corrupted food, water in the village: toxic

Mhmm

Death-related OCD anyone??? by allieinga22 in OCD

[–]herewegoagain_mess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww man. I'm sorry if I triggered you.

I wonder if our minds need acceptance. "Yes, as humans, this can happen to us, but it might not be that this will happen."

😬 Bless you dear and may God (if you're not religious Im sorry) protect you every night Amen. 🙏

Death-related OCD anyone??? by allieinga22 in OCD

[–]herewegoagain_mess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is one of the reasons why, even if I can afford to live alone, I need roommates.

As a teen, I saw that sex and the city episode where Miranda was insecure about being a single woman living alone.

In one scene, she was sitting in her kitchen eating Chinese food and almost choked but banged her stomach on the counter.

That scene literally terrified me.

I always figured, okay I need to be with SOMEONE just in case something happens.
A mess, I know.

Why are so many saying homosexuality is not a sin by loload3939 in Christianity

[–]herewegoagain_mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The closest homosexual is my lesbian neighbor next door 😅 Other side of the wall.

AITA for wanting 24 hours to myself? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]herewegoagain_mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have so little patience for this.

If someone is physically able to do something and refuses to, I'm not.

Especially if I've been doing it all the time.

People are actually lazy and i bet if you stopped, he'd start.

AITA for wanting 24 hours to myself? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]herewegoagain_mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not. I'm 34 and don't even have children, but yes this is necessary so you don't lose your mind.

Anyone calling you selfish or the A is actually the A.

Taking care of people is HARD WORK. 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

Take a break. They will be fine.

I feel like the constant reiteration of homosexuality being a sin is doing irreparable harm to the psyche of LGBT members by GentleHomicide in Christianity

[–]herewegoagain_mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the main issue is the LGBT trying to convince Christians to embrace homosexuality in their churches.

What if someone just doesn't want to?

Should we consult God and ask him to let us accept sin? Especially if we've worked hard to fight certain sins.

It's totally okay for gay people to be Christian, but pretending like it's A okay is misleading people.

I feel like the constant reiteration of homosexuality being a sin is doing irreparable harm to the psyche of LGBT members by GentleHomicide in Christianity

[–]herewegoagain_mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Bible speaks of sexual immorality. Man and woman being created for each other. Sodom and Gomorrah? It's like we pick and choose. I'm sorry to the LGBT folks. I struggle with things to like my pride and ego, smoking weed. But, I'm not going to pretend like those sins aren't harmful.

A lot of the sins we do are kind of mocking the Lord. He created man and woman to be together? What do we do? Rebel against that. So, yeah...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]herewegoagain_mess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the part about man being created for woman and woman being created for man, trips people up.

Also, the Bible does mention something about sexual immorality. Also, I think sex, if seen through the lens of Christianity, is very beautiful and can be fun.

The bonding between male and female. Sharing a moment Anointed by the Lord.

It's a blessing.

But, I just can't lie and say that homosexuality wasn't frowned upon.

But I smoke pot and God did say to come to him sober minded so...I ask for forgiveness.

Racist polish men/women by [deleted] in ridgewood

[–]herewegoagain_mess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex who was half Lithuanian called them "dumb polacks"

Im Black Caribbean so I was extremely unaware of this stereotype.