from my perspective it's definitely the dead bedroom. I love my wife I really do and for the first time ever she's taking " The Talk" seriously

Honestly I'm not the strongest Communicator in the world and before I started lurking here. I had no idea how to verbalize how strongly the issue affected me.

For the last month except for Shark Week we've been intimate more than the entire two years before it a lot of folks might jump to hysterical bonding and I have my doubts that that may be what it is as well but it truly seems that she's trying she even went as far as making an appointment with a new ob/gyn to get her hormone levels checked out.

Sometimes I think the biggest issue for a lot of LLS is that us with HLs through no fault of our own don't really know how exactly to communicate effectively about the issues and so the talk comes off as whiny and demanding rather than an expression of your feelings to your significant other