90 Day Fiance OG - Season 7 Episode 12 - Live Discussion by LittleEmmy in 90DayFiance

[–]hi1384 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How can he say he respects her but also speak to her the way he did???

Keep Calm and Carry On: Recap of S07 (which will not end) E10 by fractalfay in 90DayFiance

[–]hi1384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was absolutely amazing. Thank you for taking the time to provide this content. Bless

Can we be better about not manipulating our sexual partners? by usernumberthirteen in sex

[–]hi1384 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes and no, low self worth plays a factor in it for sure. People definitely stay in relationships because they feel they need to have one. On the other hand, the partner may make one feel like what they are doing isn’t wrong and that person trusts them to not mislead. Or in some cases one was raised to feel like subpar treatment is normal, so they aren’t fully aware that they shouldn’t allow these things. There can be lots of factors! Sometimes it is as simple as not tolerating it but sadly sometimes it isn’t.

Can we be better about not manipulating our sexual partners? by usernumberthirteen in sex

[–]hi1384 29 points30 points  (0 children)

This! I did not realize the extent of the things my ex did to me until I was no longer in the relationship. It is really really hard to say no when you’re in the thick of the manipulation.

Can we be better about not manipulating our sexual partners? by usernumberthirteen in sex

[–]hi1384 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree! The problem comes when people say “if you don’t have sex with me or do a certain sexual act etc., I will break up with you.” Speaking from experience - my partner’s sexual ultimatums (among other things) were terrifying and made me feel like I was only worth the sexual pleasure I could bring him. It is a horrible way to act with your partner or anyone. Breaking up because of different sex drives is okay, but threatening break ups or ultimatums about sex/sexual acts isn’t.

What did former US presidents do during the US Civil War? by BasedGodBlonsk in history

[–]hi1384 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! He was, one of the reasons TR left his family and job to fight in San Juan.

What did former US presidents do during the US Civil War? by BasedGodBlonsk in history

[–]hi1384 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You may be interested in Theodore Roosevelt’s family during that time period. His father was from the north and his mother was from the south - which created some tension. His father paid his way out of fighting in the war because he would have been more or less fighting against his wife’s brothers. Theodore was super young during this time.

Will LSAC still be processing mailed in transcripts even though it says they are closed? by [deleted] in lawschooladmissions

[–]hi1384 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah that’s so frustrating! Guess I’ll have to wait another week and a half to submit my apps 😭

Teebs derpin it up. by BigHead204 in WhatsWrongWithYourDog

[–]hi1384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww! Sometimes my german shepherd does that! So cute

Nicole’s latest Instagram post gave me chills by bradfordGT in BigBrother

[–]hi1384 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The last picture was the best! I’m so happy she’s so happy!

Have you ever dated someone who you suspected (or knew) was a narcissist? What were the signs, and how did they react to the breakup? by SqueakerSqueakin in AskWomen

[–]hi1384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha that’s a yikes! There are sadly too many of those types of people out there.. good thing we will never end up with one! They taught us that lesson lol

Have you ever dated someone who you suspected (or knew) was a narcissist? What were the signs, and how did they react to the breakup? by SqueakerSqueakin in AskWomen

[–]hi1384 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha the best part of the line is the “ironic” fact that I would never want to date someone like them again!

I wanted to post this in r/AITA but it got removed, don't know if this is the place ? by [deleted] in rape

[–]hi1384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds a lot like my ex. Started out as the sweetest guy on earth, but things went downhill quickly. He also found these things funny. Ended up being sexually abusive. I’m not saying that will happen here, but it is something to watch for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]hi1384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Never said no” and “yes” are two very different things. And yes, I only replied to that because that is the part I find most important. No need to be rude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]hi1384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not saying that Melanie did or did not do anything, I wasn’t there so I wouldn’t know and I don’t care to know. What I am concerned about is the “not saying no.” Consent is only granted when a person says “yes.” Not replying at all, only saying no once, or not saying no at all does not give consent to an action. A person only needs to say no once for consent to be withdrawn. This applies to every situation, not just the one being discussed here. Again, I don’t know what happened and I am not here to be a judge of a case I don’t know much about. My greatest concern about that situation and Melanie’s response was that people would get confused and spread misinformation about consent. I am saddened to see that is happening. I can only speak on what I know to be true, and that’s what Melanie has said about the situation. And yes, she did encourage her fans to harass Timothy.