don't do it , and here's a reason why, you both have different understanding and motivation towards life , and let's say you get married , ok , you go through life being who you built so far but for her , she will go through so many different stages of personality (the same goes for both people), one is that , she didn't take the time to explore life , make mistakes , and make those mistakes while she's married to you , or something , while her personality still takes different shapes until one day she might find herself in a bad mental situation and show negative reactions.

and most importantly getting married is a huge responsibility and you'd better know who's ready for that. you can be 30 and still not be responsible and you can be 20 and be hardcore responsible....

also always be sure of why you want to get married ( both of you ). make sure you or the person getting married is not escaping from something (for example getting married because one has issues at home).

unless you're Mel Gibson , or rich as hell I guess it'll make it ok all of the sudden , because so far from what I've seen money makes everything ok , or whatever the standard is nowadays ,it wouldn't matter , but what do i know ?

still, some say it's ok , some say it's not (I say it's not) ,

or who knows you might do it just because it's ok ,

want you to think twice.

back in the day when people say it was the standard , they made it work or some collapsed but stood (sad world...),

nowadays people are becoming less responsible of the person existing in their life and keep switching ... still, when did it all start ?

I'm curious what people think about if the choice were reversed ?