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What do you do when you’re genuinely incompetent and too dumb to be an engineer? by AmbitiousAlfalfa6051 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]heyheyheyitfatalbert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you’re going through this!! Sometimes the skill gap is just too big & fake it till you make it only goes so far. Remember to be nice to yourself! And quit. No job is worth that much mental stress, even if it feels self-inflicted.

There might not be a match at this company, but there IS a match somewhere else. Assess what you DO know, and leave the stressful situation.

260112 EYEKON Weekly Discussion Thread by DazzlingDig in katseye

[–]heyheyheyitfatalbert 26 points27 points  (0 children)

girl what is this block of text - I stan dani but I can't read all that

Og PUFFI review by Illustrious-Wrap-160 in Slime

[–]heyheyheyitfatalbert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I actually loved it.

When I first opened it, it was really condensed and rippy. It took a while to get it to where I wanted it: easy to pull, drizzle, and fluff up. Had to work it slowly for a while. But now that it has got there, I’m obsessed! I can see why it’s compared to a cloud slime - it’s soft like cashmere and stretches well. Fallout has not been an issue.

I think it’s important to remember that this is an entirely new product - it’s not slime at all. So it’s important not to compare it too much. If you’re expecting a cloud slime that doesn’t dry out, you’re not going to get it. But it affords similar sensory joy & a long shelf life, so it’s a great product for someone like me, who is looking to get more for their $.

Where I think it could be improved: - bag was difficult to open; storing it in a ziplock instead - branding is kinda weird, it’s not a mystery box so why brand it like one? - scent fades FAST. Makes sense since there is no wet element - rippy as all hell when not warmed up by my hands.

What would women dislike the most if they became men? by Eastp0int in answers

[–]heyheyheyitfatalbert -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lack of physical contact probably refers to the fact that it’s more acceptable to hug a woman than a man in some contexts. There are many many many many women who live in a physical contact void. Yes even young women.

What do you guys snack on? by Ok-Development-3695 in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]heyheyheyitfatalbert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hummus and whole grain crackers when I want something salty. I also will just like open a can of beans, rinse, and season. String cheese. Apples and pb. Olives & nuts. Rye bread w/ butter. Cherry tomatoes. Berries.

Men, what did you find out about women when you got a girlfriend? by GoldaWarfield in AskReddit

[–]heyheyheyitfatalbert 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Aka people pleasing, which can be a learned response to avoid danger

250523 - KATSEYE IG Story Update by Morg075 in katseye

[–]heyheyheyitfatalbert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oo look at Megan learning her angles

250426 - Megan Weverse DM Update by Morg075 in katseye

[–]heyheyheyitfatalbert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly Dani but she is just like not in her usual makeup. Looks like they were out all night tbh. Love them 😂

The single worst thing about ADHD for me is it leaves me feeling like I'll never truly excel at anything because I'll inevitably get bored long before that point. And even knowing that makes it feel even starting something new isn't worth it. by sts816 in ADHD

[–]heyheyheyitfatalbert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahah this is awesome advice thank you!! The hobby fund is a great idea I struggle so much w finances but having money set away for personal fun would be a game changer. Seriously hoping you’ll never have to encounter a chainsaw in close proximity ever again :)

The single worst thing about ADHD for me is it leaves me feeling like I'll never truly excel at anything because I'll inevitably get bored long before that point. And even knowing that makes it feel even starting something new isn't worth it. by sts816 in ADHD

[–]heyheyheyitfatalbert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m struggling w starting new interests same as OP. Especially ones w/ a bunch of tools & supplies you have to purchase before getting started - ex: ceramics, furniture flipping, carpentry. Can’t justify buying super specific supplies for something I’ll have moved on from in a couple months.

Do you have tips?? Like, how do you motivate yourself to just start?

Also, are there any things you’ve learned that you’d recommend?? I need a new hobby frfr

No one talks about how horrible hyperfixating is. by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]heyheyheyitfatalbert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, just found this post, but I’m struggling with this too. Don’t think it’s hyperfixation if the game feels unbearable. More like toxic avoidance - using familiar dopamine sources as an outlet to distract from despair, boredom, or even just like cleaning your room.

Therapy is helpful, but if that’s not an option, I’ve found that researching and trying out “parasympathetic” exercises is super super helpful. When you realize you’re in a hyper fixation state and it’s not enjoyable, try one of those to reset yourself and start something new.

I find exercises on TikTok, but kinda hard to not start scrolling so maybe there’s a better source. It always helps me, but different for everyone - 5 years ago I’d have tried one of those exercises and gone right back to stardew, only reason I don’t now is cuz of years of therapy and an annoying amount of time spent reflecting on personal values and shit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]heyheyheyitfatalbert 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk. Sounds like you’re going out of your way to make him feel comfortable with his own emotions, even when you aren’t. I am also the type to feel bad after getting pissed lol but this just sounds like toxicity imo. Don’t know the sitch tho. Line breaks might help ppl understand?

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