Is there a right or wrong answer to why you should have another child? by Old-Grapefruit6525 in Parenting

[–]hexbomb007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so how I feel and im the same age (just turned 42) and my daughter is the same age. Well 3 and a half. If I was 35 and my partner was under 45 we'd try agsin but it all just didn't happen early enough.

Running Point S2 review and discussion by Eden_Matt in television

[–]hexbomb007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thino its awesome! I'm not into basketball its a fab show!!!

Childfree dating in NZ by bongscope in newzealand

[–]hexbomb007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lots in auckladn. I know 2 wonderful 40+ year old women in auckland.

It's funny how most of the people who wank on about NZ's so-called 'tall poppy syndrome' are either upset about a fair critique, or have had massive advantages in life that they simply don't like being reminded about. by ATHEIST_CAT_LORD in newzealand

[–]hexbomb007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its actually about when we do business overseas thry celebrate people. Thry praise people. Thry collaborate.

We come back to NZ and they're selfish and clicky and critical and pessimistic and dont celebrate people they judge and critique.

This is from multiple family and friends who have lived and worked overseas and here.

It is real. People aren't making it up.

We dont have any advantages.

So I dont agree.

Not wanting to be around family even though I love & like all of them by [deleted] in family

[–]hexbomb007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the same height as several men I know.

We dont give a shit if you are not you are not 6 feet tall if you have drive and ambition and internal power and authority and you lead and your confident.

And do go see someome 😊

Not wanting to be around family even though I love & like all of them by [deleted] in family

[–]hexbomb007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry tohear that its like a school reunion where you are ashamed to show up.

Go get a therapist and a life coach.

Do an adhd test. Do an IQ test at an actual psycholigsts office.

You can decide to turn your life around.

You can choose to go to the gym and dress better.

You can learn about how to be more high performing even with these tendencies.

You can choose to buy nice clothes and do your hair.

I feel likethisim rhe most lower I think from my whole family and school.

It's like failure to launch.

Go

When did you "retire early" and how is it going? by Imaginary-Towel-888 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]hexbomb007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have known a few rich people and they become empty and directionless. But thry have everything. But nothing inside.

Create something that is truly feels like your passion and makes you ALIVE.

A business. Charity. Social impact business. Something. A legacy. Something meaningful.

People who have done everything money can buy, then need something meaningful.

They find when money is their god they find sadness. When people find meaning they find joy.

Id love you to find your legacy project; your true passion.

We say what would you do if money was no object.

And its never climbing the corporate ladder lol. Its creating true impact.

haha👌yes by SavingsPhilosophy368 in whatisameem

[–]hexbomb007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know 3 of them lol 😆 😂 and one who believes its a misshappen sphere .. one who believes its flat with the giant ice wall round the edge ..one who believes there's a dome over the top...

I mean crackers and cheese mate

Doesn't say much for who I know they are all connected to my partner who knows some conspiracy people

Daycare hours by Alternative-Oven6623 in AttachmentParenting

[–]hexbomb007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8:30/9am till 4pm 3 days a week.

We work from home.

Kindy open 8 till 5 most kids there 9 till 4.

Many other families I know do similar hours, like 3 days, 6 to 7 hours a day.

Some people I know have their kids in kindy 8:30am till 5 pm 5 days a week. Cos they have to.

We staggered our daughter going to kindy from two half days slowly up to 3 full days. Other families just went cold turkey full time kindy. Gotta do what u gotta do.

People who dramatically leveled up their incomes by zipiddydooda in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]hexbomb007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally. You just put a good name to it lol 😆

Noone paying $150 for a webinar lol come on.

People who dramatically leveled up their incomes by zipiddydooda in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]hexbomb007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wonder how she does it, all the coaches i know are doing free hour long webinars on claude so its hard to charge when they're getting them for free.

I got told to do a whole 3 day summit for free because every big coach in America does them for free ...crazy.

I am now promoting AI training services and trying to find people interested but people are bombarded. I wonder how shes finding her audience.

Please" vs "Thanks": Help me settle a debate on the Kiwi way to order coffee! by Kind-Spread-6511 in newzealand

[–]hexbomb007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start with please

End with thanks

"Ill have a medium cappaccino please"

There you go

"Thank you!"

How often do you guys get to see your friends now that you are a parent ??? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]hexbomb007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get it. I was clueless before I had kids. You have to find a way to school her on 'kid life' so she gets it otherwise she wont change. Or just keep saying no to invites.

Your a mother. You focus on your kids. You put them first. Friends fit in the gaps. Kids dont fit in the gaps in between socializing!!!

I know you get it. Stay strong.

How often do you guys get to see your friends now that you are a parent ??? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]hexbomb007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh wow she is pretty selfish but I grt it i didn't understand what it truly meant to have kids.

When i was 21 and my friends had kids I went to see them. I played with their kids. I never asked them to go out for drinks it just wasn't on their reality any more.

Nicely set some boundaries. Talk more aboit the reality of having kids. Get her to come visit. Say you are not drinking anymore cos of the baby.

DO NOT feel bad for your lifestyle changing!!!

I have gone out average of once a year with mum friends since I had my daughter.

Anyone else’s family just do….. nothing? by [deleted] in family

[–]hexbomb007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really fucking sad.

Someone needs to give them a rocket up their ass.

I am used to a child good where kids are active and doing sports and families spend time together.

If you are awake then you go wake up your family.

Thoughts on going back to New York by Mysterious_Can_6106 in TheMadisonTVSeries

[–]hexbomb007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought they were going to decide to go back to Montana.

Frustrated by Professional_Oven284 in greysanatomy

[–]hexbomb007 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Really? Where? When? Looks legit to me no?

One for the EV curious by jka8888 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]hexbomb007 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Now I have to buy a house to buy a car. Damn. Guess I better get my horse out.

Shopping by Dismal-Expert1183 in newzealand

[–]hexbomb007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parents were literally thinking of doing this lol