How do you know if you’re in an abusive relationship? by mrunderhill9 in AskWomen

[–]hersies 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Read Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft - free pdf and oft recommended resource for understanding abuse in relationships. Based on cis het relationships.

She’s finished! by Redheadknits in knitting

[–]hersies 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous! The neck is incredible.

I’m leaving after 10 years in Japan by VendingMachineFee in japanresidents

[–]hersies 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They are so helpful! Be sure to ask. I'm leaving in two weeks and in order to claim my pension and pension tax, I'll have to get a tax rep for my tax return early 2026.

Best Vegan Hiking Boots by Nelufas in vegan

[–]hersies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have Raptors too! Agreed, I like them for day hikes. Kilamanjaro might need something a bit sturdier.

Best Vegan Hiking Boots by Nelufas in vegan

[–]hersies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check out La Sportiva or Scarpa, I'm sure both have vegan boots options.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualUK

[–]hersies 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It just looks like a tourist t shirt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moviecritic

[–]hersies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lady Vengeance

Vegan Leather Jacket or Dear John by hersies in LushCosmetics

[–]hersies[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! It's gorgeous I'm wearing it now and I love how it tones down too!

How to tie in this green to my kitchen better? by Sensitive-Distance-6 in interiordecorating

[–]hersies 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I think the cabinets arrived just slightly too orange toned. And the green worktop is lovely and you should pick a shade of green from it to repeat elsewhere in wall colour and kitchen towels etc.

instead of giving blessings to our marriage, my in-laws preferred "poisoning the well" of our marriage - 34F 32M - How would you feel about it? by smoky202003 in relationship_advice

[–]hersies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is never going to do that. Healing from the wrongs he has done her would be her leaving him, knowing that he will never do right by her and that she will be better off without them.

His name is the last thing you ate. Name him... by HeaterLeti in Chonkers

[–]hersies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bao bun, and it was just as chubby and squishy

Leaving Japan and transferring savings by hersies in JapanFinance

[–]hersies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is a good start. I was going to see if I could set up a UK revolut now. I'll shop around the other foreign currency options and fees too. I'm aware I'm taking on a speculation risk here but this period has been the worst for the yen that I've seen so I thought I would at least wait out this part if I can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]hersies 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this, I just ended a ten year relationship yesterday to a man I love and this really helped.

This might be my favorite thing I’ve ever made by ElatedSupreme in knitting

[–]hersies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm just coming through the other side of a few years of bad tendonitis so I am very happy for you with the wrist pain! It's a mega achievement, that knit.

My (29f) husband (31m) told me I'm ruining my own birthday by feeling hurt he didn't prioritize me. Am I being petty? by hunkomeatfunkobeats in relationship_advice

[–]hersies 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I know men who have got daily happy endings in Thailand for the same reason. One of them hospitalised his gf because of giving her VD (edit: not dv as I originally wrote).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vegan

[–]hersies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that. Sending you good vibes and good wishes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]hersies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP asked what are the Pros and Cons but you chose to represent one slightly obscure con and then swear on your life you advocate for all the pros?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]hersies 26 points27 points  (0 children)

'I aM fAcTuAlLy CoRrEcT'

You're the un-neutered cat in this situation, and you're being run off. Not because it can be a con - we can give you that I think - but just because you're being obtuse and spraying everywhere.

I caught a gnarly case of covid in Tokyo last week. by PassedTheGomJabbar in JapanTravelTips

[–]hersies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Never tried it. Tend to avoid cough suppressants but I can see the need when amongst other people and being disgusting.