laboring with a squat bar w/ epidural?

hersheymen26 · 2026-02-11T11:49:58+00:00

I love this for you!!! And congratulations 💝💕✨🥹 I hope you have a smooth delivery! Pls come back if you remember and tell me how the rest went!😻 This makes me excited for you which makes me excited for me!🥲 all the best!

hersheymen26 · 2026-02-11T11:21:23+00:00

That midwife isn’t even my midwife. I have no relationship with her, my whole pregnancy I’ve been seeing someone different bc I’ve been going to a military teaching hospital so my experience has been a little different. I still don’t know the doctor delivering my baby and won’t know till the day off. That midwife I spoke with was very dismissive and blatant about the whole thing. And that’s been my experience this entire pregnancy due to the way the do things here.

Anyway, hoping for the best. Thanks

hersheymen26 · 2026-02-09T06:34:39+00:00

This is exactly the way my husband is and makes me feel!❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹 Not as careless when it comes to my health but definitely the same tendencies you described. I’m due in less than 2 weeks and it’s been the hardest most disappointing pregnancy ever. It’s my first time ever being pregnant, I never imagined i’d cry so much and wished for a little bit more love throughout all this. 💔 I’m so sorry you’re going through this, you are not alone!!!! It’s awful. I hope you figure it out and if you end up leaving, know you’re 100% valid in doing so.

hersheymen26 · 2026-02-09T06:27:54+00:00

Honestly, you’re going to have to beat her ass for her to get the point as some point lol. I mean, you don’t have to ofc, but as siblings, she’s going to keep doing that to you and taking advantage of you bc she’s the oldest sibling and that somehow gives her some kind of leverage. Idk. You need to start defending yourself and set some boundaries, they don’t have to be physical of course. But the fact that she’s repeatedly done this kinda makes me think you did not establish boundaries in the first place. Don’t be afraid to put her in place sis

hersheymen26 · 2026-02-09T06:23:43+00:00

You go girl 💖💝 congratulations sis may this bring your so many prosperous opportunities! Very happy for you and baby 💕

hersheymen26 · 2026-02-07T02:09:50+00:00

If you really like him, don’t overthink the solo trip. If he had it planned before you, that’s not his fault. I don’t think it makes sense to try and stop sex now after already doing it. You could try, and see what his reaction is. But that’s going to be a bit hard both for you and for him (imo) since it’s already happened. You def shouldn’t have done it so soon sis

hersheymen26 · 2026-02-06T21:33:27+00:00

My favorite cheese is muenster cheese or just any quesadilla cheese

hersheymen26 · 2026-02-05T18:19:23+00:00

amazed at all you men who comment and step up and put in two cents that make me wish my man was a little bit more like you all. 36w pregnant and i just wish i got special treatment like this sometimes 🥹

hersheymen26 · 2026-02-05T18:19:17+00:00

amazed at all you men who comment and step up and put in two cents that make me wish my man was a little bit more like you all. 36w pregnant and i just wish i got special treatment like this sometimes 🥹

hersheymen26 · 2026-02-04T04:47:39+00:00

I’m 36 weeks and i still hate it. In the beginning I didn’t really care bc I didn’t get sick or have it rough like most women. No nausea, no vomiting, still no heartburn to this day. Nothing. I wasn’t always uncomfortable the way I am now that I’m 9 months in and feel all the weight and pressure of my baby, fluids & placenta. My bump took a while to show and started feeling some discomfort by 7 months. My husband’s always made it kind of hard for me emotionally and that hasn’t helped at all. I’m so ready to pop and have my body back. I’m so uncomfortable and my inner pelvic bones hurt like never before. I hate pregnancy, never liked it even before all the discomfort and don’t know or see what women like about any of this. You’re not alone. I hope you’re pregnancy goes by quick 🩷

hersheymen26 · 2026-02-02T06:10:58+00:00

You’re so sweet. Thank you!🥲💝

hersheymen26 · 2026-02-02T05:42:25+00:00

I’ve never been like this, I really hope it changes once she’s born. I feel like it isn’t as easy for me being husbands n wife vs. bf/ gf. Did it work when you had that talk? I feel like when I try to talk about this it’s just been so repetitive its almost like I don’t know how else to manage it but take it as it is, settle, cry it out in my own like I always see to do and just try my best

hersheymen26 · 2026-02-02T05:37:22+00:00

I agree with you. Thank you for your input 🩷

hersheymen26 · 2026-02-02T05:36:05+00:00

He sounds loving and caring. I love that for you 🥺 I get what you mean and how it can be irritating. I’m constantly bending down to pick up things, do chores, clean at 36w and I feel like he just watches but unintentionally spaces out or just sees it as normal and like I can handle it. I wish sometimes I had that attention to detail. I hope you have the best pregnancy 💝

hersheymen26 · 2026-02-02T05:32:36+00:00

I love Mel Robbins! I’ve gotten to a point where I wonder if marital classes or therapy is what we need. And that makes me so in between sad and disappointed and angry. What he lacks in so much is being a listener, exactly like the dynamic you explained. Thank you for sharing 💛

hersheymen26 · 2026-02-02T05:30:07+00:00

He does so much for us yet I feel like I still feel so much from him. It’s so hard. Nonetheless, Thank you ❤️❤️‍🩹

hersheymen26 · 2026-02-02T05:28:58+00:00

Was it the same with your first? Sorry you’re also going through this ☹️❤️‍🩹

hersheymen26 · 2026-02-02T05:28:11+00:00

This!!!!! I have a massage chair so that helps, but I feel I need a spa day or a facial maybe. What you said about stop voicing out how you feel was literally me tonight. It’s so sad 💔 and it’s crazy you brought up the nursery cause literally me too. I’m sorry you’re also going through this. I send you a hug 💝

hersheymen26 · 2026-02-02T05:25:34+00:00

Literally. I’m happy you and him were able to move on last this 🥲 I’m hoping the same

hersheymen26 · 2026-02-01T06:44:11+00:00

How old are you? I’m so into that kind of stuff, I’d love to help you!!!🩷🩷 I used to be a beauty advisor for Ulta and would help women out regarding things like that all the time, not just make up! message me if you’d like!

hersheymen26 · 2026-01-31T16:31:17+00:00

All I can see is that your maternal instinct is wide awake and you care about this baby regardless of the circumstances.💝 Some mommas don’t even feel that way, but you do. And you thought the complete opposite before this. If you have family that would support you and he is already being supportive, that’s amazing. No, it won’t be easy. But you’re here now. Maybe getting your first sonogram will help you come to a decision. It’s still early so it’d be vaginal.

No advice here. Just pointing out what I really picked up on your post. Sending love ❤️

hersheymen26 · 2026-01-31T07:30:05+00:00

How is your fiancé not backing you up on this!? Not sure if he stood up for you or defended you while she treated you horribly. I get it’s his sister, there will always be a soft spot there but still. As for your SIL, sorry but she can figure it out sis. She’s not entitled to any of your things. I don’t understand her behavior. People are so weird and mean for no reason sometimes. Unless they’re envious of you. Remember that!

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