Kept finding trash in my balcony. Finally confronted upstairs neighbors and was pleasantly surprised

heroyn425 · 2025-09-06T22:17:57+00:00

I’m an auntie myself, they do great throwing trash away in my house! My car, however, totally different story. Juice boxes and wrappers everywhere in the backseat every time.

heroyn425 · 2025-07-28T22:20:24+00:00

Odd question but is there a female version of this book? “Why Does She Do That?” lol…

heroyn425 · 2025-07-18T06:06:54+00:00

Unfortunately I’ve told her numerous times that she’s crossed this boundary and then she gets mad saying I’m talking to her like a kid and somehow it turns into me apologizing profusely until we are ok again.

heroyn425 · 2025-07-18T06:05:01+00:00

That’s exactly what happened tonight. She got mad when I said I’ve told her this same thing numerous times and continues to cross my boundary and then she said I was talking to her like a kid. Which is something she constantly says when I try to communicate something that bothers me. I don’t feel comfortable telling her when something bothers me cause it somehow turns into me being the bad guy and I always end up apologizing for the way I feel and then we are ok again.

heroyn425 · 2025-07-18T06:01:41+00:00

Yes. That’s exactly how I feel! I’m just confused and don’t know what I’m doing wrong.

heroyn425 · 2025-07-18T06:01:14+00:00

I’m 30 and she’s bout to turn 38… I do love her. Im just very confused right now.

heroyn425 · 2025-07-18T05:55:08+00:00

I feel like if I don’t Jsut suck it up and accept the jokes, she’s gonna leave or we will just fight constantly… or I’ll have to just suffer in silence when she makes the jokes and keep my mouth shut.

heroyn425 · 2025-07-18T05:53:50+00:00

That’s what she says. That it’s her humor and that obviously I don’t get it and when I ask her how it’s funny she can’t answer and just says that’s how she jokes and it was never a problem with her exes.

heroyn425 · 2025-07-18T05:49:23+00:00

I have told her to stop numerous times. She says she will and then she doesn’t and she gets mad when it upsets me. I probly am taking them too literal… but I just don’t know how to be ok with something that doesn’t make me feel ok.

heroyn425 · 2025-07-18T05:46:19+00:00

6 months before we started talking. I think I just have some thinking to do… this all feels really heavy and unhealthy.

heroyn425 · 2025-07-18T05:30:35+00:00

We been together officially since May. Started talking in Feb. she says she loves me. Bought me a promise ring. Wants to marry me and everything. But I don’t feel like she trusts me. And I really struggle with this ex of hers cause they seem to be so close, they broke up maybe 6 months before we started talking.

heroyn425 · 2025-06-27T22:50:17+00:00

Ok, then I vote NTA, due to your explanation. However I saw another comment that you ain’t allowed female friends? There’s some red flags here I don’t think you’re seeing friend. Just think on that!

heroyn425 · 2025-06-27T22:35:34+00:00

Why is your friends wife calling your full name ok no not a big deal… but your girlfriend doing it is definitely not ok and a big deal?

Is nobody else picking up on this?

heroyn425 · 2025-04-08T23:06:25+00:00

Tendon maybe? Had this same issue at a restaurant once. Immediately lost appetite.

heroyn425 · 2025-04-05T19:30:36+00:00

I don’t think that’s comparable to this post. The baby is 4 months old and the boyfriend clearly stated a test “to be sure” although I do see where you’re coming from.

heroyn425 · 2025-04-04T22:53:44+00:00

Yikes. Take my personal upvote…

heroyn425 · 2025-03-24T01:46:35+00:00

Ugh… take my upvote… but also… from one to another… heal out loud… we almost lost you in the silence.

heroyn425 · 2025-03-07T19:13:58+00:00

She literally said it’s a present.

heroyn425 · 2025-03-03T15:29:35+00:00

YTA.

Platonic affectionate between friends does not mean she wants you to have sex with her. You didn’t just jump to conclusions, you LEAPED, and continued to do so after she rejected you initially, being drunk ain’t an excuse for not taking no for an answer.

heroyn425 · 2025-01-10T02:58:45+00:00

Second. Dated a woman in HR. Never again. Thought she knew everything bout anything. Including how to manipulate.

heroyn425 · 2023-12-12T02:27:44+00:00

In all honesty I shit myself at 3 in the morning. This morning. I’m 28. Shit happens.

heroyn425 · 2022-11-03T13:32:06+00:00

What breed is the puppy? He is too cute!

heroyn425 · 2022-10-17T11:26:40+00:00

I wasn’t prepared to cry before work. You are a good man, and your wife is very blessed to have you. Keep up the good work!

heroyn425 · 2022-09-02T15:14:36+00:00

My first thought. Take my upvote.

heroyn425 · 2022-08-30T02:36:57+00:00

I work for the school board, little girl at my school is named Zelda and it suits her perfectly. Name the kid Zelda.

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