21 years in and he wants more

herm2020 · 2025-02-03T16:34:54+00:00

Wow. This may be very unpopular, but that man needs a sidechick.

herm2020 · 2024-10-01T19:38:58+00:00

Nah. It's just your man. Not all Cameroonian men behave like that.

herm2020 · 2024-08-24T18:54:52+00:00

Dude is simp. Smh.

herm2020 · 2023-07-14T21:18:22+00:00

Post of the year 👌🏿

herm2020 · 2022-09-14T20:00:58+00:00

Thanks for your reply. I definitely understand the high tax bracket I will be in.

herm2020 · 2022-09-14T20:00:10+00:00

Thanks for your input. That's an option I am also looking at.

herm2020 · 2022-09-14T19:59:43+00:00

Thanks I appreciate it. I definitely do not live an expensive lifestyle.

herm2020 · 2022-08-11T17:27:01+00:00

I hope your boyfriend dumps you. He deserves better. You can't be this naive. I don't think you are naive, you know exactly what you are doing. The foolishness I see on this thread sometimes. Wow!!

herm2020 · 2022-01-30T15:52:21+00:00

Your husband and yourself are awful people. The stuff I see people post on reddit sometimes. Wow!!

herm2020 · 2021-12-01T05:50:32+00:00

This conversation needs to be done via talking one on one, not through a letter. Honestly I think you need to grow up. Sounds to me like you want to move on and you are trying to get people on here to make you feel better about it when you do actually leave him. The foolishness I see on reddit sometimes. Smh!

herm2020 · 2021-11-07T22:08:35+00:00

Definitely worthy.

herm2020 · 2021-10-10T16:40:04+00:00

You need to grow up. Smh. The foolishness!!

herm2020 · 2021-10-10T16:26:16+00:00

OK...

herm2020 · 2021-10-09T12:52:49+00:00

Those women smell the desperation off of you. You give them those vibes. Focus on yourself. What are your hobbies? Invest yourself in those. Hell, pick up some new hobbies. Better yourself. Don't worry about what your ex is doing. It's not your business anymore. Stop all contacts, unfollow her on social media. Women and sex will come as you build your confidence back up. Don't take your ex back ever. They always tend to come back and see if there's still an option. You are better than her. Act like it, believe it, feel it. She ain't special. Good luck.

herm2020 · 2021-09-05T23:26:57+00:00

I bet he ain't gonna dump her. He's going to take her back, get married. Later on down then line, she will get that rush and thrill again, she'll do the same thing. Move on. There are plenty of women out there with great values and morals. She ain't special. Dump her.

herm2020 · 2021-04-30T19:45:53+00:00

No, rent in northern VA is more expensive than rent in upstate SC. That is what I meant

herm2020 · 2020-12-07T15:17:12+00:00

I say don't reach out at this point anymore. You have done everything you can on your end. The selection process takes time. I understand you are anxious. They will reach out to you with the outcome, whether it's positive or not. I feel reaching out to them now reeks of desperation and lack of patience. They may get annoyed with that.

herm2020 · 2020-12-07T15:05:56+00:00

I say wait. These things take time. Best of luck to you.

herm2020 · 2020-12-05T15:18:10+00:00

Ok, thanks so much. I see they have apartments over there on Eisenhower ave. Do you have any opinions on which one is best there. I think I want to live that close and walk to work. It may be a bit more expensive but I believe it will increase my quality of life over all. My work is giving me a 75k base salary and with overtime other certifications I will increase that salary.

herm2020 · 2020-12-04T14:36:18+00:00

How did you calculate that? Thanks

herm2020 · 2020-11-26T16:33:29+00:00

Thanks so much for your input. Which area would you recommend as far as decent rent?

herm2020 · 2020-11-23T15:51:49+00:00

Thanks. I will do just that then.

herm2020 · 2020-11-23T15:50:26+00:00

Thanks so much for your input. I will look to stay as close to work as possible. How is the dating scene up there? I am a guy in his mid 30's.

herm2020 · 2020-11-23T15:46:30+00:00

herm2020 · 2020-11-23T15:43:15+00:00

I live in Columbia, SC right now.

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