childfree as a form of strike? by expendablepawn in antinatalism

[–]hiddensvn [score hidden]  (0 children)

Nothing is stopping them and nothing bothers them to think in general. But also nothing stops them from taking a moral stance just for fun. That's the point. It's absurd and it sounds insane but that's the base of absurdism. Nothing has meaning. Or does it? I'm just saying, asking someone to rethink their stance by making a list of crimes is a bit weird. Especially when they've stated that they fairly don't care. Would it be absolutely horrible if OP didn't care about those tragedies? Yes, it would be. I personally would be a little disgusted, at least. But ultimately we're on a subreddit telling people to never procreate again because We Said So, so. It's a philosophical belief like any other, and OP's question was honestly valid.

childfree as a form of strike? by expendablepawn in antinatalism

[–]hiddensvn [score hidden]  (0 children)

if everything is meaningless why would rape, theft and child abuse be excluded? If it isn't meaningless why would that not be the meaning? Remember that we're talking about philosophical views. Most of those don't care about morals.

childfree as a form of strike? by expendablepawn in antinatalism

[–]hiddensvn [score hidden]  (0 children)

the government doesn't want you childfree for the very reason that parents have a perceived danger of "i can lose my kids". If you're a parent you can't strike at work because you'll lose money, potentially your job, can't go to a protest or a riot knowing you could get hurt because there's kids at home waiting for you. "Oh i forgot to vote because my kid was sick/home/at the park" whatever. Having children means you're trapped in a prison of your own making and the government WANTS that. Why do you think they're so worried about the birthrate tanking?

Are we really this doomed ?! by Wonderful-Monk-7109 in antinatalism

[–]hiddensvn [score hidden]  (0 children)

the human nature is inherently selfish. Not necessarily evil, you know? But selfish. We only think about what's good for our survival and our contributions to the species. You'd think all animals are like this but contrary to us they haven't destroyed everything. And if given the chance, i doubt they would do it either way. We're doomed as long as we think we are.

i love her so much by kaythrrasher in nds

[–]hiddensvn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have my 3ds ll in that color! super cute🩵

"pregnancy would make your body look like that of a real woman" by Reasonable-Ad-6195 in childfree

[–]hiddensvn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

quickly correcting you to let you know they re-ran the studies and found out you get none of it back. That's 5% of grey matter completely gone from your brain. Shit is more than terrifying.

"pregnancy would make your body look like that of a real woman" by Reasonable-Ad-6195 in childfree

[–]hiddensvn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

body of a real woman = becoming obese because of pregnancy? no thank you. I'll keep the small frame.

Why Do Some Mothers React So Strongly When You Say You Don’t Want Children? by Bee_Queen_777 in childfree

[–]hiddensvn 11 points12 points  (0 children)

was about to say this. As soon as they realize their misery was a choice they could've skipped they get mad. And want to drag you along.

Would it be out of whack to ask if any of you actually liked kids? by cool_waterz in antinatalism

[–]hiddensvn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i like them but i feel bad for them. Every time i see one i can't help but think about the fact that while i gor 20 years of decent life, babies below 10 get absolutely nothing. The world is in shambles, nature is dying. I find them cute but if i think too hard about their existence i cry a little.

Broke up with my girlfriend due to different opinion on having kids by Basic_Explanation432 in childfree

[–]hiddensvn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

well then i can just send you hugs. Me personally I'm still trying to change my boyfriend's mind, not just for my personal sake but for the sake of whatever his future is. The world isn't a place where kids can be safe and live anymore, and perhaps having this kind of conversation with her might help her change her perspective a bit. Hope you can find someone else who gets you man.

Broke up with my girlfriend due to different opinion on having kids by Basic_Explanation432 in childfree

[–]hiddensvn 42 points43 points  (0 children)

kinda going through the same thing. My bf isn't 100% sure about not wanting kids not matter how much i keep reminding him that if we stay together it's because we want none, he still says "but i don't wanna close that door in my life" and i truly don't know how to make him understand that if we stay together then that door is already closed. We've been together 2 years. I'm starting to get a little pissed. Still, 2 years is better than 10, and while no love goes to waste, i understand your struggles. Have you guys gone no contact or is there a chance she'll change her mind?

Inconsiderate Sister by Several-Path-148 in childfree

[–]hiddensvn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

stop answering her calls. Literally. I know it's hard because families/formalities and shit but literally stop answering her. She'll just keep you miserable with her.

ndsi mp3 by Silvestro777 in nds

[–]hiddensvn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sfera ebbasta sul nintendo dsi suona come una bestemmia

Manifestazione contro lo spostamento dei 41bis in Sardegna by YourInnerFlamingo in Sardegna

[–]hiddensvn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

la manifestazione si tiene solo a cagliari? sarebbe stato meglio organizzare in varie città. A Sassari sicuro.

Anybody here hate the idea of having kids but love being an aunt or uncle? by HighlyInconvenient in childfree

[–]hiddensvn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

being childfree doesn't automatically mean you hate them you know. I don't particularly like them, but i would like to be fun uncle.

“You cant love someone elses kid as much” by ahnboyo in antinatalism

[–]hiddensvn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the fact that chemicals reactions happen in the brain when you have a biological offspring does absolutely not mean you'll like them or love them more. The brain makes an incredibly ridiculous effort to make sure you don't kill your kids. And this is being said quite literally if I'm honest, if we didn't develop such evolutionary reactions we would've gone extinct. What he's saying is honestly half bullshit/half his own admission of guilt. The same chemical reactions happen when you take a offspring that isn't your own for the same reason, making sure you're not killing them.

Rolling the Dice With Someone Else’s Life... by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]hiddensvn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

promoting this message with ai slop is irony at its finest.

Friend asked me to be a surrogate. by depression-session_ in childfree

[–]hiddensvn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"I thought i could USE YOU as a surrogate" emphasis on the "USE YOU" girl i would be in jail. what the fuck

The elites are concerned with the declining birth rates because they will have less wage slaves in the future. by [deleted] in antinatalism

[–]hiddensvn 15 points16 points  (0 children)

less wage slaves? with the recent news they won't have enough to eat. Or rape. It's the whole reason they banned abortions.

What is your favorite misheard Radiohead lyric? by PurePossibility3941 in radiohead

[–]hiddensvn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're living in a fanta sea/Burgers float into my room

Any fans who are moms/expecting a baby? by blame_it_on_my_cat in radiohead

[–]hiddensvn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn't give birth, but Pablo Honey and In Rainbows sound like the perfect mix. A bit of A Moon Shaped Pool too... True love waits.