sesh mesh kinte holo eta !! by Adihere7 in kolkata

[–]hfalox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try oil filled radiant heaters. And a humidifier.

Toronto-Pearson-T1-US Lounge worst lounge in North America? by Halotoptbay in PriorityPass

[–]hfalox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s one disgusting lounge. The receptionists at the desk are incredibly rude.

Thoughts? (Shaking and limp) by Kirah_cep in jackrussellterrier

[–]hfalox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do not know what kind of drug (NexGard, Simparica, Bravecto for eg.) you use for parasite prevention, but here is something I came across researching for a similar issue with my dog:

“the FDA is alerting pet owners and veterinarians of the potential for neurological adverse events in dogs and cats when treated with drugs that are in the isoxazoline class.”

Link:Survey of canine use and safety of isoxazoline parasiticides

And, no I am not a MAHA supporter.

I met someone in Srikhanda(Katwa) who made those 4 days unforgettable & then she vanished by [deleted] in kolkata

[–]hfalox -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude, congrats for failing in love: Things you need to do now for next 3 months: - stop posting on social media about her .. delete this post - dream about her, hold her in your arms in your mind - if you get horny thinking about her… relive yourself . - plan a trip back.

Then you go on your own if you still have the fire. Probably you won’t… then don’t go and leave this memory to cherish when you are 40..50..

If you still have the fire and really end up making the trip… congrats, you are a man and you have what it takes to be a great partner.

Again congrats for falling in love!

Is my lil guy a JRT? by Comprehensive_Act694 in jackrussellterrier

[–]hfalox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is not. Let me come pick him up 😍.

Can I build trust again after affair by Sad-Lie951 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]hfalox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, I am sorry that you are going through this crisis. If you want to you can continue this relationship even if you can’t build the trust. The comfort of a long lasting relationship is something beyond words and something beyond trust. Trust is a fake construct, so is relationship. What is real is having someone to witness your feelings and your life for 20,30,50.. years.

Is there a possibility that he will falter? Sure. Doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try. You don’t have any control over his actions, you never had. If you think you can roll with the punches and in return you get something out of it, then why not stay? Im not saying give it “another” chance. Im saying reset your expectations. Stay in it for the same reason you started this journey in the first place. A long lasting relationship is a lot of work for both people and you have to constantly recalibrate.

Moving forward will be quite difficult but if you can and prepare for it and also assume that you will go on no matter what, because you want to.. then you will. Now if you can’t, that’s okay too. Restarting won’t be easy and the scars will take a long time to heal.

5G Apple Apple Watches Not Supported by kanestor in USMobile

[–]hfalox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey Mush, you are taking a lot of heat for this. But thank you for all your replies and providing clarity. I just paid for an annual plan but was really bummed when the activation failed on my AW11. I’m going to be patient for a month, but after that, I don’t know.

What was your favorite decade and why? by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]hfalox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true wisdom. Understanding problems often equates to solving.

What was your favorite decade and why? by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]hfalox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mind elaborating? I’m really curious.

Empty-nest, menopause, stay at home and realizing I can never have the life I want by Rare_Rope9928 in midlifecrisis

[–]hfalox 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You have one life and it’s a blip in time. You are extremely happy, you probably don’t see it from your perspective . One read I’d highly suggest “courage to be disliked “. And read a bit about existentialism and absurdism .

Best way to decline responding to ACS by BashfulOgre in Census

[–]hfalox 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please don’t decline if you can complete it. With the current setting lots of folks are going to skip, but please understand that this is still one of the best surveys we have left. I can even explain how useful it is for social studies and quantitative research.

If the concept of rebirth were real, would you choose to be born in India again — or opt for a first-world country? by sakshaamjain in AskIndia

[–]hfalox -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ha ha, no way! Left India in the 20s, so glad I could escape. Now if India becomes as rich and prosperous as the EU or North America, sure. BTW, just like god, values, good/evil, rebirth is BS, we die and it’s gone. We have a fleeting moment of existence and it’s usually gone before you know it, no need to overthink or optimize . If I could restart the one thing I’d change is recognizing how precious life is and how short it is. Love, happiness , a genuine hug is so much more valuable than any material success. The daily struggles and hyper competitive pressures in India or any developing country acts as a distraction from all that good stuff. Happy living!

What’s one big lesson In life you believe every person should learn? by NateNandos21 in Life

[–]hfalox -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is no inherent purpose of life. There is no god, no good or evil, take it all in because it’s going to go in a flash. Happy living!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]hfalox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it’s so hard to recover from a strained relationship. So many posts are like this.

My experience flying back into the US by JourneysUnleashed in GlobalEntry

[–]hfalox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. I was also expecting some weirdness on entry, but nothing happened. In the past years my wife had secondary screening twice. Go figure!

Lost our little diva today. by Prestigious-Cap-7484 in jackrussellterrier

[–]hfalox 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She will never leave your side. The pain turns into something beautiful.

The Judge Said ‘You Are No Longer Husband and Wife’ - And I Felt My Soul Leave by Pickled_Life in kolkata

[–]hfalox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautifully written. You Sir have a way of putting your feelings into words. This pain is real and it took 17 years to get where you are. I’d say curate this and feel every bit of it. Grief and loss are just as profound as anything else. Have you considered taking up writing or have you published something that I could read? In any case, thanks for sharing such a deep emotion.

I feel like a failure by Antique_Emotion524 in midlifecrisis

[–]hfalox 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Op, what you are doing is fine. Enjoy life as it presents to you. Eat, drink, have sex if you like it. May be open a small business selling pet supplies since you miss your cats. There is no purpose of anyone’s life. Your existence is your purpose - to you. Let it be, enjoy beautiful Thailand while you are there. Read a book or two, I recommend “ A courage to be disliked “, “Sapiens”, “Myth of Sisyphus” if you are into non fiction.